Girlfriend did not want to go to gyn

My gf age 24 has never been to a gyn. I am taking her. She does not want to go but I feel she must go.

Oh. She really should go there. Try to talk wit her. Maybe she should talk wit sexuologist ors someone else.

Take her to a female gyn. That may make her feel a bit more at ease since it's her first time.

I agree with the others. I think she should go to the gynecologist. I just think it makes good sense for health purposes by that age.

A female doctor may put her more at ease, at least for the first time.

My gf visited gyno with me it was my first real exp

It is really up to her to decide if she gos just give her the information she needs to decide.

I def. think she should go, but it is her decision. Don't find her a doctor or do anything without her permission. Gyno exams can be traumatic and upsetting, so it is best to leave it up to her. Also, my b/f pushed me to go and I wound up having something wrong w/ me and I felt indebted to him, but he felt awful. It could be the opposite and she could blame you if something goes wrong. It is best to give her informed information and let her decide for herself! 😳

Glad to know it went well for her. Just like her, I'm 24 and never been to the gyno. yes, insane you guys might think but where i come from, it isn't routine to get your first at puberty. here, you get one if you're sexually active, married, planning to be pregnant or have GYN problems, none of which I have. Being an RN, i know full well the importance of going but i'm not yet ready. and i feel that it's something you should do when you're ready, not something you should be forced or pressured to do. because at the end of the day, it's you on the table, splayed and vulnerable. yeah, it's such an erotic idea being forced and all but play and real are totally different.

No doctor is going to prescribe birth control pills without first giving an exam

The gyn said the next time you have an exam I will also do a bimanal exam.. I smilled at that thought.

An ex of mine was hesitant to have a gyn exam done and hadn't had one done for years. I had insisted that she go and I even made the appointment for her with my regular doctor. I ended up going along with her for it. When she was undressing in the exam room, she was going to leave her panties and bra on(despite what the nurse had told her) and I told her, that no really, they needed to come off and she reluctantly took them off and put the gown on. She wasn't too thrilled having the exam done, thats for certain 😜

The first time my fiancee went, she wasn't examined, she was counseled on birth control and how to use it. The got a prescription for the nuva ring and then the next year she was examined, and then the next year too.

It's been a little over two years since her last one. The doctor we go to now only does them every three years if you've never had one come back negative.

If the Gynochologist was a male I am sure he enjoyed the examination especially if she was young and attractive. I went to college with a guy that became a gyno and keep in touch with him. He says the inner thoughts are always erotic but of course you keep it to yourself. atahe public blocks this reality out.