Fantasy Enema Rape

Years ago I had a roommate who was frequently constipated and grumpy but refused to admit an enema could help her. One night she came home drunk, complaining continuously how bad she felt, but refusing any help or advice from us. So after she dozed off on her bed, my other roommate and I gave her an enema she surely did not expect or want. Since we sort of had to restrain her, there is probably some lawyer out there who would call what we did enema rape. But we were just like a mother administering medicine to a resistant child. It was for her own good.

My wife rapes me with a dildo nozzle, 2 by 10, when I am asleep on my stomach. She would pop it in and it would startle me. When I startle/jump and she pushes the dildo nozzle in to the hilt. I will be saying ouchhhhhhhhhh. She says the worse is over and start the flow of the 4 quart enema bag. She hears a lot of cussing but makes sure I get my entire rape enema.

As a child, all suppositories and enemas seemed like "rape"

But we need to get this straight - no matter how obssessive/fetishistic you are about them, an enema (or suppository) is never, at any time, under any circumstances, a secual implement in itself. Which is why personally I object to the use of the title "enemas and sexuality" to classify a number of conversations - it gives ammunition to the right-wing extremist censors, and it's spurious anyway.

I don't know that we have thought about "rape". But we often use restraints. And, whoever is giving the enema calls the shots. They decide how much. They decided how hot. They decide how soapy. And they decide how long. Tied or not, the recipient's job is to lie back and enjoy (or not). That's tougher when there's discomfort involved (sometimes big and/or crampy are part of the plan), but it's still what's expected.

This topic gets me very horned-up! would be awesome 2 be restrained/gagged & be given an enema against my will

This is a favorite fantasy of mine. Years ago I dated a woman who liked to be tied up or otherwise restrained during intercourse. She would get very turned on when I described how I was going to restrain her and the ways I was going to molest her while she was tied up and helpless. She would feign apprehension but we both knew she loved playing the sub role. She also knew of my enema fetish, and frequently threatened to give me an enema because she knew it would make me hot and she would get laid. She liked to go into detail about what kind of equipment she was going to use and how she was going to go about it. It always gave me a woody, which was her objective. Occasionally she would carry though, making sure that I realized that I was going to get a large soapy enema and there was nothing I could do about it. Heaven. She was goosey, and almost always came immediately when I put my finger up her butt while we fucked, but she was not into enemas, or vice versa. Once I told her that I was going to tie her up and administer an enema, and she agreed to play along with it, but as soon as I opened the clamp and the water started to flow she panicked and pleaded for me to stop. I realized she was not playing so I stopped and we never tried it again, although I suspect with more practice she might have learned to enjoy it.

Rape is NEVER A JOKE!! it is NEVER a fun thing!!

Anyone who fantasizes about it already has a problem and needs to get into counseling before you hurt somebody because you WILL!

Rape is a CRIME It is NOT a fantasy or a joke!!

Rape is NEVER A JOKE!! it is NEVER a fun thing!!

Anyone who fantasizes about it already has a problem and needs to get into counseling before you hurt somebody because you WILL!

Rape is a CRIME It is NOT a fantasy or a joke!!

Lisa, mellow out. PLEASE READ the original post.

Rape is a fine fantasy. That's what this thread is about. It's not like someone is going to bring in an axe murderer to actually rape themselves or a spouse or partner.

I agree with Lisa. The very thought of rape is frightening. It brings forth the basis for criminal action on the part of the victim.

Too upsetting for me.

I think that it's the actual word "rape" that's the issue here. The scope of this topic at least in what it means to me, is acting out a fantasy of having a loss of control in the context of this specific fetish. This desire for having a loss of control is a common one, where as rape in the violent sense is something really quite different (and yes, criminal). When you're doing these kinds of things with a partner it's assumed that you've both arranged and talked about consent at some point. And of course each arrangement of consent will be different per person - the wiki article on consent clarifies this much better than I can: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consent_%28BDSM%29

And to try to get the thread back on track, yes, the thought is quite appealing.

Thank you for your articulate and intelligent response to this topic, Nefyr. I am happy to see that most of us are thinking along those same lines, too. Another karma point for you.

In any case, Rape is an act of violence. the sexual part is just another aspect of the intimidation necessary to facilitate the violence.

It bares NO relationship, sexual or otherwise, to consensual S&M, done in private between two adults. Not even the most extreme and dangerous forms of S&M!

If you don't understand the difference between consensual S&M, and Rape, even as a fantasy, you at a minimum need to do some introspection.

Enemas DO have a role in S&M!

Lisa, the thread is about FANTASY.

Read the first post.

Not only are we talking fantasy, the start of the thread is about ENEMAS, not SEX. The originator chose to use "rape" to describe the forced enema. Not the best choice of words, as someone posted earlier, but it's what we're using. If you want to debate the appropriateness of rape , as in sexual rape, you can start another thread.

Back to the original posting, I've thought about having a forced enema. Because I have my safe word in place, if my Dom wanted to do a forced enema, I would take it from Him, or at least attempt to take it. I know He would not truly hurt me, and if I used my safe word to stop the scene, He would stop.

Use of the word "rape" intensifies the fantasy and is really the ideal description.

The closest thing we ever came to rape was a consensual non-consenuality scene we had done with a couple we used to play with where the wife wanted that type of scene and her husband, my husband and I abducted her.

The term "forced enema" is a favorite fantasy with me.

