Women from this website

I often read the posts from the female members who all sound very into this fetish. I think I would like to be tied up by a few of them who are on the dominant side and given enemas until my returns looked like bottled water. They could all take turns repeating the scenarios they write about on me.

BE VERY CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT YOU WISH FOR!

Susie is very much on target Zenema. You may get more than you really want to get for a first time or two.

I'm inclined to agree with Zenema. I've been into enemas for 50yrs,but there is a couple of fantasies that I would love to experience. the main one would be a strict Nurse-patient setting. she has to have total control over me,and the enemas have to be the most uncomfortable and embarassing I have ever experienced.I have read about 4H enemas in L&D,complete with cramps and retention that have an irresistable appeal to me.the other is a dom.mother-son OTK setting.....I have to have NO control in either of them.....

Miss Stress and Switchablesusie,

If I thought I could get what I wished for, I would be strapped on a table with the both of you doing whatever you wanted to my helpless body. So much for wishes....

However, isn't a real fantasy getting what you wished for and then a little "unexpected" more!

I have not found any woman on this site who sincerely wanted to give or receive enemas. They tease, brag, act coy, and most appear to have a long history in sending mixed, confusing signals. Darlings, if you want to play adult games, then do it, but stop nibbling around the edges with your insecurity. Go rent a movie.

Whoa man! gee lance...

maybe just take a breath and think before u type.

Damn, i pressed enter before i finished.

i was going to say...all the women ive ever known from here that say they are into them, are actually into them. maybe dont generalise.

cos trust me..women do NOT like to be bundled together in groups that re actually not our label. generalising women together is dangerous mate!

Lance - that is a very harsh remark you make, you have no idea what some women wish for/desire/do, whether it be enema's or in life in general. As for being called "Darlings" - sexist statement in itself. To a certain extent what you say about females can also be true of males, both on this site or elsewhere.

Lance, I know of one woman who visits this site and is into enemas and wanting to do others things, as well. Like Elizabeth2010 said, the statement you make is sexist and degrading to all the women who visit Zity.biz. It is my belief that yu should make some sort of appology here for making such a statement as yu did.

Lance, I met my enemate from this site and have given him numerous enemas and pleasures. We started by replying to each others posts in the forum, then moved to private message here, then to Yahoo Messenger and then to talking on the phone before we finally met nine months later. He and I have played together for three years now and have wonderful times together. And he is also a dear, sweet friend and even if there were no enemas or sex between us, we would still be in each others lives. He's a friend forever.

With women, you have to woo us and charm us and take the time to get to know us. You can't expect us to want to meet every man who wants to play and to get together after just exchanging a few messages. We are vulnerable and don't want to find ourselves buried beneath someone's basement so we have to take time to get to know you and do what we can to determine whether or not you are a serial killer or sadist (the bad kind of sadist) or freak (again, the bad kind of freak).

I can't tell you how many offers I've had and how many men want me to cyber with them, cam with them or meet them for enemas and sex. And they don't really know me and I don't know them. They seem to want to skip all the preliminaries and get down to enemas and sex immediately. Women don't work that way. It takes more than a promise of physical pleasure to get our attention. You have to prove you are worthy of our attention. We get so many offers, many sleazy and ignorant and drunk by men who want to get together on a lark. It's just not going to happen.

If you think there are no real women into enemas on this site who want to meet a gentleman (or lady) to share them with, you're very mistaken. You either haven't met the right one or you're approaching her the wrong way. You have to be patient with women. I promise you, honey, we're worth the time, effort and wait.

~ Dianne

Lance - I'm sure the women on this site who say they are into enemas are being truthful. The men on this site would all love to find a partner who is really into the scene. If they have, then they are very lucky. I don't expect any woman these days, with all of the crime out there, to actually just meet up with anyone from this site or another without some real assurance they won't be harmed, so how they do that is beyond my understanding. If you're unattached, just keep looking.

I don't condone Lance's calling us "darlings" and we are certainly not all the same, but I think he may have a point about some of us giving mixed signals.

Several years ago at a party a guy who I knew only by name made some comment about my boobs and how he would like to get to know them better. He was obviously drunk, but I asked my husband to keep him away from me, which he did. When we got home I was still grumbling about the nerve of that guy hitting on me and how his eyes never left my boobs. My husband calmly asked, "you were wearing your new push-up bra." "What did you expect?" Hmmm

Anyway, some of us are here to fulfill some sort of fantasy that we don't get at home. And, yes, maybe some of us won't get much beyond words. I am not meeting Lance at a cheap motel so he can tie me to the bed and enema me till we both cry uncle. Too much risk, to us personally, our families, and whatever.

Just my opinion.

