Facials -- Do you like a man to cum on your face?

@Amethyst , I am in total agreement with you! There is a place for everything and everything has its place Lol !

Not my face or hair !

So cool,so glad to know it is okay to not like cum on my face or in my hair.

I dont know why but I like it on my tummy it makes me giggle,plus I like to see it come out.

Peace,

Caz

NO! He is very polite and never shoots cum anywhere on my body without permission. During oral sex he squeezes his thing during orgasm to keep from squirting in my mouth.

While I generally do prefer the 'Big 3' places to cum (inside her), and that's probably where it goes 99% of the time, I would like a lover that wants me to cum everywhere, her face, hair, everything. I like being drenched from head to toe in her squirt juices or pee, so it's nice if that 'reveling' in my lovers body is returned.

Its never a deal breaker or anything, it's not that important to me and i might never do it... it's just more of a total acceptance of our bodies and what they do during sex kind of thing.

@Amy K said

NO! He is very polite and never shoots cum anywhere on my body without permission. During oral sex he squeezes his thing during orgasm to keep from squirting in my mouth.

He sounds more constrained in his activities than polite especially since you said this:

I dislike intercourse, afraid of something going wrong and getting pregnant.

When people are having a sexual relationship isn't it pretty easy to solve a pregnancy problem?

NO! He is very polite and never shoots cum anywhere on my body without permission. During oral sex he squeezes his thing during orgasm to keep from squirting in my mouth.

I'm not with this...How does he squeeze his thing during orgasm if it's in your mouth?

I do not have an aversion to it but I do not want it in my hair and I just do not get the all over the face thing at all.

I think the all over the face thing mostly just happens on porn sites. And in the hair for women is not good at all.

So cool,so glad to know it is okay to not like cum on my face or in my hair.

I dont know why but I like it on my tummy it makes me giggle,plus I like to see it come out.

Peace,

Caz

On the breasts is nice Caz and you can watch it come out at the same time...lol.

I'm not with this...How does he squeeze his thing during orgasm if it's in your mouth?

@Dr_Philip Uh, pinch the urethra at the base. Not every millimeter will be in her mouth.

I think the all over the face thing mostly just happens on porn sites. And in the hair for women is not good at all.

It might be, but it is a thing that some women like. And as I said it can be degrading or loving, depending on the dynamic and actions of the couple. Same thing for in their hair.

Although that might be a decision if it's already a 'hair wash day'... apparently that's a thing among women! As a certified male with short hair all my life, it's never impacted how I have sex! 😁 But consulting your woman first is always a good idea.

Never on my face. For some reason I would find that humiliating. No idea why. But cum routinely gets into my hair, which I like, and on my breasts, ass or other parts would be just fine, too. But I'll skip the facials unless it's at a spa!

There is nothing hotter than a girl who will pull your cock back as you are getting ready to pop and at least act like she really wants you to let go on her. Sometimes it all winds up in her mouth, sometimes it winds up on her face or in her hair. We have running water in the house. It is really convenient. Back in the old days it may have looked a bit funny if she had to go and clean up under the pitcher pump on display for any passers by, but with the indoor plumbing, she can wash any signs of it away and no one but us is any the wiser.

@SwitchableSusie

When people are having a sexual relationship isn't it pretty easy to solve a pregnancy problem?

Disparities in health care access unfortunately exist even in our country. If we are discussing consensual sex, condoms are the most available but have a high failure rate. And depending on the state in which you reside the amount of money you make, the state of your health or the insurance you have (or have not), contraception and abortion can be harder to get than it at first seems.

Some people have had bad experiences in both sex and health care and DO fear intercourse and the risk of pregnancy or STI. Sad, but true.

Reggind said

There is nothing hotter than a girl who will pull your cock back as you are getting ready to pop and at least act like she really wants you to let go on her. Sometimes it all winds up in her mouth, sometimes it winds up on her face or in her hair. We have running water in the house. It is really convenient. Back in the old days it may have looked a bit funny if she had to go and clean up under the pitcher pump on display for any passers by, but with the indoor plumbing, she can wash any signs of it away and no one but us is any the wiser.

I am totally uninhibited sexually. I am not at all hung up or repulsed about getting semen anywhere on my body. Reasons for not liking it on my face or in my hair is twofold. First, I don't like it on my face mainly because I want it to stay away from my eyes. As a straight guy Reggind, you probably never experienced that. IT BURNS in the eyes and I just don't like a slimy face. You should see me at the dinner table. I am an extremely neat eater because I don't like making a mess. A slimy body from my breasts down to my feet is just fine. Keep it off my face and head. Second, the reason I don't want it in my hair is because is gets hard and clumpy when it dries. Like you, we have running water in our seven bathrooms among other places in the house, so getting clean isn't difficult. Semen in the hair just makes a mess on me where I would rather not have one. Washing styled shoulder length hair is more involved for a woman than a man washing a crew-cut---even if the semen laced area doesn't look very large.

I don't understand why some guys can't get that.

Nope. Not on the face or in my hair. Anywhere else is welcome with me. It’s too hard to get out of my hair. It becomes rubbery when water is added or something and does not come out. And no...not on my face. Thankfully I’ve never had a partner want to so it’s just never been an issue.

@Dr_Philip Uh, pinch the urethra at the base. Not every millimeter will be in her mouth.

@CJ1999 I know what you mean but it's not an easy technique finding the urethra at the base of a hard swollen penis. Sounds overly complicated to me and easier if she just finishes him with her hand.

@Dr_Philip said

I know what you mean but it's not an easy technique finding the urethra at the base of a hard swollen penis. Sounds overly complicated to me and easier if she just finishes him with her hand.

