I don't know but I think the majority of (male) diaper wearers are gay, I could be completely wrong but being straight (or possibly heteroflexible) I get the feeling I'm in the minority.
So, what's your orientation?
I am a 37 year old male straight married. I have been using diapers on and off for the past year or so and I find them fun you can say. I don't go number 2 in the diapers I just wet them and wet them only I mainly use in conjunction with wearing a diaper.
Straight Male...Maybe a little Heteroflexible for some things. Married, mid forties. Diaper Lover that has been incredibly aroused by wearing and seeing a female wear and wet for decades.
Straight male early 50's
Wear cloth at home, disposables mobile
I am straight myself.
First, I also thought that the percentage of gay people was higher in ABDL community, but reading most of these posts, it seems I was wrong.
I'm a straight male so far as I know. However, I do fantasize about being with a transsexual (MTF) and enjoying their cock. When I watch porn, it generally involves guys being with transsexuals. So, I am likely bi-curious.
@just me, I once thought I was wrong, sadly I was mistaken ?
Mostly straight, but definitely heteroflexible when it comes to diapers. Outside of diapers, I'll occasionally find myself sexually attracted to another guy, but it's pretty rare and usually more about their personality. I can potentially see myself in a relationship with a guy, but I'm more likely to pursue a relationship with a girl.
As far as diapers go, I'm much more adventurous. I've never had a partner interested in diaper play, so I can't say for certain what I'd enjoy (or be comfortable with), but I feel like I'd be more comfortable being a sub with a guy. I think I'd prefer being diapered by a guy (probably older, to fill a daddy role), whereas I'd rather be the dominant one if I'm with a girl. Perhaps an older lady could play the mommy role, but I don't think I'd be comfortable having a girl my age change my diapers. I think it's mostly a trust thing; a few bad relationships and now I'm scared of making myself vulnerable to a significant other. Can't think of many things more vulnerable than a diaper change.
@SAP no. It is just that looking at other forums, it looked like there were a lot of gay people on it (more than I see in real life).
For me, it doesn't matter which orientation an Abdl person has. Most things I do with ABDL is without a partner anyway.
Well, I think I like being in diapers and I am straight.
You can say that I'm bi curious
I'm an occasional wearer of diapers and interested in all things D/L, I would describe myself as heteroflexible or bi. curious...
Straight. I love the idea/fantasy of a sexy young lady wearing nothing but sexy lingerie putting me in a diaper!
I'm straight, but I might be convinced to do otherwise for the right situation, meaning a threesome.
Just wondering why people think because you like to wear diapers that makes or that you must be gay. Why would liking to wear diapers making you to be gay?
I wear diapers 24/7 for my incontinence, I also enjoy wearing diapers and consider myself a DL. Does that make me gay? Or is it that people want to label me as a gay, bisexual or whatever because I wear and enjoy diapers.
Maybe it's because I wear diapers and use them for their intended purposes. SO WHAT if you are gay, straight, bisexual or whatever. If you want to wear diapers then do it! I don't care which way you are. Just do it in a adult reasonable way is all I ask.
I'm straight and love wearing diapers and rubber pants. My own experience has been that most who are DL are straight men. Personally I don't care what one's sexual preference or identification is. We all have at least one thing in common to bring us together-diapers. Also, I've never met a girl who assumed I was gay because I told her I liked to wear diapers and rubber pants and wet myself. I've always made it clear I really enjoy have sex with girls while wearing diapers.
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