Interesting, even though this Dom/sub thing is pretty brand new for the both of us, I hope you won't mind if I add my own few things to the list that I have found that make me happy?
1)knowing that you are the only one who can control me.
2)knowing you want to control me.
3)knowing you are the ONLY one whom I allow to control me.
4)knowing that I can completely trust you, without a doubt.
5)knowing that you can and do completely trust me, without a doubt.
6)knowing that you know me better than anyone else I've ever known.
7)knowing that I know you better than anyone else you've ever known.
😎knowing that you know what I need and want are two different things.
9)knowing what you want and need can also be two different thins.
10)Loving me enough to control my wants, but ensure my needs.
11)Loving you enough to control your wants, but ensure your needs.
12)Letting you be right...on occasion.
13)Not letting me know I'm wrong on very rare occasions. lol.
14)Watching your willingness to grow, even when "it's not my thing"
15)You ability to over look/ignore, and accept my 1 day a month.
16)Laying over your lap, my pants down c you massaging my buns.
17)You over my lap c your pants down getting an inner massage.
1😎To see your pride as you show me off to all your friends.
19)Looking in your eyes, in person after being away for 3 months
20)Seeing you nervous c a hood on, and quivering c anticipation.
21)That even after 4 years, we can still make each other blush.
22)Knowing I'm the first thing you think about every morning.
23)Knowing I'm the last thing you think about before bed.
24)Knowing you are strong enough to take my crap, but man enough to give it right back when you need to.
25)Hearing you laugh when we are together, something you never did before we met, and rarely do when we are separated.
26)You allowing me to hang all over you privately or publicly.
27)You telling me multiple times a day how much you love me.
2😎The constant smile on my face, even when no one is looking at me because I can't stop thinking about you.
29)You being both strong enough, man enough, and loving me enough to make me face myself first, then holding me and only me accountable for my own actions.
30)Trusting me enough to do whatever I think is best, warranted, and needed to that body of yours.
31)Knowing no matter what, you are always only a phone call away.
32)Knowing that it is ME you have chosen to own you when there are probably thousands who could have,want to, or who might even be better/well versed in the things you want, need, and excite you.
33)The fact that again, it's been 4 years and you still cause me to get butterflies in my belly, blush, get sweaty, short of breath, and weak in the knees when I see you for the first time in 3 months, and even at other times to, like doing normal everyday things like doing that doctor stuff you do so well. Gets me every single time, lol.
34)Coming home from a hard day of nursing my tail off, and you as a doctor really are interested in hearing about my day, every single word.
35)Allowing me to hear about your day, your frustrations, doctor stuff, and making sure that I understand everything you are trying to tell me, and your patience and willingness to explain it when it's medically speaking over my head by a little or a lot,
36)It's when after all these years you have finally started asking me, then once you demanded me, to do to you one of my most favorite things.
37)Embarrassing you on purpose in public just to either make your face red, or get a 'rise' out of you, or both, lol.
3😎Runny my fingers through your hair.
39)Touching and smelling your skin anytime, but most of all the first time I see after months of being apart and right before our long good-bye, when I know we won't be seeing each other for another 3 months. Helps me build a memory to last me for a bit, to help me get through the tough times without you.
My list could go on and on, I'm just getting started, but it's almost 9 AM, I haven't been to bed yet, and I have to be at work at 2 PM. Doc's going to paddle my ass something fierce. Oy Vey! But my last on the list for this morning is.......
40)Happiness is...Aside from our old life of med fet, the "other" personalities we like to tinker with, and all of the equipment, toys and what not we have, it all boils down to it's most simple form, that being Doc and I. So, happiness to and for me is the fact that somehow, somewhere, and for some reason, whether it's God,Karma, Fate, the Stars, or whatever it is you want to call it, something along the way, maybe even years ago before we even met, set us on a path that someday would cross. And when our paths crossed, we would almost certainly know that we were meant to be.
I can't and won't speak for you babe if you should ever get the chance to read this someplace down the road, but happiness is knowing that the person you love the most, more than anything else, is your best friend, is the one you tell your secrets to, share your embarrassing moments with, the one you trust your life to and with, the one who you are proud of, impressed by, the only one who has your totally, heart, mind, body and soul. It's building them up, often at your own expense because they deserve the best, and they deserve the best from you, and what you can do, give, and offer to them to make their road a little easier to travel. Happiness is knowing that I have made him happy and proud of me, that he knows I love, honor and obey him, because I respect him as my Doc, as a person who has a higher education than myself, who is smarter than I, who holds a place in his home community that people admire, respect, and look up to. But I also respect him because unlike a lot of others in his position/station, he's a normal down to earth, friendly nice guy. He talks to everyone like he's known them for years, and he's humble. He holds doors for others, actually looks people in the eyes when he talks or listens to them, and he's honest, usually to a fault. He is my soul mate, my lover, my boyfriend, my best friend, he's the twinkle in my eyes, and the smile on my face. For me, he IS happiness!