Is there any source where one could go to find out about Dom/Sub particulars

I am completely ignorant about the Dom/Sub lifestyle...i.e. just exactly what it consists of...How it is practiced...Are enemas involved...involuntary enemas....witnessed administrations and expulsions....Are there any publications that could be obtained that describe what is commonly expected and/or required. Does it require cross dressing or forced wearing of intimate underthings? I am extremely curious and yes. interested

We want to find a bench that folds up for discrete storage and that also has stirrups and tie downs. anyone know where to look?

Dak, you sound like my kinda guy. wish we were closer to each other.

Enemas are/can be used in a dom/sub lifestyle alonf with other fetishes involded in those situations, depending on wjat the people want.

You can also experience the things you like without actually being in a D/s lifestyle. There are hundreds, if not thousands of websites dedicated to the teachings of domination and submission. Your best bet is to search some terms: Dominance, Submission, BDSM, Fetish, and Dom/sub lifestyle and see what you can find. I would suggest reading several different articles/blogs/books and comparing notes to get the real idea of what it's all about. Also, one book I found most helpful in my early stages of learning was called 'Different Loving'... you might want to start there. I wish you the best in your search!

Excellent book I highly recommend: "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns". It is well-written and readily available. Every sub I train gets a copy.

There are fetishes/ kinks and then there is D/s (Dominance and submission). The two, fetishes and D/s, are different things. D/s can involve fetishes but it is a fetish in itself and does not require anything other than the exchange of power, the roleplay of top/ bottom, Dom/sub, etc.