Doctor, patient or both?

My choice is to be a patient. I prefer the ability to step back and let the doc lead, to feel like I'm being cared for. However, I do have the background and knowledge set to play the role of the doctor. But that's something that I want to offer to someone who I've been chatting/playing with before, never to be requested out of the blue.

I really enjoy playing both roles. I think being a patient gives great insight into what to do with your patient when you are the doctor.

I enjoy both roles equally well...both have advantages and disadvantages. However, it seems that I find more people who only will do the patient role, so I am thrown into the doctor role more often than I would like, unfortunately.

Definitely the patient.

I'm in control of myself, and others, 24/7 with work, home, and other activities (nothing sexual), and once in awhile I want someone to take control.

I like both roles, but prefer being the patient.

I would say I prefer to be the patient about 75% of the time. I've always had a stronger preference for being the patient, but my mood will change. Work is a big influence. Right now, my job requires that I be the decision maker and the one in charge. So I fantasize about letting someone else have that control more often these days.

I very much am the patient, that perspective is just who I am. Also it is where my medical fetish started for me, with realizing how I felt about being examined as the patient. As I continue to explore my interests in this area I am becoming more intrigued with the other side and being the doctor. Sometimes when I think of my interests and desires it is from both the patient and doctor perspective, but more than not it is the patient role that I return to and is the most exciting for me.

I've played the doctor but prefer to be the patient.

I actually went the other way compared to the OP.

I was always the doctor examining a female patient. One of my patients talked me into turning the exam table so to speak. She was the female doctor examining me. I enjoyed it very much and enjoy playing both roles.

Both for sure.

That transformation had happened to me about 6 years ago. I tried playing the role of doctor and while I enjoyed it at the time, I came back to the realization that I am too submissive, and I prefer my natural role of patient.

I can dish it out and take it I love both

I think I have experienced some kind of transformation as when I started with my fetish my role was to be the doctor, never the patient. During these years I've moved to a different position and today I think I enjoy the same to be the patient or the doctor.

I have played the role of doctor for a very long time. About two or three years ago, I had met someone who invited me to come for a weekend play session. We started off with me as the doctor and she as the patient for the first three sessions, but then she asked if I would consider playing the patient role. I thought about it for a bit and decided to try the patient role (one of the factors being that she was a trained nurse). It was a different experience to be sure. I think I was more interested in observing what she was doing and how she was doing it to be truly in the "patient mode". I m not sure if I would try it again, but with the right person, who knows.

No transformation yet.......Doctor 60% Patient 40%

I am most definitely more geared to being a patient.

I'm in control all the time in my day-to-day life that, for the time during a play exam, I enjoy being at the mercy of someone else.

Mostly doctor but with he right play partner ive been patient too

I'm good with both. Variety is truly the spice of life.

Very much the patient, even though in the BDSM world, I usually Top. Occasionally I'll play doctor.

Good morning all ..I would definitely be both ..a Dr and a patient .. I would lose 've to give someone a good exam internal the most and then I would love to be a patient of course

I.am definitely not dominate so the patient role is totally natural (and very enjoyable) for me. It would be a major transformation for me to play the doctor.

I'm totally like hawky. Always in control during the day, so I long to have that stripped away and be at the mercy of a strong authority figure.

I do not like being a patient.I am always doctor during play. Same with BDSM i am a dominant !

I do not like to be controlled by others!

~Cookie

I'm a patient for sure. I love being examined, especially if I'm an in-patient and can't leave a hospital, I like a shrink who makes the rounds. My bed already has straps.

I never like to be told what to do. That's why I was grateful to have avoided military service.

I mostly agree with the original poster's feelings on this. When I first joined Zity, I thought of myself as enjoying both sides about equally. But I've found that most women on this site are far more interested in being the patient (many exclusively so), so I almost always find myself playing the doctor. That actually works just fine for me. Even though I have switched before and would do so again, I've definitely come to embrace it as my primary role.

I said before many times in Zity this for sure: Doctor only ! Female patients only !

Patient only for me!

At first, I preferred the patient's role, I had some experience with male doctors, but finally today I feel more attracted to the doctor's role, it's very exciting if you can find an open patient.

I'm not into doctor patient role play. I have to do it for a living so it doesn't interest me. I wouldn't want to play the doctor unless I got paid. I certainly wouldn't want to play the patient. I'll just have to play with myself. LOL