Public Bondage that does not upset the public!

What are those fetish/BDSM ideas or activities that you can do in public that won't upset the public. The objective of these ideas is to do BDSM in public, there might be the risk of embarassment or getting caught but that isn't the intention. Here are a few ideas to get you started.

1. Diapers under clothes

2. Casts that restrict movement

3. Neck braces

4. Rope bondage under clothing

5. Chastity belts

6. Men wearing panties or bras under their male clothing

7. Tied into a wheelchair

8. Wearing really long nails that make easy tasks difficult

9. Plugs or dildos worn under clothing

10. Tied into the seat of a car for a short or long ride

I enjoy wearing pussy clamps and weights under a dress. I like it that they swing and make noise when I walk but are not visible to the public. When I sit on a barstool, I must sit so that they hang down and are able to sway free.

It's been a while but I've worn butt plugs, cock rings and bound my cock and balls with rope under my clothes.When I knew I was headed for anal sex a favorite activity was giving myself a clean out enema, taking a shower and inserting a well lubed butt plug to keep me open. I could then be taken anally at a moments notice because I was already clean, lubed, stretched and ready to go. That was HOT!

katt61,

I like the mental image you created of a woman sitting on a bar stool wearing weighted pussy clamps with the weights dangling over the edge of the stool and swinging freely under her skirt. That's HOT too!

Being given a 1-qt strong enema that is hard to keep in and made to walk from one end of a Mall or Shopping Center is something i have done 2 times and i can tell you it is both hard and erotic to me.

Dildo up my butt while wearing really tight jeans

My wife likes to give me a 2 quart beer & water enema and follows it up with a butt plug and harness. I then put on jeans and she uses a locking belt to insure they won't come down. She likes to take me to a chick flick this way. I can go pee, but not release the enema. If I leak it is visible and embarrassing.

I like to use remote controlled vibrating eggs in the girls. I have the remotes. Makes it just that more interesting when out in a group or just us at a bar

There are lots of things that can be done public that can go undetected or at least slightly detected by the general public. I have worn a diaper under my street close before. Depending on how bulky the diaper is it is seldom detectable. I will wet but I will not mess my diaper in public.

We had a funny situation recently in PDX (Valentines day no less) where a girl had talked her boyfriend into tying her up naked and drive her around in the back of his car. Sadly this got a LOT of attention and the police were called. After much publicity from the local news media the two got a stern lecture from the judge and community service. Be careful how you play in public, you may get more attention than you bargained for. See news link below.

http://northportland.katu.com/news/news/459227-role-playing-couple-gets-reduced-charge-pleads-guilty

I like making her go out in public at times with coarse sandpaper in her underwear to remind her she's my property. It is usually, to her delight, followed when she's home with vigorous spanking and even more vigorous sex. But out in the world, nobody knows but she and I.

Okay last weekend it was anal beads. We went out and the subs had anal beads inserted for the evening. Now if I could figure out how to pull them out while dancing.. LOL

Now if I could figure out how to pull them out while dancing.. LOL

How about attaching them to their belt? Or use a rope as belt or a belt as rope. That way you can "romantically put your hands on their hips" (and pull it) wile dancing. Shirt should be long enough to cover the belt of course.

I wonder what it would be like to wear a clit ring along with nipple rings full time and be at my masters calling?

Putting her in a rope bondage harness under her dress and taking her out

I have had dildos vibes butt plugs put in me and I have also worn diapers under my clothes.

Being required to wear a disposable diaper under my clothes while in public is a normal requirement for me but the recent addition of a vibrating anal plug has taken things one step beyond. This device has a tiny remote control that my dom has attached to her car keys or purse and can discreetly and without any warning activate the vibrating function at any time

How about a remote control electric dog collar applied and locked to the genitals? I know a couple who does this. She's always able to find him if he wanders too long in the grocery store.

I have recently been told to get myself a catheter and put that in, then wear a diaper under my clothes. It seems I will be unable to stop myself peeing whilst wearing it. Could be interesting...

How about taking your sub out shopping during her period but not allowing her sanitary towles. Works best on very light days( period wise) so it is embarrassing but not too offensive.

Wet girl,

That is an absolutely beautiful idea. I love the fact that it is a naturally occurring event which then looks like it has caught the sub unprepared. It brings on a level of embarrassment and humiliation by highlighting the sub's inability to cope with, or plan for, a basic bodily function.

Also, without directly exposing her privates, it focuses the attention of anyone who notices directly on her pussy, and on her unfortunate condition. Certainly the larger the accident the more people will notice. Likely some stranger will alert her to the issue, and she will have to interact with them, displaying an appropriate level if panic and embarrassment, admitting that she is not entirely prepared for what her body is suddenly doing. The great thing about this is that she can quickly exit the store as if she going to take care if it, and then simply walk into the next store and resume her act of innocent and oblivious girl.

I would love to take you out for a long day of shopping. I can't decide if I'd rather have you wear a short skirt or some white shorts. In either case there would be no panties, so it's just a matter of displaying your personal mess smearing along your inner thighs, or blooming as a patch stain in the crotch of your pants.