Gasp! As a woman and a feminist, I can't believe what you wrote, Cheryl. By wearing a push-up bra, you were asking for it? Hello? That's the excuse men used to give for raping a woman. "She shouldn't have been wearing that." "She shouldn't be out so late." "She shouldn't have walked to her car alone in the dark." "She was asking for it by wearing that short skirt and high heels."

"You were wearing your new push-up bra. What did you expect?" Really? Really? I can't believe your husband actually said those words. I'm sorry but have you checked his knuckles for grass stains and scrapes from the concrete because surely they drag the ground when he walks. What a Neanderthal. If it were my man who said that, I'd be signing divorce papers now. Ok, well maybe just throwing a screaming fit and throwing things around the house. It's like that coach said a few years ago about rape, "She should stop fighting it and just lie there and enjoy it." Ugh. I can't tell you how much disgust I feel by comments like that.

It would be like a man who expects his date to sleep with him because he took her out to dinner and a movie or a night out on the town. Women are not obligated to sleep with a man because he took her out or did something for her. She is obligated to her own person and doing only what feels right and not to give in because he pressures her or makes her feel guilty. That kind of thinking is outdated bullshit.

That kind of thinking is why the Taliban exists. They force the women to wear burkas and limit their activities, education and abilities in order to control them. They say they are doing it for the women's protection with their thinking that if women are covered up from head to toe, men will not lust for them as they would if they dressed in street clothing, wore makeup and jewelry and looked seductive and it would be difficult for men to control their urges and would lose their vows to Allah. Women are beaten if their ankle shows beneath their burka or if they leave the house without a male relative to escort them. They're not allowed to learn to read and write since education could endanger the control the men have over the women. They're not allowed to be examined by a male physician. Women have died at home because no male was present to take them to the hospital and they would be beaten by the moral police (I forget their name) with wooden or metal batons. If a woman is raped, she is considered unclean and in some communities, she is shunned and no man will marry her because she is soiled. In other areas, if a woman is raped, she is put on trial for adultery or fornication, even if it is against her will and she can be hanged, shot or stoned to death for that.

A woman never asks for rape by what she wears and where she goes or what she does. We have the right to wear makeup, jewelry, nice clothing without being ogled, groped or abused. It makes us feel good to look pretty. A woman is the owner of her body and has the right to accept or refuse any attention on her. That right should never be taken away. Some men need to learn respect and control. It is not a frailty or fault of women. It is the weakness of a man. Seriously, the boys will be boys shit needs to stop.

To learn about date rape and violence, read http://www.thecenteronline.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/date_rape_and_violence.pdf

If you want to learn the profile and traits of a rapist, go to http://www.thecenteronline.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/profile_abuser.pdf

If you want to learn about healthy relationships and check to see if you're in one, go to http://www.thecenteronline.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/healthy_relationships.pdf

You can find out more about safety and awareness at http://www.thecenteronline.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/safety_awareness.pdf

They have other brochures to read (and to print out for anyone you know) at http://www.thecenteronline.org

Ok, so this got a little off-topic but really, it had to be said.

Please forgive me for my rant.

I do not imply anything about Lance by what I posted. I don't want y'all to think I'm calling him out for it. I'm not. He may be a perfect, ok, not-so-perfect gentleman. But as I know little about him, I cannot tell you if he is the type of man who would commit crimes against women. I'm just hoping he isn't. And nothing I've read tells me that he is and in fact, he's been a charming man when I've talked with him in chat.

I fantasize of Analee appearing at my door ready to share enemas for days and days.

I think your missing the point of wearing "EYE CATCHING " clothes,EGIRL.the purpose of wearing sexy clothes, is to attract the attention of the opposite sex.if people were blind,there would be no point in wearing it,would there?you wear earrings to attract attention to your ears and neck, lipstick to attract attention to your lips.and though some men have no CLASS,you should EXPECT men to take notice of you if you dress like that. I know woman that have worn uncomfortable stuff just to look good...

No manybags, it is you who is missing the point of egirlky's post. Sure they might dress to attract the attention of a male but that doesn't mean they want they attentions of men who rape, ogle, grope or otherwise abuse them.

You sound like cheryl77177's husband who said 'what do you expect' when an obviously uncouth male commented on her breasts!

Your misunderstanding my point.nobody is saying a woman is 'asking' to be abused or raped or disrespected.read my post again....I said some men have NO CLASS,ang are assholesfor taking it too far.but acknolage that when a woman gets dressed-up,its to ATTRACT MENS ATTENTION.and although you may not want them to openly say anything,you know they are THINKING IT.its human nature...you would'nt be showing-off your breasts if you didnt want anybody to LOOK AT THEM.

