Medfet and BDSM

Being totally nude and strapped down on an exam table with my legs spread open and secured so I cannot close them would be the opening scenario of a very much desired exam. Unbeknownst to me I have elected to agree to an exam by a doctor who loves to put his patients through as much pain and humiliation as he possibly can within a three hour appointment time. Of course his male nurse is present to offer his assistance. I am getting so wet just thinking about the pain they will inflict on my pussy and tits.

I agree that there is a definite turn on to being restrained, gagged and no longer in control of anything. Lots of possibilities including being shaved or waxed for a "procedure" come to mind. Having objects inserted, a series of enemas to prep you for further invasive exams, plugs to fill you up, a blindfold so you can't see what is about to happen next, the need for a sample taken by milking or ruining the experience and punishment for not cooperating all come to mind as possible parts of the "exam."

I need a cold shower now.

I haven't really explored BDSM. My fetish is for medical protective masks. However, an old friend was a model who had had a lung transplant, and she did have pics of herself tied up with rope and masked up in the respirator she wore on her mouth because she lacked an immune system.

Nowadays I can see the appeal of that. Maybe the doc pays a visit to her at her hospital bed. The hospital allows her to wear her own pajamas, which might be pink footy pajamas with pandas on the feet. She lays in her bed and the assisting nurse puts an earloop mask on the girls mouth. Then she gets her arms put in restraints for whatever exam they need to do to her.

That could be very fun.

I also think that mixing medfet and BDSM could be a great thing - I like the idea to be restrained and gagged during the exam, and also into receiving some painful treatments or being used for some pain experiments.

I like the two together. Being a patient, I’m already in a submissive position in that things are going to be done to me, adding a D/s element heightens the power imbalance all the more. I’m in to some pain and also taking my treatments reluctantly, so restraints would be a good addition to an exam to ensure compliance. Alternatively, demerits could be tallied as the exam progresses and I’d know at the end my punishment awaits. I would also love to experience an exam blindfolded, perhaps seeing the instruments and reacting badly to their imminent use on me would result in the doctor stating that “clearly, seeing what I am about to do is distressing, so perhaps this blindfold will help you calm down.” Everything that is done to me, even superfluous experimental type procedures, are justified with “now this might hurt a little, but please understand it is for your own good.”

Like very much Ellesee's notes below; however, I would have to add the administration of repeated enemas in the D/s clinical setting, so that she knows that, after she has been prepared clinically, the enemas will follow.

I also strongly recommend restraint in the clinical enema setting.

I would agree. A large long enema given by a trusted Domme after she's restrained and otherwise dressed me for the experience can be uniquely arousing and satisfying. Especially if she's accompanying the restraint and enema with her running narrative of what she's doing and about to do to me. The restraints and her narrative alone can be excruciatingly arousing, on top of the already stimulating enema. My switch Domme ex-wife used to be very good at this.

Eric

The "old gyn-chair" with posts for the legs and a straps to fix the legs at the posts should be used. I do not think they are very common to day? May be used more in Europe than USA?

Just last week, I added several eye bolts to our Ritter 100 exam table for this exact purpose. MrsFn enjoys occasionally being restrained during a play exam. The exam table comes in handy just for a D/s scene at times also.

I have pics of the table with the restraint eye bolts in one of my photo galleries.

Fn

I have mixed medfet with BDSM a couple of times before. (I'm a dom) and I would always make sure to discuss the interests and limits of my (ex) sub before starting the play so I would only bring up the things they enjoyed getting done.

one of my experiences:

I tied them up to the bed with a pair of handcuffs and then gently guided them through what I was going to do to them. I snapped on a pair of nitril gloves, and attached a bp cuff to their arm, so I could measure their bp and pay attention to the effects I was having on them. after doing so, I hooked my sub up to a EKG monitor. I told them; "Hmm, I think I'll have to do a more thorough examination on you. I have to look deeper into this," which resulted in a couple of somewhat nervous / anticipating green spikes on the machine as the beeping sounds echoed throughout the quiet room. I then started with my physical examination on them and would do a bit of teasing here and there in the meanwhile. I noticed they were growing more and more excited with every passing second, to the point of them feeling weak so I blindfolded them and then sneakily placed my steth on their chest so I could take a thorough listen to their heart sounds. From there on, I started the real play. I put the steth aside and took hold of a couple of restraints to tie them down with, nipple clamps for extra stimulation and a couple of (G-spot) and other type of toys to pleasure them with. You can fill in for yourself what happened next... after the play, I gave them aftercare.

It was surely a fun experience! Medfet and BDSM combined together is definitely one of my favourite type of plays!

As a sub, I crave that loss of control. BDSM along with medfetish is an absolute guarantee of that loss of control. It’s not quite a realistic exam, but it most definitely exists in my fantasy world!

Medfet fits very well with a BDSM session. My medical interests are mostly restricted to activities involving my ass-rectal temps, suppositories, enemas, and maybe even an anal speculum one day. A lot of the attraction to bdsm for me is a loss of control and some humiliation, both of which can be accomplished using medfet activities.

It all sounds fun to me! Mind you, I haven't tried any of this.

I’m blindfolded and tied down in 99% of my play exams. We both like it that way.

Oh, boy, yes for sure! I am restrained in my every medfet fantasy, for my own good of course. I would love to be restrained while receiving an enema and then proper rectal exam...

Absolutely!! Restrain meet play exam meet blindfold & gag meet spanking. Sounds like a harmonious, erotic tune that tickles my heart 😃

I have not really mixed the two prior to discovering zity.