Can you tell us about a time when you have discovered this accident while in public? Was it a true surprise or were you being instructed by your Dom? How do you think you would feel or respond to this happening based in the two outfits I mentioned?

Part of my fascination with this scenario is that I would look forward to licking you clean when we finally got home that night after a full day out and about, shopping, dining, dancing, and drinking.

I have sent my slave out shopping wearing a rope breast harness under her clothes, or a tightly laced corset, many times. Both of these methods force her breasts high and proud, ensuring the nipples are constantly caressed by the cotton of her shirt, or if it's a cool day, the rougher wool of her sweater. Either way her nipples protrude and soon become obvious to everyone. She is always required to use a checkout with a male operator, so that she has to stand before him as he scans her shopping, her nipples pointing straight at him with nowhere to hide.

I've had a couple of girls that were always up for a paint job . We held a midnight horseshoe tournament where we were all painted up in cut offs and t-shirts, but were completely naked out in the back of a popular bar in Boise. That was pretty neat, but I will never forget painting up our girls in swimsuits and riding bicycles down to the veterans park ponds and is imming out yo the dock where we spent the night fucking fifty feet off of the local bike path/ greenbelt. Still get hard thinking about the girls laying with their pussies spread towards the people on the bank, fresh fucked and in full bloom. Very erotic. On the ride accross town we got a lot of stares in crosswalks.

1. Diapers under clothes

2. Casts that restrict movement

9. Plugs or dildos worn under clothing

I've done 1 & 9 together and quite enjoy it. I would be very interested in 2 someday.

I think wearing nipple clamps connected to a small fine long chain the dom can pull when he decides. wearing long sleeves this would not show. also a tight bra with a strip of thumbtacks pushed tightly in the breasts and nipples what a turn on

I like to put on a simple metal cock ring, and a loop of soft cord around my neck that looks like a necklace. Then I hook them together with a small bungee cord for just the right tension to firmly, yet comfortably hoist my package up and out. Then I stuff myself with a soft, fat silicone butt plug, and without any other underwear I squirm into a tight, stretchy pair of my wife's jeans and pull the crotch seam up tightly against the plug and the cock ring. Then my wife and I go out shopping together and every step I take provides pleasurable sensations all along that crotch seam. My wife likes the big bulge in front.

A nice variant of the rig below is to replace the butt plug and cock ring with the Anal Intruder, (a single metal piece consisting of a cock ring connected to an anal ball plug.) The anal ball is designed to hit the prostate with varying upward pressure in response to pelvic movements, (walking for example.) Connecting the cock ring by bungee cord to the soft loop of cord around my neck really amps up the intensity of the prostate massage. When I'm hooked up this way my wife likes to look for the small wet spot of pre-cum that usually doesn't take too long to form on the crotch of my stretch jeans, (actually her stretch jeans.) After I showed her how, she now has the power to make these wet spots appear sooner or make them grow, usually by surprise attack from behind when I'm least expecting it. She only needs to grab that loop of soft cord around at the back of my neck and give it few quick, sharp upward tugs. She laughs at how this makes me jump around, and then checks out my crotch to see how much wetter she got me.

I like to wear clamps on my pussy underneath a skirt or dress

Almost anything that isn't too large. I have had my balls tied or locked in public without anyone knowing. Have had one of those dog collar training devices around my balls that give you a shock remotely. None of these things were visible outside, but what a thrill it was that you had them and were out in public without anyone else knowing.

The closest thing I've ever seen (also in PDX), was a hot bartender wearing black leather wrist restraints and a matching collar, all with requisite attachment rings. I said playfully "I like your accessories tonight" to which she replied with a wink, "I'm going to a party after work".

My husband and I were on vacation in Cape Cod when we were in our mid thirties and we decided to have a little fun, so I wore one of my polished leather collars that has a few stainless steel rings attached and was locked on by a small but visible lock in the front when we went out to a bar.

I wasn't acting slutty, but flirtatious enough, seated by myself and dressed provocatively enough for a couple of men to try picking me up. One was pretty naive saying "that's an interesting necklace". I told him it's a collar. He said yeah, "that's really an interesting necklace". I said, "IT'S A COLLAR." He asked if he could buy me a drink and I told him it would be OK but that would be all unless he had the key to the lock. He said "you mean so you could remove the bulky necklace?" I said IT'S A COLLAR and my husband won't permit you to do anything more unless you have the key! I pointed to my husband and said you can ask him if you can have the key. Then he finally got it. He didn't ask my husband anything, but we finished our drinks together. The second guy was more hip, recognizing that it was a collar and he was hitting on me as my husband watched on.

No, I didn't do anything with either of them involving the removal of any clothing.

My sub purchased a remote control butt plug, operated via a smartphone/bluetooth connection, which varies speed, vibrations, pulses, etc.

On one occasion I was made to wear it under my clothes when we went to a local restaurant for dinner. The restaurant was full and just noisy enough that nothing was audible. She had great fun turning it (and me) on and off, changing the patterns, intensity and speeds. It was hot and interrupted our table talk several times as I was distracted by the changes.

Her turn is overdue . . . . .