To say that it is human nature is the same as accepting the boys will be boys attitude. Humans have to learn to rise above their nature, at times. And men who ogle women and say "What do you expect by dressing or looking like that are men who definitely haven't risen above theirs. Most of the time, they are knuckle-dragging, mouth-breathing douche bags who don't deserve to be with a woman. It's our hope that eventually their kind will die out because goodness knows none of us want to breed with them. We prefer men of quality and who have intelligence, character and charm and who have learned social graces that the others lack. If a man cannot find a woman to share his life and his passions, there is often a good reason.

I have read your post again manybags - though I disbelievingly also read it twice before responding to you.

Sure, maybe some women - and men too for that matter - dress to attract. But that does not mean the wrong kind of attraction which egirlky referred to.

And people also dress attractively just because it makes them feel good - its called fashion! If you think that wearing 'sexy clothes' as you put it, is to attract men you could be wrong. A woman may be happily in a relationship and not looking for a mate - should they resort to dowdy clothes to signify they are 'taken'?

You use the terms 'its to attract mens attention' and they 'should EXPECT men to take notice of you if you dress like that'. Well, there's a world of difference between attracting attention, which might be unwanted, and being 'taken notice of'. As for EXPECT (your capitals) - why should a woman expect anything, however they may dress!

I think we've exhausted the matter now!

I can see,BIGK,that You didnt major in Psychology.......... nowhere in my post did I condone bad behavior.just making a statment on human behavior.......sorry if anyone misunderstood me.

I hope men who read this thread will remember that although this site discusses many intimate activities of an adult and sexual nature, that we are first and foremost, ladies, and should be treated as such and not just as fodder for someone's fantasy. We each have our own needs and quirks and personalities and not everyone plays well together. It's just a matter of getting to know someone, which I've found works best in the forum but the chatroom will work, too, and being patient enough to let the friendship and relationship form naturally and not try to rush it along. Good things come to those who wait.

~ Bottoms up.

Manybags,

Actually I have to agree with you on one of your points. And I am only speaking for myself here. But you are right, when I get all dressed up, or when I am wearing revealing clothing, I do want people to notice.

I would like the men to be thinking to themselves, "she's hot", or something along those lines, and I want the women to be thinking, "I wish I could look like that in those pants, shirt, skirt etc.", or "she better not even look at my man", or, "who does that bitch think she is walking up in here looking like that, ain't no one going to look hotter than me in here. She and I are going to have words."

Now of course, I'm just kidding about the above mentioned. I have no desire to attract anyone, quite the opposite actually, I like to blend and not be noticed. Happily, I am not available. But, that's not to say that when I do go out I am going to look frumpy either. When Doc and I go out, I try my best to look fashionable, clean, and I am making this next phrase up, you can quote me later, but I also try to look "age appropriate/situational-sexy". Meaning that I will not be wearing 5 inch heels and a pink leopard print mini-skirt to one of his medical conventions, or at all, lol. But I may wear a black silky shirt that is cut a little bit low, showing cleavage, but only when you are standing right up next to me.

If we go out to the local pizza place, I might wear a slightly tighter than normal hoodie with a bra that makes the girls look slightly bigger and more perky, and a tight pair of jeans. Is that sexy? I don't know, for some men probably so, for others, probably not. But, again, I'm presentable, my clothes are age appropriate, and if we meet his associates/friends when we are out, I don't think I would embarrass him with what I was wearing, but I also don't think any of them would walk away thinking, "geeze, she dresses like a teenage hooker". My hopes are that they walk away thinking to themselves, "Damn, Doc found himself a younger woman, and she's cute. I wonder if she has any friends?" Or something along those lines, lol.

Seriously though Manybags, there really are a lot of women on here who are into enemas. Sadly though, the way the world is these days, no one, women or men can be too careful when it comes to meeting others from a computer site. Also a point to remember, even today, a lot of women are still quite shy when it comes to anything sexual because we are often taught, or its assumed that women shouldn't talk about such things in public. You know that whole stigma.

However once you get to know and talk with some, many of us tend to open up, no pun intended. lol. And remember, the more you post, the better everyone gets to know you, and in turn, the more they will open up to you, share with you, and possibly play with you.

Good luck.

Mashie

Thanks for the comeback,Mashie.nobody loves and respects Woman more than I do.I've never been one to look for a one nite stand.nothing is deeper than the love and companionship of a good woman,and hopefully I'll find one before I die.I love my ex for who she is,but we are too different to ever be together again.as far as the enema thing goes,I havent totally figured it out.the physical end of it is pleasurable till the cramps come,but the psychological attraction is the strongest thing with Me....

