Conflicted about enemas?

Howdy.

I don't know where else to post this, so I'll post it here. If there is an already-existing thread, I'll be happy to go there. Here's the question:

Is anybody else conflicted about his or her love of enemas or anal play versus "vanilla' sex?

If so, how did that happen? And how are you coping / have you coped with it?

Has it affected your orientation at all?

Has it affected your enjoyment of sex in general?

Is there a real conflict between anal and genital sex?

I am asking because I was given enemas by mom and hated her for them but still got turned on by them. I think the wiring was there at infancy, but I was not able to process the experience. I seemed to be stuck at anal play level for waay too long.

Turns out that being stuck there was probably not because of Mommy Dearest but because I was anally (and otherwise) raped by priests while still in grade school. I buried that memory, though, and had no one to 'blame' but mom.

So, conflict.

Working through it on my own. Looking for ideas from members of this site.

By the way, been tossing around all day whether to take an enema series or not. Probably will. It is strangely like a comfort blanket for me. And exciting, thrilling, and - well, wonderful.... But confusing.

Maybe I'm just Gay.

Thanks,

EnemaChuck

SI was conflicted for years about my enema affairs. As time went on and I found out others were into them, this steadily declined to the point today that it has no bearing on my interest at all.

Thanks. That's encouraging.

Try a few solo sessions and remember your responses. Go from there.

CHUCK:

You sound like the classical victim of religion, both by religion's preachings and being raped by priests, morality and repressed surroundings. None of which is good for a happy, non-conflicted, uninhibited life.

The reason people won't talk about anal activities is because they don't think other people will be receptive to the conversation or the activity itself and/or they are inhibited and repressed.

Anal activities are just fine, and you shouldn't have any personal reasons for not embracing the activities you enjoy. The love of enemas has absolutely no bearing on one's sexual orientation. Just look at all the straight men here looking for women to share their activities.

There is no conflict between genital and anal play. Take all the enemas you want. Enjoy them. You do not sound gay, just brainwashed by bad religion and possibly bad parenting..

THANKS. That about nails it!

Hey dude, if it feels good and doesn't hurt anyone DO IT.

Yes, it does feel good. Better all the time. The challenge of taking more is great. The challenge of holding it longer is great. The feeling of accomplishment is great. And if taking more or holding it longer does not work in any given session, there can always be another one - or more.

Mine have almost always been solo. But I now realize that a good fisting buddy is also an enemaniac. Sometimes he gets so deeply into the enemas that he does not get around to fisting. Sometimes he is so relaxed / wiped out after a series of good enemas that all he wants to do is sleep. Sometimes he is so energized by the enemas that he is off and doing stuff.

Hard to tell what the results will be, but almost always good.

I have finally 'come out' to him as an enemaniac myself. He's out of town right now, but I expect that one day soon we will have some enemafun.

Oh, and I enjoy the coffee enemas, too. Feel very clean and energized afterwards.

Bottoms up!

I think our anal region is so closely connected physically to our genital area that they are connected sexually. Alot of people, men and women, might not enjoy anal play, but it would be difficult to say that they don't feel tinglings in those areas during "normal" sex, intercourse, for example. And for those who are anally erotic enemas would seem a logical fetish to have. Everyone has something they like, from mild to wild, so I don't think it's something one should feel shame for if they aren't breaking the law or hurting themselves or someone else! Barry

Chuck, although Susy's speak is a little rude, I think she is right, completely and definitely right.

I felt like you at my teenage days, due not by bad parenting but surely by bad religion, morality and repressed surroundings.

Take it easy and live happy, enemas are healthy, funny, enjoyable and sexy too. No connection between anal pleasure and homosexuality, almost all of us feels good sensation during anal or enema play, homosexuality is more an emotional matter instead of only physical.

Happy E.

Acquaman