Is reality not as good as fantasy for you?

I've had numerous medical encounters, hospitalizations, & operations. For me the memories of the situations are actually a lot more pleasant than the feelings at the time. Although one of my fetishes is being naked while the nurse/female doctor is doing something to me, I very seldom got aroused when it actually happened. The only emotions that actually surfaced were embarrassment & feelings of humiliation when nurses or female doctors did procedures to me. I had an accident & while I was in pain, I felt embarrassed and humiliated, not aroused when the nurses pulled off my pants and shorts. When I got an erection being shaved the embarrassment was far worse than the arousal. But more often I wouldn't feel anything at the time. During a physical, the genital/rectal exam nude would go by too quickly. I wouldn't get aroused while having a bed bath or shower.

So how did others feel when your personal fetish actually happened?

I feel exactly the same.

The more embarrassed i feel during the exam the more arousd i feel when i get home and remember it.

If my medical fantasies were to come to life, the doctor involved would probably lose his license to practice, and we don't want that.

As many of you know, one of these years I will be having a kidney transplant. I understand that part of the pre-op prep involves an enema. For some of you, that would be a dream come true but for me it's a horrific thought. I just hope the nurse takes me seriously when I say I have trouble retaining. Maybe I should have her call my medfet partner and get the straight skinny before she starts.

As they say, reality bites. I'm not sure I'd want my fantasies to come true, then they wouldn't be fantasies anymore.

Aside from routine physicals and low-risk procedures like having a mole off, the times when I've been at the mercy of medical providers has been quite stressful and not at all erotic. I've 'enjoyed' some of the low risk ones however but never like play. The two have a distinct difference in my mind.

I have had a major operation in the past and did not get in the least turned on by it. However I am very excited thinking about the medical fantasy, for me it is more about being at the mercy of the stranger and what he is going to do to me, the humiliation of seeing me in the most vulnerable way. Maybe I enjoy that because of my submissiveness and get off on the fact he is in complete control.

I hate being examined either for real or in play. A number of my regular examinees tell me that they do like having a real exam but much prefer a roleplay encounter where they can just relax and enjoy it fully

Real exams are never as good as role play exams. Reality is always disappointing as you always want the doctor to go further than he ever does. Role play exams are how one wishes the real ones to be.

My fetish developed while at the doctor. I've never really done a play exam, so the only time I am really exposed to it is when I am actually being examined by the doctor.

Non-play medical scenarios aren't erotic to me at all.

I can separate real medical experiences from medical fantasy / play with no problem. meeting an mhs doc does nothing for me.

For me, as a writer with a medical fetish, reality is always preferable to fantasy: because it's grounded in reality. If I want X or Y to happen, I use my imagination overlaid on the real exam room, the real doctor. Or, having lived in NYC, I find the real doctor willing to do a scene in his office or otherwise twist things, which is only doable in a ghetto like NYC admittedly. This is no different than anything else that I have written or write (see blog?). I start with the real, the experienced, and move from there.

Do I get 'a raging hard on' during an office visit? No. But once home....

I'm usually overly nervous in real clinical settings. However, these experiences really feed my fantasies once I'm back home.

For me fantasies are always better than reality, unless it is a play exam.

The actual exam always leaves me feeling embarrassed and humiliated. I can never wait to get home . By this point I am very , very aroused and love to remember every little detail about it . My fantasies then really do come to life .

Even RL medical exams and procedures that tickle my fantasy bone don't really fulfill my needs. The medical professionals are usually preoccupied with patient modesty and I'm preoccupied with my health.

The fantasies later can be intense as are the recreations in play exams.

Reality is seldom as good as fantasy, or even memory. In a real situation, at the time, there is usually some anxiety, the care provider proficient and professional, and it is all business. when you are in a different surrounding, your mind reinterprets what happens and it memory becomes fantasy.

Reality is seldom as good as fantasy, or even memory. In a real situation, at the time, there is usually some anxiety, the care provider proficient and professional, and it is all business. when you are in a different surrounding, your mind reinterprets what happens and it memory becomes fantasy.

Reality is seldom as good as fantasy, or even memory. In a real situation, at the time, there is usually some anxiety, the care provider proficient and professional, and it is all business. when you are in a different surrounding, your mind reinterprets what happens and it memory becomes fantasy.

This is exactly how it works for me.