Trust me, it's EXTREMELY easy to do--for the man or the woman.

Trust me, it's EXTREMELY easy to do--for the man or the woman.

@SwitchableSusie Something I've never tried but I'm always keen to learn....I wonder what happens to the semen and if it would put undesirable pressure on the urethra.

@SwitchableSusie Something I've never tried but I'm always keen to learn....I wonder what happens to the semen and if it would put undesirable pressure on the urethra.

It puts some pressure on the urethra and you also have a partial retroejaculation because the semen has much less space to go and some will spurt out when you release your finger.

My husband says he isn't crazy about the sensation with the urethra completely pinched off. He likes the sensation of the semen flowing through the urethra as he ejaculates with his orgasm.

@SwitchableSusie I have gotten my own cum in my eyes and in my hair, as well as on things behind me. What can I say, I come very hard. I always have. To me it is nothing. I worked on manner of equipment and gotten much worse in my hair, face and eyes than jizm. But if you don't like come on your face, that is fine, it is your face. No one said you had to do it. I don't understand why you seemed to take my comment personally.

@SwitchableSusie I have gotten my own cum in my eyes and in my hair, as well as on things behind me. What can I say, I come very hard. I always have. To me it is nothing. I worked on manner of equipment and gotten much worse in my hair, face and eyes than jizm. But if you don't like come on your face, that is fine, it is your face. No one said you had to do it. I don't understand why you seemed to take my comment personally.

I didn't take it personally. I responded to what you said. In spite of what you said, as a straight guy I bet you never got semen in your eyes. Ask any woman here who has gotten semen in their eyes. They will all say it burns. Your not finding that semen burns in the eyes makes it hard to believe that has ever happened to you. Not wanting it in hair is simply because it is hard to get out without doing a real wash and messing up our "do".

I knew a guy whose girl friend would encourage him to lay on the bed and put his legs back over his head and onto the headboard. His cock would then be over his face and she would masturbate him and he would come in his own mouth. I don't think the term 'facial' existed in those days so perhaps it was called an own goal...lol.

@SwitchableSusie

It puts some pressure on the urethra and you also have a partial retroejaculation because the semen has much less space to go and some will spurt out when you release your finger.

My husband says he isn't crazy about the sensation with the urethra completely pinched off. He likes the sensation of the semen flowing through the urethra as he ejaculates.

Do you locate the urethra at the base of the penis close to the scrotum and use pressure with one finger, or perhaps pinch with two?

@SwitchableSusie Do you locate the urethra at the base of the penis close to the scrotum and use pressure with one finger, or perhaps pinch with two?

You can feel the corpus spongiosum which contains the urethra the entire length of the underside of the penis (especially when it is erect), past the penis and the continuation of the urethra through the midline of the scrotum from the top of the scrotum to the inferior part of the scrotum in most men. There are minor variations.

You would occlude your urethra by pressing with one or two fingers (usually index and middle fingers) longitudinally across the urethra and the base of the penis. You are NOT squeezing the urethra between two fingers. You are using one or two fingers to compress the urethra against the underside of the penis. You can even occlude the urethra by pressing on the midline of the scrotum since you can easily feel the urethra extending deep to the scrotum.

A partner between your legs facing you (like when performing a blow job) would probably use their thumb to compress your urethra and a partner in 69 position would probably use their index and or middle fingers.

If you play with sounds or catheters you can insert them and feel for the catheter, or you can just go in the shower and press different areas while you urinate.

@SwitchableSusie

Thanks for the advice Susie. Good plan to check areas while urinating, easier than during ejaculation. And yes I have sounds and catheters available so can locate with them.

Dr P.

I have to say, I feel like such a whore describing this to you guys! 😁 😁 😁

Have fun experimenting!

I have close to an aversion about facials or having cum on me... not because i have an aversion to semen, but because i want it in me, not on me. To me it is a huge disappointment if the Top pulls out and finishes His orgasm outside my body. And that's what His semen represents to me, His orgasm, pleasure, desire, all transferred from inside of Him to inside of me. For me it's a sort of impregnation and to cum on the outside feels like withholding to me.

You can feel the corpus spongiosum which contains the urethra the entire length of the underside of the penis (especially when it is erect), past the penis and the continuation of the urethra through the midline of the scrotum from the top of the scrotum to the inferior part of the scrotum in most men. There are minor variations.

Now I find that information to be very high level and doctor quality. Susie can amaze and then there are the times she will post something like blot and don't wipe after a colonoscopy. She can go from Doctor to your mother teaching you how to wipe your butt in the blink of an eye. Talk about Versatile!

I have to say, I feel like such a whore describing this to you guys! 😁 😁 😁

Have fun experimenting!

@SwitchableSusie isn't your theme song, "I'm A Hoe"? The whores I know are good women. 🌹

Oh yeah. 😉

I most definitely have gotten my own cum in my eyes and in my hair. That being said, there may be a bit of your body being more tolerant of your own fluids. I really don't recall it burning. I also have long hair. Longer than many females. It may also be that my eyes are just more used to nasty stuff. I don't know why people can't just get that.

I was thinking about this last night. There are threads on this site that go off in some of the following directions:

How to give injections so they hurt the most

All manner of spanking and flogging with items to make it hurt more

How to make bondage leven more uncomfortable

All manner of enema mixes to cause discomfort and cramping

I guess I am just not seeing cum potentially stinging someone's eye as all that out of character for the site, unless of course you have a personal thing about cum on your face.

And that is fine, but please frame it as such. This just seems like the people arguing that pubic hair is not clean when in fact is it just a personal preference but for some reason people don't like to admit that and come up with the ridiculous cleanness excuse.