The term rape in any form bothers me,however I recognize there is play between consenting adults that does encompass a "rape fantasy," just as I enjoy the person giving me an enema being "in control."

This really came close to home for me when I had to break off with a partner, we were having consensual sex (and enemas). I was enjoying it, because she had initiated the relationship (always a male fantasy), or to put it another way, when you are 68 and a 39 year old woman is really "hot for you" you still don't have enough blood for both the brain and the penis.

I had to end the relationship because of her drug and alcohol use, something I was unaware of going in. When I broke it off with her she filed 1st degree rape charges!

Due to her history, and the realization nothing that wasn't consensual happened, the charges were "unfounded" but it has made me very cautious of ever having another relationship. And now the "system" knows about my proclivity for enemas.... when you're a business owner and involved in local government this is NOT a good thing.

Will I ever get my trust in people back?

Now, once upon a time, I did kidnap someone.... It was our pledge master, back when some fraternity initiations were a bit inappropriate. Like being made to exercise until you were ready to drop, being given salt water and forced to drink it until you vomited! (Later in my life there was a sorority initiation I'll write about in a future post, water goes in a different end.)

Anyway, I finished college in my late 20's, and I had already achieved moderate success in the broadcasting business... and I owned and airplane....

So we "kidnapped" our pledge master, drove him to Beverly, Massachusetts airport, then flew I him to a small airport near Buffalo, NY, we took all his clothes... Yes, he was buck naked, and left him to find his way back to Boston.

The best part, his dad had gone to the same college, been in the same fraternity, and thought we were really "creative."

That was circa 1970, pre-TSA... today we would all be facing felony charges...

Commercial, single, instrument, land & sea... ATP Multi land & sea. 7500+ PIC Certificate of demonstrated ability for color deficiency, so I could never work for an airline. Still own a Cessna 310.

What I best like about receiving is the submission aspect. My wife makes me submit without needing physical restraints, by suggestion, inducing constipation ahead of time, firm persuasion, or the credible threat of something worse. Something worse might be a ruined orgasm: all the flaccidity with none of the satisfaction, heh.

Are you kidding? Does a dog have fleas? I mean, most definitely yes!

I would enjoy it with someone I trust. I enjoy being told that "I am going to get an enema and there is no way out of it if a fantasy of mine. Being tied down and then being given an enema would be a great treat especially if the associated role play is realistic and the giver stays in character.

Although I don't like the word "rape", I have wondered what it would be like to be restrained and have enemas administered to me. I think that I might be able to enjoy the experience, although I would wish for the administerer to be gentle in both administration and insistence.

This thread still isn't about sexual rape. It's about giving an enema to someone who doesn't want one.

This thread still isn't about sexual rape. It's about giving an enema to someone who doesn't want one.

. . . except as a bottom, they probably do want it at least a little bit . . .

I certainly don't speak for any of us here. I do think that the majority of guys would love to have an enema forced on them. It goes back to having been given enemas when we were young and in the midst of forming our sexual beings.

Susie and Zenema--An enema is a penetration of a person's body. If it is done to a person who does not want it, it is a form of rape just as much as if something were put into a woman's vagina. The old attitude that all women want to and enjoy being vaginally penetrated has been proven both psychologically wrong and illegal. The same should be said for enemas given without consent. Parents of minors may have been able to get away with it because it was generally regarded as a medical procedure for the child's health, but that attitude may have changed today.

hankb

I agree with you Hank. I would consider it rape if anyone tried to insert anything into any orifice of mine against my will.

Recognizing that the original post referred to a willing bottom, anything done to the willing can't be rape. That's the point, not whether it's anal or vaginal. If I'm willing you can't rape me, if you rape me it's cuz I'm not willing. In the latter case, beware that I have the potential of dispensing deadly violence in my self defense.

Hugs,

Diane

Yes, of course. it's a fantasy that my wife and I have played at many times. but I still yearn for the real thing. we have tried, many times, to fulfill this fantasy for real. it works like this: she straps me down and gags me. then she has ten minutes to bring me to orgasm (which always erases my immediate desire for an enema). if I cum before the time limit, (and I always do) she is to punish me with a four quart enema. I am always "hot" for the enema when we start playing but as soon as I cum I am violently adverse to getting an enema. (it is this aversion that would make this a enema a "rape".) the trouble is, I always manage to escape, or at least spit out the gag and say the 'safe word' thus ruining the whole scenario. but we will keep trying, and maybe one of these days I will 'get what I asked for'.

Layla:

Your wife simply isn't doing a good job restraining you and she should not accept your safe word since you admit you use it impulsively.

She should give you your punitive four quart enema and spank the shit out of you while you hold it. Any leakage on your part and you are forced to clean up the mess by any means she desires.

I've often thought of getting enema raped by my wife's nurse friends from her hospital ward. We have a swimming pool, and a small, furnished pool house. My wife invites them over every Summer, and a few of them are smoking hot. My fantasy would be for my wife and her friends to coax me into the pool house for a beer or something, then gang up on me and cuff me. I'd be stripped buck naked, then given a series of hot, hospital style 3 quart SS enemas.....just like professional nurses do to their patients..........only my wife's friends would all take turns inserting the nozzle at least 5". I would be placed into various medically correct positions to maximize my genital exposure and embarrassment.

I of course....would be in Klysmatic Heaven during the whole ordeal.....if ordeal is what you call it.