Face slapping

I don't like it, but my new partner does. He wants me to do it but I have a hard time doing it. It's kind of to get his attention not to hurt.

Personally, I love it. When I first got into BDSM, I was very very limited on what I liked. I didn't want anything that hurt but after time, things changed. I still am not a masochist by any means but there are some things that are painful that I enjoy and face-slapping is one of them. Here is my story: my Mistress (irl) met up with me a few days after Christmas 2020 because I bought her some Christmas gifts and I wanted to give them to her personally. So we arranged to meet up for dinner and exchange gifts. She had a gift for me too. I knew I had been “misbehaving” lately and asked if she could slap me in the face for it. She said, “I'll think about it. I mean, I could but is it really punishment if you're asking for it?” I said, “Yeah, if you do it harder than you normally do.” She said, “Well, I'll think about it.” As she walked me to the car, she (without warning) grabbed my hair and pulled it HARD! She said, “You will NOT tell me how to punish you. I will decide when and I will decide how! Is that understood?” I said, “Yes.” Then I hugged her and then she slapped my face - I was in heaven. I loved it!

Never been slapped like this but feel it shows great submission to master.

I always hated to see face slapping going on during a pornographic movie. A woman would have to request and beg for it, but I would never do it otherwise (it is kind of like the first time a woman asked me to pull her hair while spanking her on the but).

As an adult: I had this happen once during a discipline session, but it was a very light, attention grabber type slap, not a cheek stinger. All of the actual hard smacks were applied where they belong, on my bare bottom. I didn't resent it the way it was done, but I would definitely resent a hard slap. I think it should definitely be discussed in the adult context, it can bring about very intense feelings.

As a child: My mom slapped my face once growing up, and she immediately apologized and felt horrible. From then on, she only smacked my butt, and this she did even into my adult years. These were single smacks on the seat of the pants, not spankings…. although she did spank me as a young child. Although being slapped on the face was not as embarrassing as being smacked on the butt, I would definitely say slapping a child across the face is wrong, and unnecessary and can create hostility in a child.

Not my cup of tea. To each their own.

Not happening I would file charges with the police

“Never smack anyone in the face- Nature provided a better place. At least, bare hand to the bare behind cheeks!”

I couldnt do that,even if she wanted me to

No, nope, not at all. It's a hard limit and I have warned playmates and doms that it could bring a strong reflex action that they might not want or like. I've had a few that forgot and gave me a light smack which brought the play to a halt. This must be discussed before play especially if with a new player. Hair pulling or choking is a strong second

Face slapping is a hard limit for me.

It is a big no from me. It is just violence for me. So many better places to places to place a sexy slap.

FACE SLAPPING SHOULD BE A BIG NO WHEN IT COMES TO ANYTHING IN THE WAY OF SEX!!!!! ≤== This was shouted for a reason. I wanted to emphasis my point.

Face slapping can cause very serious injuries to the one who is slapped. It should never be done to anyone in a sexual activity. It does not matter if the person who is slapped is a male or a female.

The only time that anyone should slap someone in the face is in self defense. For example a male who is attempting to rape a female. Then perhaps the female should slap the male in the face. Or, better yet, if she has the opportunity to do it, give him a good hard kick where it will hurt the most – right between his legs and aim for his balls. So, what if you rupture his balls doing it. He probably deserves if for attempting to rape you.

No, I have never tried to rape a female and I will not do it. The only times I have had any sex with a female is when she said it was okay and wanted it. So, if you are wondering – – No, I have never been kicked in my balls and I do not ever want to be kicked in my balls.

😕 OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😞

Not for everyone, but for some face-slapping is part of the BDSM scene. Not that much different (and probably safer) than ball-busting, cunt-busting, whipping, caning etc.

https://theartofsubmission.com/lesson/face-slapping-101/

“Slapping, particularly on the face, is one of the most intimate acts you can engage in a BDSM session: outside of BDSM play, it is almost universally an act of violence Because of this, face slapping is for a lot of people an extra-special form of kinky deviance. This is what makes it such an erotic and desirable form of play, but it is also why you must be incredibly careful. Enjoying being slapped and having it instigate a serious emotional response are not mutually exclusive either.”

http://www.femdomz.com/video/demona-faceslapping-U2QRPcl6OGO.html

I recall well the indignity of getting my face slapped as a kid. Face slapping is a dehumanizing action to most any individual. I was a young teen and said something I undoubtedly should not have said to my mother. Her response was to slap my face instantly. I promptly apologized and admitted i’d been wrong in what I said to her or in how I said it. I left immediately to spend needed time alone in my room.

