Enemas and Embarassment

How many feel that embarrassment is part of the process which leads to arousal. Mom discussed enemas in front of neighbors , bathroom door sometimes open etc. So as an adult do any of you have similar experiences or others that you might not like to admit but feel you need or want to enhance your pleasure

I think it is a big part in all aspects of submissive fetishism. Having someone seeing you in a state of play whether it be being given an enema or say being treated as a baby adds to the excitement. It is that aspect of "pushing the boundry" all the time that keeps the excitement going. Having been lucky enough to have played out most of my fantasies in real life the "need" to do these things diminishes or, I suppose you could say, dulls. So if you have not been watched in the past it is another avenue to try.

Yeah...What a wonderful feeling!....

Yes. the rush comes from a delicious mixture of embarasment, shame, excitement, pain,and pleasure. and it is experienced through all five senses.

Embarrassment and shame make up a very large portion of the eroticism for me.

My partner sometimes opens the partially drained bag to let a lot of air in, then she will turn it over and force the air up into the hose so it gets injected with the water. Then later when I expel that air it is horribly embarrassing and she makes a big deal about it, too.

For embarrasement , I remember as a kid getting an enema and always my mom and if she had a helper would stay in the bathroom while I emptied. Then I couldn't flush until what I'd dumped was examined. One time I remember my momma telling our neighbor how hard my stool had been earlier when she had washed my insides. She made me stand in front of her and both of them poked and prodded my stomach. Finally they decided they felt something and I was subjected to another filling with the neighbor lady squirting soapy water up in me first with a big old enema bottle. I don't remember what kind of tip it had but as I recall it seemed to go really deep up in me each time before she started to squeeze. It seems like she squirted water up in me three or four times before momma stopped her and put the enema tip from the bag in me. I think that was the first time momma made me take more water than what the enema bag held all by itself.

The bit of embarrasement is part of the whole experience. I remember as a child when we went on holliday my mom would tell all our visitors that I have not passed anything for days, and would need an enema soon.

This would freak me out totally, as I didnt want anyone to know. Later it would be part of the whole process.

Today I still like my partners to start by asking my about my bowel movements, upon which Id reply that there wasnt much happening. They know the best answer is that they would have to give me and enema that night....

So the bit of anticipation and embarrasement is part of the whole build up to

Sadly I lack this experience, because I don't remember there ever having been a real embarrassment between me and my enemates; at most a merely simulated one as part of a play.

However, even if only once, I also experienced at least one aspect of this feeling. This occurred in a rather critical situation, where I had to give an enema to a young man almost unknown.

At that predicament there was absolutely nothing erotic about, the poor guy was dying of shame and I was acting like the most unperturbed of nurses.

Nevertheless, I realized to my great surprise that the young man's genuine embarrassment was awfully exciting.

Embarrassment and submiting are very exciting feelings. That's one of the reasons I feeling being watched while you are pooping makes it all the more full an experience.

I agree about what bookworms said in regard to what you expel being examined. You feel sort of possessive about what you've pooped out, and to have someone else looking at it makes you feel ashamed somehow.

I have always loved the whole ritual of the enema, and especially, those feelings as a child of excitement and embarrassment that began with mother's announcing that I would have an enema always added to, and intensified the pleasurable feelings of the process. I loved the vulnerability of undressing, the first feelings upon seeing the enema bag, the gentleness of my mother's touch and the encouraging words that she spoke, as well as the special, almost exhausted feeling of being totally cleaned out both physically and emotionally after the enema was over. These are memories that both excite and enhance my recent experiences.

Probably being held on my back, legs up, for mom's lubricated finger and the black nozzle to penitrate me easily. It was better after I was "promoted" to the left side position at 7.

I am turning 65 in a few days. I just had a embarrassment which a female nurse told me to take my underware and shorts off and put this gown on with the open side in the back. I was told to sit on the end of the table and she would be right back. She brought in a set of stirrups and put them on the table and told me to lie down on my back. Next she told me to scoot to the very end of the table. She procedded to than put each of my legs in the stirrups that were spread wide. I never thought I would be having my legs wide for a female to look at all there is.

I think that there is some degree of embarrassment and submission if one is having a enema with a partner. This makes it all the more fun and erotic.

Enemas are and always should be a health procedure and embarrassment should not be part of it. However, the full feeling and any other stimulation is certainly a huge bonus. I must agree that having a partner administer them makes them erotic and a lot more fun. How can you be embarrassed If you trade positions and give one to your partner? The embarrassment might come when you stink up the place!

For me its all about the embarassment of receiving one, of exposing your self so intimately to someone you don't really know. The whole preparation to the actual enema, including the lowering of boxer shorts, is extremely exciting to me. Not to mention having to expel the enema in front of someone!

