Another cute article I found, also thought some of you might enjoy. With this one however, I have added in some of my own points here and there along the way. Please feel free to do the same if you would like, if not, might give you some interesting ideas for later on. Have at it kids.
Masturbation. It's a solo act. And we all know that one is the loneliest number. Perhaps that's why some women don't take care of business that often (or ever). How very sad. But wait! Masturbaters know that that getting it on with yourself is a good time. Like really good. Sometimes the number one is just right -- solo, me time, all about you -- oh yes.
Masturbating -- no matter how often you do it -- doesn't have to be boring. You know how sometimes you can get stuck in a rut and the only kind of sex you have is missionary at night right before bed? The same could happen with your moments of self-love. The three minutes with your finger doesn't have to be confined to your bedroom. In fact, pleasuring yourself should sometimes have some bells and whistles (could be kinky!). Here are 10 ways to masturbate. Perhaps you'll try one. Or all.
1) While fantasizing about a celebrity. (I think I used to before I met Doc, but haven't since, no need to, he is my celebrity.)
2) While fantasizing about a stranger. (Not masturbating in front of a stranger, but have about a stranger examining me.)
3) After reading erotica -- anything ( Well hell ya, isn't that why you go to sites like eroticliterica in the first place?)
4) While on the phone, talking dirty. (Absolutely, Doc and I only see each other every 3 monts, phone sex is very hot!)
5) While watching porn. (Don't enjoy watching porn much anymore, for me it's a case of real life is better than fiction 100 %)
6) While rubbing up against a pillow. (After 4.5 years of having the pleasure of rubbing up against 7 thick inches of hot studly man meat, rubbing up against a pillow would do absolutely nothing for me.)
7) While pinching your nipples. (Oh yes definitely, he loves to watch me do this over the cams, the right one is is favorite, mne too.)
😎 Right before you have sex with someone. (No way. I may play and finger myself a bit because I know it turns him on to watch me play with my naughty bits in front of him for a bit when I have him tied up and only inches away unabe to do anything about it at the present time, but never climax by my own means when we are together in the same state. That would be a HUGE waste of our precious time together. We can climax by our own means when we are seperated by milage. No way in hell I'm going to waste a big O producing it myself, that's his territory when we are together.)
9) Right after you have sex with someone. (Hahaha, no way. One evening I was able to make Doc cum 4 times and had a 5th dry cum. Another night he being the stud he is lasted 1 hour and 45 minutes, not even joking, that night I came about 4 times. Needless to say, after we have sex with each other neither of us need to orgasm again, and propably wouldn't have the energy to do so again anyway, lol)
10) While listening to some sexy music. (nope, can't say that I have. When I masturbate I don't think of it as romantic or even sexy, but more of an animalistic desire, and a means to get me through until I am able to see Doc again. I would think sexy music would have the opposite effect on me in that situation. Now, if we are together I would love nothing more than to pop in some Barry Manilow, Air Supply, Chicago, or Styxx while we are making love, but that doesn't interest him at all. I have mentioned that to him numerous tmes and I always get the same response, "not my thing hon" My rule with him is I ask 3 times, and if all 3 times are a no, then I stop asking, and that's the end of it. I already ask 3 times. So very sadly for me, that part of what I would consider a part of a highly romantic and sexy night will never happy for me.
Romance yourself. You deserve it.
How many of these have you tried?
Mashie