When I found the pleasure of Urethral play

During my last pregnancy I was put on "vaginal rest" at 19 weeks and for a very sexually active couple that is hard. Especially for me because I stay very horny while pregnant. I could not take anything in my vagina because of complications I was having. I kept my husband very happy with oral sex but it left me out in the cold. One day I was masturbating my clit and the tip of my finger slide over my urethra...it felt so good that I started doing that every time I masturbated.

After the birth and I was healed we went back at it full swing. I had been doing research on urethral play in the meantime but I was reluctant to share with my husband, even though I consider myself very open to new things I have always found it hard to tell him things I want to try. He is very open as well so I'm not sure why I have this issue. I finally opened up the idea to him and now it is something we do every time we have sex. I have explosive orgasms now whereas before it was hard for me to have a full blown orgasm even though I love having sex with him.

I don't want caths I want something bigger...his penis. I have heard that it is possible to stretch it out far enough for this to happen and we have stretched it far enough for his thumb to slide in and out comfortably but I want to feel him inside me. My question is am I alone in this or are there others that have done or want to do the same thing? Man or woman.

Joco=fun, there used to be a lady on the Internet who was able to accommodate rather large objects into her urethra. In fact, if I remember correctly, those items included a penis. I tried to "google" some info on her but was unsuccessful. Perhaps some of our senior members can recall her name. The videos were absolutely unbelievable.

Rain, thanks for replying. I have seen the video as well just don't know what she used to stretch it that far. I would like to find out but I may just have to keep stretching by his fingers. We are very clean when we do this and have not had any problems with infections so far. I have found some speculas online you can buy that range from small to large maybe we should start there.

She is know as "The Amazing Tye" It is amazing what she can get into her urethra, bu also amazing she hasn't died of an infection.

While I'm sure you're not the first person to have this desire I feel compelled to say (as I have countess times before), if it's not sterile, it shouldn't go in the urethra. I am a lover of urethral play myself, so I know where you're coming from and I understand how great the sensations from urethral play are. But I'm also a patient who is on the waiting list for a kidney transplant. My kidney disease has nothing to with urethral play, but believe me, you don't want to end up where I am now. As the end result of a worst case scenario, you could be in my shoes.

You say that you and your husband play "clean". Clean isn't good enough, not by a long shot. You could easily develop a UTI and those pathogens can migrate to the ureters and to the kidneys. If that pathogen is resistant to common antibiotics, you're in a world of hurt. His thumb isn't sterile and neither is his penis. If you read the other threads about urethral play, you'll find that most people play with sterile catheters and sterile sounds. Those that make use of aquarium tubing and such things are asking for trouble.

One of the medical professionals on this board can speak to the following issue better than I but have you considered the anatomical consequences? To my knowledge, the urethra doesn't have the musculature that the vagina or the anus have. It would seem logical to me that after a period of time the urethra wouldn't "snap back" to its normal state. If the urethral sphincter was involved in this stretching regime, you could become incontinent.

At the end of the day, the decision is yours to make. I would weigh the options carefully, kind of your own risk/benefit analysis. For me, the benefits don't come close to outweighing the risks.

My partner and I enjoy all kinds of urethral play, from catheters and sounds to more involved pleasures. Sterile techniques are always a must, and so is a gentle approach. It is truly amazing how much pleasure we give to each other. UTIs are indeed serious, any play needs to be thought through completely and care must be taken to mitigate the infection risk.

I think I saw the Amazing Ty in a movie titled "Dueling Pee Holes". She and another girl took turns exploring their urethras with all sorts of toys. It was a low budget video, but pretty extreme, and super hot.