The topic got me thinking.
Until I met Doc I had never done either. About the second or third time we had sex, something gave me the thought of running my fingernails up his legs, from his knees to his balls in the inner side of his thigh. Not real hard, but not soft so it tickled either, just hard enough to leave pink marks for a few minutes. Well then, what a reaction I got from Doc. It was very very obvious that excited him. He was already hard mind you, but scratching his inner thighs made him suck in a deep breath and moan with delight. It also made him harder and drippier. I loved that reaction, mmmm.
That was about the extent of our biting and scratching until 3 years later, last year actually, and again, not sure what spurred this on, but he was on top of me and was getting close so I for some reason and without thought, dug my fingernails into his ass and scratched from the base of his ass up to the top. This made him also take in a deep breath and moan, but it also caused him to arch his back and pump me a little bit harder. I think this first time somewhat shocked him a bit. It caused him to delay his climax a little bit longer. I asked him when we were done what he thought about me scratching his ass and he said, it was distracting, but I liked it.
Okay, so I wasn't exactly sure what that meant, but figured knowing him, somethings take me doing a few times for him to really make or have a real steadfast opinion, so I will do it a few more times and see what his reaction is.
Long story short here, I did it again, and now do it a lot more often. The last time I did it to him I actually broke the skin, which was not my intention at all, and will probably never do again. I don't think I did it too hard, I think maybe I had a rough place on my nail or something. But anyway, now when I scratch him I scratch his butt and back, also his inner thighs, but usually only during foreplay, and never as hard as his back and butt.
I stopped asking after that first time whether or not he enjoyed being scratched like that because I found that from that point on whenever I scratched him while we were having sex it brought out a response that was most favorable and pleasing to me, both mentally and physically. Depending on how hard I scratch, depends on his response. Also, depending on how we are having sex depends on how hard I scratch.
If we are making love, being all sweet and gentle, taking things slow, I will run my fingernails up and down his back and butt softly, but hard enough not to tickle. This causes him to sort of shudder and melt into me a little bit more, and he usually moans softly in my ear and kisses me deeply.
Now, if we are f**king for lack of better terms, well this is a whole different story. At this time when I dig in and scratch him harder it causes a completely different reaction from him. Instead of him snuggling in closer, it usually causes him to arch his back and tighten his butt. He often times will grunt and moan, which for me is a HUGE turn on! It brings out an almost animalistic response in him. It makes him pound me even harder and it makes me feel like he is just taking me, like he's in total control and I am his property. I don't know quite how to explain it really. He's just such a hot study hunk of man meat!
As far as biting goes, we have started doing that to a little here and there. When we had sex for the first time, I practically ripped his shirt off of him to get at his chest, (I'm a chest girl). I love men's chests for some reason or another. Anyway, I went right for his nipples. I could hardly touch them they were so sensitive. Well, this was totally unacceptable to me, lol, since I love love love a guys chest and love even more sucking and playing with a mans chest and nipples. And, he later told he no one has every played with his nipples before and that they were really sensitive and he actually didn't like to have them played with, touched, bit or anything else. Hahaha, what a silly boy. He had no idea then that I was going to pretend that I just didn't hear that.
Well 4 years later, while he still has sensitive nipples, he loves it when I play with them and even bite them. Also about a year ago, out of no place, he bit my ass cheek, and pretty hard too might I add. I was shocked, and very excited. That's so not like him to do something so naughty on a whim. A fantastic surprise if I do say so myself. I guess it was apparent that I liked it and it excited me, lol.
So turn about being fair play as I like to say, I started biting him back on various sites. He's found that it's something he also greatly enjoys and it also excites him as well. Keep in mind whether we are scratching or biting each other, we are not taking chunks of skin off or anything, but just enough to cause that "hurts so good" type of feeling.
So what about everyone else? Anyone else like to bite and scratch, or be bitten or scratched?