Well I have been into medfet, enemas since I was in 4th grade (hospital enema, later story) and have never told the wife, but was always interested in her Md, and Gyno appts. So over the years of trying I just said that she had an appt with Me. I purchased a message table awhile back so we always take it on road trips, and thats where she got hooked. She could relax on the road, no kids , phone etc, so I would play Dr. She was never into anal , would never let me get close, but her Dr's would, so I just took over, and I found that if I can relax her she was open to all I had. A typical exam would be her in a gown as # 1 tech would come in, explain what was to happen, she would see a general prac, a gyno, then if needed a gastro doc. She would be prepped by another tech. That tech would come in expose parts of her and shave, underarms to the toes, ( they love the toes done) then he ( I ) would tattoo her, nice ones , so the doc would pay attention to the areas needed to be examined, then doc #`1 would examine her send her to the gyno where he would examing her (another area so she would get up and move) then to a final area where the gastro doc was and by then she was relaxed and took her digital rectal exams, probed by thin toys, and finally beads. all done finally as she was getting rubbed or gently vibrated so total relaxation. We now do enemas , but that is a story for later and another subject, she even asks for them, as I mix it all up, light bondage, shaving, enemas, electro stim , but I went slow, and now it is fantastic, she even has pubic hair about he size of a quarter, shaving daily, went ot her gyno and GP with tattoos, and her labia is pierced , good things come to those who take care of the little things, relaxation being # 1