Things continued to be frosty between mom and I for days. it took my wise father to get me alone for a talk as I told what had happened and that I had in fact apologized already. Mom had failed to even mention that apology when she told him of the incident. He apologized for her and said she was dealing with some things, but thanked me for being the first to apologize.

So, face slapping for me - a definite NO from anyone ever again!

I recall well the indignity of getting my face slapped as a kid. Face slapping is a dehumanizing action to most any individual. I…..

So, face slapping for me - a definite NO from anyone ever again!

Some childhood experiences are claimed to cause - or plant the seed - for a fetish. Many folks here can relate their spanking/enema/medical and numerous other fetishes to some childhood experiences. But for some, the same or similar childhood experiences resulted in an absolute abhorration for those activities. I'd suspect (no pyschobabbleist here) that a lot depends on the context, the aftercare and other factors surrounding the event(s). The hurt that results after the event - lack of empathy or communication, can flavor the event negatively and leave a lasting revulsion to that activity.

You have to remember this face slapping is being done in a sexual context between consenting adults. It is different than a punishment or as a deterrent between parent and child. It is different than a spouse/partner just hitting their spouse/partner.

It is an agreed upon activity that both find acceptable to add to their own personal sexual experience.

I have been slapped a few times ,mostly as my wife has me giving her oral on her strap on,,,if I’m not doing a good job she has pulled me off as I was sucking her off slap my face and tell me is this how she trained me to give BJ’s ,,,very humiliating putting me in a deep submissive place

I concur with “never slap a person in the face, the Lord provided a better place”. For any type of discipline, why would you venture away from the buttocks, they are the perfect place to carry out discipline— well padded, full of nerve endings and able to receive the discipline. I know “to each their own” but for most people this would be a violent act. I had a friend of mine get slapped by a girl at a bar one time for coming on to her. It was very humiliating for him.

Me and my partner are switching dom sub he's had me slap him for a good number of times now I'm going to be the sub so sometime next week I'm going to get slapped in the face he's already told me

My mother would always slap me, I hated it. I would have preferred a spanking instead.

My mother would always slap me, I hated it. I would have preferred a spanking instead.

That's fu**king terrible Amy93, and also child abuse!😈

I see an older man every wednesday night who enjoys being with me enough that he always gives me $100-200 before I leave but he is totally dominating with me which I don’t mind being a sub bottom. Several times when I don’t please him or do what he tells me to he makes me sit in a straight back chair and grip the sides and he slaps me back and forth multiple times. I do exactly what he tells me after that.

I would NEVER face slap or spank my my wife!!!!!

She is the one who does BOTH to me for foreplay AND punishment 😃!

My stepdad only slapped me in the gave when I was 16 and he and I were arguing about me getting spanked. I said some pretty mean things and pushed him with both hands and he like slapped me in the face, and before people start…it wasn’t like a punch just a hard slap and it brought me back to reality. I stopped talking back and actually said I was sorry and then he told me that he accepts my apology but that I needed to learn my lesson.

In a previous relationship, after being together for 5 months, my girlfriend was really angry with me and slapped my face after I called her a bitch. I told her then that I did not like that and if she felt like punishing me for something to spank me but not slap me in the face. That started a few years of belt whippings from her. She never slapped me again but whipped my ass frequently and hard.That b rought out the kinky streak in her

As masochistic that I am, I love being flogged, cropped, spanked etc., all over….except my stomach, and do not come near my face.

Over this weekend my Domme friend and husband “beat me”. This included floggers, crops, paddles, hand spanking etc. On safe parts of my body, no joints, bones or face.

To each their own, but for me, even in a sexual play scene, no, no, no face slapping or body punching.

To me, face slapping has always been synonymous with anger and has no place in bdsm play for me. It has always struck me(pun intended) as a knee-jerk reaction to an insult or perceived injustice. Unfortunately, I have to confess doing it once to my step-daughter when she was mouthing me off, and always regretted it.

But to each their own. If it works for you in a relationship and it is something you both agree on, then rock on.

My current gf and one past one like it. Initially I was very reluctant to do it but after doing it a few times I got over it. im still not into it but it’s no problem for me to do it if the other person wants it.

At one point in my last relationship I tried to get him to be a bit rougher. I knew instinctively that trying to explain my kinky fantasies wouldn't get me anywhere, but figured telling him to smack my ass would be progress. I don't know if he panicked or misunderstood but when I asked him to spank me while we were in bed, he slapped me. It stung but didn't really hurt, but I can't say I enjoyed it and made that clear. That was one of the last times we were together, but we're still friends. Someday when I figure out how to prescreen for kink and ability to follow instructions, I may try dating again.