Do guys shy away because of

Do guys shy away from females for fear of them finding out about their love of diapers?

Or are there other factors involved.

No, would give it up for the right girl 😜 even better if she was into it.

Well i am sure if your single this is not one of the easiest things to break to a partner of any gender. No.1 your worried about rejection. No.2 even worse is the fear of them telling the whole world if they thought you were a freak for it. I am incontinent (long story) but at the time this happend to me i was dating a girl. Before this we never had problem. When this started to act up on me, she couldnt handle me being and needing diapers. After that heartbreak of mine (not really lol) I started seeing a few different women in my life. Some were ok with me needing them some were not but understood. So for me now i just stay single seeing its much easier then trying to figure out how this person will react with me needing diapers at nite only now. So i will not say i shy away from girls because of my diapers , but i dont advertise it to them either. You would be amazed how easy it is to hide untill the time you two sleep together. Thats when i run into problems with this.

I would love to find a woman that I could be friends with and be able to explain my reasons for wanting to wear cloth diapers and plastic panties and to be treated like a baby/toddler,but I know I've got to win her trust first. My main problem is just trying to meet women that I can be just friends with,but because ever since I was three the only way i could think about girls and women was as a baby and the girls would be my mean big sister or a mean cousin that would like to play baby with me and make wear cloth diapers and plastic panties and eve make me dress as a baby/toddler gird with short baby style dresses that would let my plastic pantied bulky cloth diapers show from under, or women that could be my strict mommy or aunt and force me to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants because I act like a .baby. As of now I am seeing a sexologist who understands and accepts the way I am: an adult who deep down is a three year old toddler. The latest try was a Human Sexuality Group but alas there is no groups for Adult Babies or Diaper Lovers. It seems that we are way too out there.

I wouldn't say shy away entirely but being open about that is pretty difficult. Folks who haven't experienced usually do not understand it and often equate it directly (and wrongly) to issues with children. It's not something which can be casually brought up either.

I shared my interest with two women, one I thought I was going to marry and years later the one I did. Neither reacted negatively but neither wanted anything to do with it either. From what I've read on here my experience was better than average.

My experience with 3 different girlfriends have been bery good. If presented properly diapers are no big deal. It is a big deal only for us, for "normal" people it is just a piece of clothing.