Vanilla Ex Wife

Duringing my 15 years of marriage, I shared with great embarrassment my enema interests and related activites of spanking, pegging, role playing, etc...but always got that response of "oh... that's weird stuff." Repect those of you who are married and have a wife who is understanding of your guy's needs, wants, and special fetish activities. No..I didn't look elsewhere as I was a faithful husband. Maybe. post divorce dating will result in meeting that special woman who is more opened minded regarding sexual expressions.

Alas -- you are not alone with the vanilla wife. Over 1/4 century of marriage, and eventually a dismissive "if you want to do that it's your business." (meanwhile she was having fun with my (former) best friend). I encountered a couple of enema enthusiasts in the post-divorce era; now living with one (quite a few years). Everything is slowing down a bit with advanced years, but what sex there is usually is prefaced with a "prostate exam," sometimes with oral entertainment too. My partner can easily be talked into the blue bulb, and every now and then she will go for the red enema bag (not bad for an old guy). -- I wonder if an enema patron with a vanilla wife isn't something like a closeted homosexual -- unable to be who your really are. Enemas were a large part of my sexuality from the earliest memories, and my enthusiasm really was "in the closet" for more than two decades. Not fun. (not me in fact). Seeing my neighbors engaged in enema play one night when I was 14 (saw right into their bathroom window) sure didn't make things any easier later on -- guess I thought that was part of marriage. Live and learn.

My wife pulled a "switcharoo" on me. I talked to her about my enema fetish BEFORE we were married, and she said she was fine with it. She did in fact pleasure me with an enema during a few love making sessions early on. That was a good number of years ago, and now she has decided that she's "just not into them" anymore.......not that she was into them herself from the beginning. Hence, today I'm solo, and in private. Ya, it's pretty frustrating.

I count my self very lucky my wife of 31yrs grew up with enemas as i did we found out about each other intrest early while dating .sure it has slowed some over the yrs but not much we both more solo than we would like but thats life.but we can stil get kiny when we can,also thankful for all the kiny things she has being willing to try over the yrs.