The slight embarrassment leads to the eroticism that leads to the intimacy!

The first time I went to the colon hydro therapist I was bought very excited and very embarrassed , but the person was very relaxing and very progressional was at ease wright away have bin going back for over a year now and just love how it makes me feel . Have even got my wife to go and she likes it a lot also now to get her to give me enemas and for her to trust me to give her a caring and loving enema.

I think the embarrassment for me with a eMate is the release of the enema and what comes with it.

But what really turns me on is the preparation of the water the lubing of the anus and insertion of the nozzle. And of course the filling up!

There is always some element of embarrassment with getting an enema. It does not bother me that much if the giver wants to watch as I expel the enemas I get.

Albert

Over the years after what I outlined in #13, the embarrassment factor eased away. The biggest recent helper has been a colon hydrotherapist of my 60-plus generation who grew up with frequent enemas and acts very nonchalant to ease concerns and fears of those new to colon therapy.

As others have said, the embarrassment, humiliation even, and submission are large parts of the pleasure of being given an enema by a sex partner. While anticipating and actually receiving the enema, the high state of arousal overwhelms the embarrassment.

After the enema and the sexual relief of orgasm and ejaculation, the embarrassment surges to the fore. It both heightens and disturbs the feelings of relief and satisfaction. I cannot describe it exactly, The feeling of embarrassment, at having submitted to the enema and having responded to it so obviously and powerfully, is both wonderful and painful - the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.

I get the same powerful, conflicted emotional response when my wife enhances a masturbation session by massaging my prostate while she jacks me off. The orgasm and ejaculation are mind-blowing but the feeling afterward is bitter-sweet. I am never going to do that again - I can't wait to do that again!

I do not think I want to talk about this with a shrink!

To me is when I have taken a good enema on my 6Qrt JBL Sit on enema bag & was able to hold the entire 6Qrts of liquid

& started to make it to the bathroom when all of a sudden I had a major cramping pains which made me release & some motion

ended up on the carpet in the bedroom & I had a quick clean-up & then put a diaper on & it happened again. I went through 3 diapers

that night. What a release.

Shane

I made my mom promise not to tell anyone about my enemas,or I'd run away from home

I don't know that I would take an enema in a situation where I don't have complete privacy. To me, that's one reason for laxatives, those situations where you would prefer an enema but can't get the privacy.

I didn't really get enemas as a kid.

I wouldn't call enemas today "embarrassing". In my opinion, taking an enema is largely about surrender. The recipient doesn't get much to say about volume, solution, or retention (I prefer very, very full, good and soapy, and retained for at least 15 minutes). That's certainly submissive. But it's never struck me as embarrassing.

But, as they say, different strokes for different folks.

I do think a large part of the enema thrill is the embarrassment. It is just about the most humiliating thing one can have done. The vulnerability and loss of control is arousing both as the subject and the giver.

I'm a longstanding switch who loves being sub to my partner. Embarrassment and humiliation when getting an enema from a Domme partner is a great part of the thrill of it for me. And either my real ex-partners or current fantasy Domme did/do a great job of verbalizing and accentuating my humiliating sub feelings while she's Domme-ing me.

I had extremely few enemas (maybe even only one or two ever) from my mother as a kid but was never embarrassed. I enjoyed them too much.

OTOH, though I don't embarrass easily, being actually embarrassed by someone unexpected other than my partner is a big no-no and very unpleasant.

Eric

Absolutely embarrassment is a part of the process> hearing at the doctors that you need an enema seeing the preparation mom discuss on the phone or in person. Was always the embarrassing part for sure!!!😃 Having someone else that knows you are getting one other than the giver is pure embarrassment and a turn on😃

Embarrassment was not a significant factor with my childhood enemas. If mom discussed them with anyone other than my grandma (her mother), it was when I was not around. Since grandma had a bulb and bag I assume she took enemas herself, gave my mom enemas as a child, and therefore taught her how to give comfortable yet effective enemas to me and my sister. My sister and I got our enemas in private but we both knew the other got them. We even gave ourselves and each other small enemas for fun. I guess I would have been embarrassed if it became widely known among my friends that I actually liked getting an enema. Everybody said they hated them if the subject came up between friends or relatives.

With my husband, it was not embarrassment as much as apprehension about how he would take finding out that I was into enemas. Giving and receiving enemas as a married couple is not embarrassing but there is certainly a level of control or surrender of control involved. Once you start an enema, you are in control of the giver for a period of time. Some people have a problem with that. That is why some here will readily give someone else an enema but do not like to receive.