I have been trying to figure out just what this particular thread is all about. Aside from someone (Lance) having shot himself in the foot, I mean. Personally, I find the women on this site fascinating; such a wide range of experience and attitude ( and have a secret yearning for some ). One of my interesting fantasies would be to go to a cocktail party where all of the women would be well known members of this group, but without any direct introductions. Aside from those who have provided identifiable photographs to the site, of course (sorry, egirl). I would ponder for hours just who is who... who is Mashie?, which one is Petal?, is that Cheryl over there? Switchable? the Shy patient? and on and on... You see, the anonymity of Web communication feeds my imagination and fantasy... despite my modest demeanor and good manners, I would always be wondering... Actually, I would probably end up getting inebriated in frustration, and being hauled off by my ear by my other half, and berated all the way home for 'what a fool I made of myself'... but the internal burn would still be there, and I would have a cryptic little grin on my face as I kowtowed... remembering just how much I love you all.

Cos.

Hello Cos, If you can organize this party let me know; I'll be sure to be there.

Oooh oooh! ill be the dj!!! (shhh...dont tell mamasboy ive taken his job!...i have waaaaaay better music, trust me!😜)

Cos,

This is way off topic here for this thread, but you mentioned all of us being at a party and using our screen names and trying to figure out who was whom. Strange that you say that because I have had dreams like that so many times.

In one dream that I keep having over and over, all of us are sitting in a room, like in a big fancy hotel. There is a stage and (I can't believe I am even typing this, or admitting it because it's so corney it's not even funny, lol, but....what the hell)

Everyone is sitting at round tables covered with white table cloths. And an announcer comes out and introduces Mashie. I come out on stage and stand off to the side. I start singing that song from Gray Annatomy, don't know the name of the song, but it was a pretty famous song, something about, "where did I go wrong, I lost a friend along the way..." I think it's called something like, "riding in cars" or something like that, while a slide show is running in the back ground of me at work doing that nursing thing I do, the hardships, the loses, the wins. In my dream I believe it has something to do with my med fet side and my real life side fighting against each other as they sometimes do.

Then when the slide show ends, I am getting ready to exit stage right and the song "Almost Paradice" comes on maybe from the movie footloose perhaps, but out comes my Doc starting the songs off. I stand there stunned, but instinctively we come together and sing out the rest of the song together in perfect harmony. Then when that song is over, other members come up on stage and do their talented thigns as well. ANd I remember in my dream being able to pick out most of the 250 people that were there just from the way they were acting, or what they were saying. Was cool, as not too many of us shared our real names but continued using our EC names, but yet we knew who we all were and were all comfortable.

In another part of that same dream I remember being back up on stage and telling everyone that we had the entire 5th floor blocked off for our games and I was handing out maps with room numbers on them for what would be going on in each of the rooms, for example in room 1-10 were for enemas only, 11-15 shot clinics, 16-20 complete physicals 21-30 adult baby/diaper lover, and 31-40 BDSM stuff etc, I'am sure you get the point here. IT was a very complex dream, and one that if ever came about, I would definitely show up for.

I bet if you just listened to a few of us speak for a few minutes it probably wouldn't take you very long to figure out who was who. I would be the easiest of them all probably because I will be wearing the Amish Virgin Nun costume, lol.

Someday perhaps more than just a few of us could somehow get together. I would definitely be up for it and woud go. I am sure I could get Doc to go too. I might have to tie his balls up to a leash and drag him along, but I bet he wouldn't have a problem following his Amish Nun then now would he? Hehehehe, I 'm guessing probably not, lol.

Well, it's food for thougt at any rate, lol.

Mashie.

Someday perhaps

I'll be the one with the southern drawl running back and forth between rooms 1-10 and 21-30. My partner will be the one with the mortified expression on his face, but inside he'll be having a good time too,

Wow!

For you Mash:

"I thought that dreams belonged to other men

'Cause each time I got close, they'd fall apart again..

I feared my heart would beat in secrecy

I faced the nights alone,

O how could I have known

In all my life I only needed you...

Ooh Almost Paradise.... We're knocking on Heaven's door

Almost Paradise... How could we ask for more

I swear that I can see forever in your eyes

Paradise...

It seems that perfect love's so hard to find,

I'd almost given up, you must have read my mind...

And all these dreams I saved for a Rainy Day,

They're finally coming true

I'll share them all with you

'Cause now we hold the future in our hands...

Ooh Almost Paradise.... We're knocking on Heaven's door

Almost Paradise... How could we ask for more

I swear that I can see forever in your eyes

Paradise...

And in your arms, salvation's not so far away...

It's getting closer, closer every day...

Ooh Almost Paradise.... We're knocking on Heaven's door

Almost Paradise... How could we ask for more

I swear that I can see forever in your eyes

Paradise..."

Eric Carmen, Dean Pitchford, 1984

(typed without permission)

from the soundtrack of the movie 'Footloose'

recorded by Mike Reno of 'Loverboy', and Ann Wilson of 'Heart'

Don't ask me why they put the middle eight at the end...

More Later...

Cos