Tempted to look at the guy's penis next to you in the bathroom?

My wife found this...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oLIBIQzGkzY

It features three women experimenting with standing at 'urinals' and using some odd funnel devices. The ladies (deliberately) do just about everything that men don't when standing at a urinal.

My wife wouldn't need the funnel and says she should run training courses LOL

DrZ, you got the thumbs up from me. That was so freaking funny. OMG, you rock.

Mashie

Pretty funny Dr Z. I was somehow reminded of something I saw once at a football game. Some poor guy with BPH was trying unsuccessfully to pee. Guys were lined up behind him. Finally a much older guy stood next to him while unleashing a torrent. "Get it reamed out Sonny. It'll work much better!"

Never been tempted to look. What would be the point? Long or short doesn't effect peeing.

And if I did look, what would I do with the information? Not a darn thing.

Mashie,

A good friend and former co-worker of mine was a state meat packing inspector. He used to love to tell the story of when he was being certified and licensed that he and his classmates had to take a culture from their hands and another from their penis. It seems that the hands had more bacteria and germs than the tally whacker did! He used to tell everyone that you should wash your hand before you handle your equipment!. yes I'm a perv. I love to sneak a peak at the equipment next to me. *blush* what can I say?

Yes I do wash my hands after urinating and doing #2. What I don't understand is why public restroom doors always swing in and you need to grab the handle to get out. If they guy before you didn't wash his hands then all my efforts have been in vain!. Be much easier if you could take your foot and push it open!

One last thought! Two service men were using the restroom in the airport. They guy from the army finished his business, packed his equipment away and then went to wash his hands. The fellow from the navy finished his business and packed the equipment away and headed for the door. The guy from the army said, "Hey sailor! in the army they taught us to wash our hand after we urinated!" The Sailor replied; "Yea, and in the Navy they taught us not to pee on our fingers!" :-)

LOL Musicman5360 on the last joke. First of all, I agree about bathroom doors. So my solution is that I take a piece of clean paper towel to open the door with then I don't have to touch the door. Also, if you don't have a paper towel then I pull down my sleeve and use it to open the door with. And if neither of those is an option then I use my pinky finger only to open the door, but I put my pinky finger on the very bottom of the handle because it's touched a lot less than the top of the handle is.

Now I will also admit that when I am at work at either job, either nursing or I also have a lucrative eBay business and buy things at an auction house, I always wash my hands before and after I go to the bathroom. In nursing you just never know what you touched since you last washed your hands or what could be on them. Germy hands are not going near my vagina. Same at the auction house. It's not as nasty germy as in nursing but a lot of the stuff is filthy, it may have come out of barns, or could be the house it came from was infested with flies, mice, or roaches. I don't think I have ever come across items like that but I don't know where the stuff came from, lol. Better safe than sorry.

Mashie

I'm really not very phobic about germs. I routinely eat food off the ED floor. Builds up my immune system. Of course hydrochloric acid helps.

In the bathroom, no. And the last thing i want would be to be caught looking in that direction. Having said that, whenever i would see a guy in a jockstrap in the gym locker room, i would be tempted to sneak a peak at it.

In a bathroom, I'd wish that I could check out the guy next to me, or that he was checking me out. But the reality is that no, I wouldn't dare actually look.

Now, in a locker room it's a totally different story. I enjoy trying to sneak a peak at the other guys that are changing around me. But now days, a lot of guys don't really get fully undressed when they change for their workout. They'll remove their regular shirt and pants, and then just slip on some workout shorts right over their underwear. At if they've finished with their workout and are ready to head home, they will frequently just reverse the process without even attempting to take a shower (yuck!). So that doesn't really provide a good opportunity to see much of the other guys. For me, when I'm getting ready for my workout, the regular underwear comes off and a jockstrap goes on -- so anyone that wants a sneak peak of me is welcome to do so.

At the Y where I workout, the showers are still the open "gang" type -- which is how I like them really. Taking a shower in that environment provides the best opportunity for everyone to check out the other guys.

Really the only place where I could do that is... the public baths that I tried when I went to Japan a few years ago. Ok, one should certainly not stare at somebody else's groin, of course. ;-)

Yes, and I do look. My experience is that men either don't notice my subtle glance(s) or they do notice and don't care. Some I know even find it ego gratifying. I find the idea of anonymous males with nothing more in common than having to pee, gathering together to urinate in a shared public facility highly erotic. The smell of a public mens bathroom is erotic, too.

Men's rooms I have been in all seem to have dividers between urinals or they are spaced apart. Only some of the really old men's rooms with trough type urinals were really amenable to checking out the guy next to you.

Most of the men's rooms with troughs are at sports events. Normally by the time I wait in line my molarls are floating so checking the dick next to me does not even cross my mind.

Back in the 60's there was a dance pavilion that had a trough urinal. I'd had a few drinks and was in there by myself and thought it was a good idea to stand on the front edge and pee into the trough. The whole fucking thing came off the wall, flipped over and landed on my foot!! Didn't break anything, but hurt like hell for a few days. Fortunately, the guard who heard the commotion walked in as I walked out and didn't notice me....

If someone is flaunting, or not being discreet, I'll probably take a glance. I'm not gay, but the older I get, the more I am amazed by the beauty of the human body.

