I am not a slave

I am a slave.

Even when He allows me to stay home and sleep, I am still a slave. I am a slave to Him no matter where He is or what I am doing. I am a slave who plans her day to a *t*. I am the same slave who is told that she will do something entirely different than what she planned for herself. I am a slave who shuts up and does what the Master plans instead.

I am also the slave who just for a minute says "but, but", I am the slave who still hasn't learned to shut up soon enough. I am a slave who will someday learn to say Yes Master and mean it, every time, no matter what. I believe in that slave, I know I will become her. She's inside me, that slave is.

I am a slave who is easily wounded and not does not quickly bounce back from a scolding. I am a slave who loves fiercely and forgives entirely. I am a slave who needs her Master more than she should at times, I am the slave who needs to feel her Masters tight grasp.

I am a slave who will become everything her Master desires, I will always be pliable and ever changing. There is nothing I won't become for Him, I am the slave who wears her Master's collar, His wedding rings and His flesh rings.

I am a slave who will never stop making mistakes nor will I ever stop trying to improve for Him. I will fall and I will know He'll be there to pick me up. I will be there for Him as I am a slave.

I am not a slave.

I am His slave.

Very nice. Maybe tomorrow I will give you my take on being a slave/servant to my Sir. There are a lot similarities, but a lot that is different as well, besides that, if he should ever get the chance to read this, he might find it quite endearing.

Time will tell, but I am very interested in getting back to this one.

Mashie

I am not a slave, at least not yet, i think we're still working on it. Consistency really needs to be worked on, for both of us.

i do call myself a slave, however. i wear an ankle bracelet at all times that looks perfectly normal. it was placed there by

Sir as a symbol of my submission to him and i have never taken it off.

I am only a slave when I choose to be. I visit a pro dominatrix who I like very much and play the role of a slave for her and my enjoyment. Before and after the sessions we act normally but once it begins I keep in character as her slave. We occasionally meet for lunch and have a normal relationship.

Don't know if I have the right to reply to this, since I'm a Dom. Much of my relationship with my sub is being friends, lovers, confidantes; when we play, we move into our natural roles. As it happens, my sub is sub in the bedroom organized and strong willed outside of it. That makes for some adjustments from time to time.

Is she my slave??

Yes. But only because that is her chosen role. In this type of situation, it's a free choice. Could she STOP being my slave? Yes, if she chose to do that. However, our relationship would be permanently changed by that choice, since both of us are being "true to ourselves" when we are in our D/s mode. I am Dom, and I really think I was born that way. I didn't learn it, it is just "me."

Is she a slave? ONLY to me. So she's not "a slave," but "my slave." Am I a Master? Yes, but only to her. I am Dom always in the sexual sense, but only Master to one.

What I hear everyone saying is pretty much the same thing. She is willingly "enslaved" to me. And in a sense, as Master, I also am "enslaved," since I choose to do what she NEEDS--which is to receive what I wish to give without regard (sometimes/many times) for her "needs." It's pretty weird when you actually stop to consider it, since the subslave is in control of the relationship in many many ways. It's symbiotic, that's for sure.

Doc.

If you're a slave by choice then I don't think there's any way you are a real slave by definition.

Just sayin'

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If you're a slave by choice then I don't think there's any way you are a real slave by definition. Just sayin'

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When you are "en role" you are certainly a "slave" when you are a slave.

Some people claim to have a 24/7 D/s relationship. My husband and I have some very severe scenes, but we have to work those around vacations, children being home and work. I don't know how a 24/7 Master/slave relationship can possibly happen when people work, have children at home, and have a real life to attend to. People are the roles they choose when they are able to perform them.

Most people have a D/s, S&M relationship at the times during the day they can do it.

You are a slave awaiting the opportunity to belong. I have no doubt that it is just below the surface always, wishing itself to the surface. It's not who you are. It's what you are. I know.

I just found this place, and welcome the opportunity to make friends, have civil discussion, conversations and I hope some of you will take me up on that!

First let me start by saying to little_marco I am truely impressed with your writing. It says, I know who I am, it says, I know what I am and it says, I know to whom I am a slave.

Second: As per Dictionary.com a slave is "1. a person who is the property of and wholly subject to another; a bond servant. 2. a person entirely under the domination of some influence or person."

As per the [color=#388222]thefree[b]dictionary[/b].com "[/color][color=#000000]1. One bound in servitude as the property of a person or household. 2. One who is abjectly subservient to a specified person or influence."[/color]

[color=#000000]As per [/color][color=#388222]merriam-webster.com "[/color][color=#000000]1: a person held in servitude as the chattel of another . 2: one that is completely subservient to a dominating influence."[/color]

[color=#000000]So to say that one who is a slave by choise is not or can not be a real salve by definition would be incorrect. [/color]

[color=#000000]I say this not to anger or insult anyone but simply to set the record straight.[/color]

[color=#000000]Third: Reguarding a 24/7 D/s relationship, I do beleave it is possibleto live it 24/7 as I have friends that do and they both work, she only part time but up to 30hrs a week sometimes and have children as well. Just because it is not hard core (her naked and on her knees) all the time, it is none the less a 24/7 lifestyle for them. There are still rules and protocal that are followed and direction still given when the children are pressant be it a subtel nod of the head or a wave of the hand. It is the responsibility of both Master and slave to make the proper adjustments in order for it to work. Note that I never said it was easy, but they manage to do it.[/color]

"I am not a slave" came from a blog by Master Dream's precious treasure, not written by little_maro.

My comment was maded in refferance to owen24342s' statement that if your slavery was conscentual that it could not be real slavery.

Very very interesting!

Owen said:

If you're a slave by choice then I don't think there's any way you are a real slave by definition.Just sayin'

Stretch said:

. . . . So to say that one who is a slave by choise is not or can not be a real salve by definition would be incorrect. . . . .

That is absolutely correct and that is why I have said the submissive controls the scene.

Once the submissive says "no" to the Dom, the Dom is powerless. If the Dom decides the submissive needs to go packing, so be it, but that has no bearing on who controls the scene.

But for "subby" ends the fun too!!

So both are not interested that it comes to that point ;-))

I do not view myself as a slave, but as a sub. I like to be heard every now and again.