I would like to make use of the medical facilities say a nice surgical table with legs fixed in crutch type stirrups arms on boards.

But then rather than being a medical scene a dominant with spanking equipment, full enema bag and maybe introduce me to Estim.

I’ve never done anything like this in real life, but the idea is an exciting one. I like thinking about getting an exam from a very firm doctor. They wouldn’t be sadistic, but they would know best and it wouldn’t matter what I did/didn’t want because the necessary procedures would be done and they wouldn’t hesitate to punish me if they deem I deserve it. The doctor would also be very thorough in examining me and would often go a step or two further than a regular doctor would. The last portion of the exam would be the rectal exam and I’d want the doctor to roll me over onto my belly so that I wouldn’t be able to see what was coming. The doctor’s explanations of what they were about to do and my anticipation of what was going to happen would add to the whole experience.

Yes, the idea is very exciting when the patient is not given any choice and is restrained making them completely helpless and in the mercy of the hand of the doc. But I wouldn't be using gags, I would like to hear their moans, whimpers and cries.

I know this is an older thread, but to me, the very idea of medical fetish play is BDSM oriented. If you are the patient, you are engaging in consensual submission (and in my case, some nonconsensual / consensual submission). I only explain in general terms what's going to happen in the exam, and often then only when asked. That way, there are plenty of surprises, and opportunities for the woman to submit. I like INexperienced submissives for this, since many have had only perfunctory gyn visits. I think I had only ONE woman walk out, and she texted me later with an apology that she was having boyfriend trouble and the intensity and attention to her body was too much for her emotionally. That was after the exam was mostly over, so I encouraged her to get her issues resolved (leave him, he was an asshole). I have turned down one or two women, one when almost the first thing she told me was that she had been raped in a hotel room. I didn't know her, so I couldn't tell if she was looking for a "forcing" experience, or if she would be too terrified and freak out. I didn't want to reject her (I am a sensitive guy), but I felt I had to say "no," since she had so many issues. I was also pretty inexperienced myself at the time. Now, I think I would question her further and determine her motivation. She might have had that strange reaction with which we are familiar, seeking what we once hated, like the moth and the flame. On the other hand, she might have made a foolish choice, and I didn't "get" her enough to know.

In order to be a good Dom, I believe that a man must truly like women (or his woman), and understand that she is giving you something important to her (to put it in "Lord of the Rings" terminology, it's her "precious"), and she may be giving that to you because she is seeking an experience she feels must be relatively anonymous, because she wants to be "vanilla on the outside, kinky on the inside." I think this is why I've also had so many intimate conversations with women who live 'way too far away to meet--they deeply fear being found out, and as long as their "kinks" are

A. Apparently forced on them,

And

B. Anonymous,

They feel they are still "good." I like @SwitchableSusie's comments about whores vs. "Frigid" women a lot. They are true in the extreme. One thing medfet does is to force a woman's sexual nature on her. She is being "used," but she is also using her "Doc." I well remember one encounter with a nurse, who wanted to play. She experienced the full gamut of the play that I do, and had multiple orgasms (nearly 2 hours' worth, truth be known), but she did NOT want to play again because she thought it "perverted." Translated, she had too much fun...

. . . . the very idea of medical fetish play is BDSM oriented. If you are the patient, you are engaging in consensual submission (and in my case, some nonconsensual / consensual submission). . . . .

Not necessarily. It CAN be BDSM oriented, but many to most people like being the patient and both people are are on equal footing.

Not necessarily. It CAN be BDSM oriented, but many to most people like being the patient and both people are are on equal footing.

Speaking to my experience and interests, I suppose. The "patient" always "volunteers," and the control theme is very strong as far as my experience goes, but that might just be who I am.

On another theme, I very much like getting enemas from women, but I am not "submitting." I enjoy them a lot. So I see your point here.

I have, on occasion, performed a pelvic exam then punished the patient due to my findings, the examination has shown me that she has behaved in a sexually inappropriate manner and as such had to incur the wrath of my belt

Yes med fet and BDSM. It's rare that I don't. My med fet is based on hospital restraints. Before I got into playing I was in BDSM and bondage well.

Was in emergency services for 12 yrs. Medfet is certainly an interest of mine. Sadly my Mistress was a little (a lot) queasy when it came to blood and needles. Would love to find someone to play with that knows and understands the human body and how to play safely.

I have the same feelings. Being restrained and then gagged for some form of medical play. A gloved and masked person doing an exam, taking vitals, taking sterile samples, etc.

That ob-gyn table is a dream for me: to be spread open on it and tested/examined in every way possible.

i also fantasize about a tube, or maybe dildo, going down my throat as far as possible. I suppose it could reach the stomach but I tend to gag after 6-7" and there is a lot of thick sticky very arousing saliva produced. Not sure what would happen if a device went further down, are there sphincters to navigate or just a challenge to the nervous system?

I definitely cross over medfet and bdsm at times like enemas for punishment or a catheter or rectal temperature on a naughty sub or on me when I’m the bottom. However when I’m involved in a more medfet type scene I tend not to like a bdsm crossover I guess I am weird that way. But then again I tend to like my medfet very clinical unless it is with a lover someone I am currently in a relationship with then it is fine if it has sexual undertones to it.

Mixing BDSM and medfet is maybe the most erotic thing in my mind - because I have a very strong medical and surgical fetish, but in the same time have also a strong submissive and masochistic side, so when I`m restrained and feeling helpless, totally under the control of my doctor, I`m feeling really excited. Love also when the procedures cause an erotic pain to me.