I have no desire to look at other guys dicks in a non sexual venue. To me that is similar to the person who was talking about wearing a butt plug to a family nude venue. Just not cool. And truthfully if I were at a sexual venue I would be more interested in looking at the girls, though watching a big shaft push a nice pair of cunt lips apart as it plunges in and out.. More interest in the lips but let's face it, the shaft is the more visible aspect... But to the point, a definite no in a "normal" public place.

No I never look and try not to even acknowledge the guy next to me. I don’t like conversations with an unknown male while my penis is out. I have had guys look over a few times over the years and I tell them to F off and they stop.

Only some of the really old men's rooms with trough type urinals were really amenable to checking out the guy next to you.

I feel like - here in the UK at least - a lot of urinals are the 'trough' style. And yeah - I love to sneak a peek, especially if it's a mate of mine - love to know what my pals are packing, and what their knobs look like.

There is a saying "No matter how much you jiggle your peg, the last little drop always trickles down your leg"

To stop this happening guys simply press your fingers into your taint area and that will express the remaining urine. If we walked around on all fours we wouldn't have a problem with dribbles. But as we are now upright a bend forms in ones pipe causing residue urine to collect.

F**k no. GregB expresed my feelings pretty well on this. I have zero interest in looking at some other guys junk. I will piss next to someone if I need to but I don't look at or talk to them.

Long ago I worked at a gym and I remember a conversation with one of my coworkers. It was about what the hell is wrong with people who hang out in the locker room any longer than needed just talking.

I can get out of the shower and be dry and dressed in a few minutes so what is the reason for this. I just don't get it.

People would just be standing there blow drying their nutsack and try starting a conversation like it was the most normal thing in the world. It used to really piss off one guy I worked with and I will never forget his quote "If I can tell if you are circumcised or not don't talk to me !" It was actually kinda funny how pissed off he used to get. I didn't get pissed I would just wonder why, why not just put your clothes on.

Not interested how big or small the other guys cock is but always interested in whether he’s circumcised or not and if he is cut, how tight he’s cut.

30 years ago, when I lived in Eugene, the neighboring city of Springfield had opened a brand new Cinemark theater. Its men's room had only very narrow partitions between its urinals. The wall where they were installed were lined with new tiles that were a deep burgundy color. It gave an instant shot of all the other dicks. I found it quite startling, but I suppressed myself.

Had I not still been in such denial about my hidden kink as well as my feelings about other males, I would've started inventing excuses to see more movies there and hung out some more.

30 years ago, when I lived in Eugene, the neighboring city of Springfield had opened a brand new Cinemark theater. Its men's room had only very narrow partitions between its urinals.

I'm pretty sure newer plumbing codes require either a divider or a minimum of 30 inches on center between urinals.

In the last few years, I have noticed that urinals now have partitions to provide privacy, which I welcome, as the earlier version of men lined up peeing while holding themselves was always a bit much for my liking. One couldn't help but see the other guy's stuff. Some were quite deliberate about wiggling or waving it! I am also a bashful type guy at the urinal. I have also observed that many men use the toilet stalls to alleviate embarrassment.

Public bathrooms are what they are and for the most part not my favorite thing. Too many guys seem incapable of directing their flow so its all over the floor or seat. What's up with this?

Oh well, my two cents. Thanks.

I'm pretty sure newer plumbing codes require either a divider or a minimum of 30 inches on center between urinals.

@SwitchableSusie: How do you know these obscure facts? lol

I remember the old “trough” urinals that you could squeeze 10-12 guys on. I kept my eyes focused ahead - there were some dudes that were big and would take offense of pecker peekers!!

@countrysquire asks

@SwitchableSusie: How do you know these obscure facts? lol

It is simple. I am a sexy debauched nerd and a smart cookie who knows how and where to look for information.

When you write complex, data based research papers in school and also have to write and present your thesis to an audience and then defend it in front of a committee of 6-12 sharks who have degrees as high as and above the level of the degree you are seeking in graduate school, you learn how to gather information.

67 here, straight male. Actually, no, not ever, not even once. I'm probably normal, maybe a bit above average during erections, having had many unsolicited compliments from ex-GFs about my size, starting in college. If I'm home, there's no one else to look at, and if I'm in a public restroom, I'm repulsed enough by the general state of cleanliness that I have no interest in looking at much of anything, let alone the size, cleanliness or other features of any other mans package. I inadvertently saw more than I had any interest in seeing during PE classes through HS or at various pool locker rooms when I was learning and teaching SCUBA diving. I've just never had the slightest interest in seeing others' male genitalia. I finally became more or less accustomed to it after watching decades of M/F porn video just because I enjoyed seeing what attractive women were doing with men, not because I enjoyed watching the men's equipment.

Eric

I've just never had the slightest interest in seeing others' male genitalia. I finally became more or less accustomed to it after watching decades of M/F porn video just because I enjoyed seeing what attractive women were doing with men, not because I enjoyed watching the men's equipment.

Eric

It's impossible to watch heterosexual porn and NOT see penises. The vagina/vulva/clitoris and associated female parts all look the same as the penis thrusts in and out of the vagina, so you have to be blind NOT to see the penis and flopping balls in a porno flick.

I While using a public bathroom, have you ever been tempted to look at how big the guys penis next to you is?

and I always thought, that men (ok, at least boys in their first 20 years) take out the measuring tape in public showers, rest rooms or at the nude beach to check the exact size of each other :-)

dont destroy my ideology of this world now :-)