Your Sexual Bucket List

We all have our to do lists of chores we do every day or adventures we want to have before we "hit the bucket." I'm curious to know what is on your sexual bucket list of "must try" experiences before you die. Open up and admit them here. There's no judgment, only eager anticipation and a chance to meet someone who shares your fantasy. Do tell and don't leave out any juicy bits.

I'll start with a few:

Double penetration has been a fantasy of mine since I was in high school. And the definition of double penetration for me is one penis in my pussy and one in my bottom. I've attempted it a few times with open-minded lovers but something always happened. Either one was erect while the other wasn't quite there yet. Or one guy's leg touched the other guy's leg and the first guy freaked out about it. And the closest I ever came to it, I had a hypoglycemic attack - pleasuring two men by yourself is a very rewarding but draining activity - and had to stop. Both the men were eager, as was I but when it there's a chance an ambulance might need to be called, it's time to quit. I'm still hopeful that I'll find two agreeable gentlemen to help me with my fantasy someday.

Vaginal fisting is another thing on my list. My vagina is pretty snug and short so I haven't managed to enjoy this particular pleasure yet. If I had had a child, perhaps my muscles would know how to stretch to accommodate a lover's hand but I will never have the honor of birth. So I have to make do with what I've got. I first attempted it in the late 1990s with a man who had small hands. I probably would have been able to manage it if I wasn't so self-conscious and could have learned to relax. The next gentleman I played with was the enemate I met here. His hands are average width but his hand is very long so it ends up curled around my cervix with no place else to go. It doesn't help that it feels so good to me, all I can do is lie there and shudder as I cum again and again on his hand. I tighten up when I do that and it triggers his carpal tunnel syndrome. If he were local, perhaps that wouldn't be so bad, but he has to hold the wheel for a good two hours after he leaves here so it makes it quite impossible for him. I have a particular area of muscle that is more tense than the rest so if I work on relaxing that area, maybe it can happen. I'm thinking a warm olive oil massage to my buttocks, thighs and vulva might help. Also, massaging me with a couple of fingers in my bottom while massaging the same spot externally might loosen up those tense muscles. It certainly couldn't hurt. In fact, it sounds pretty damn amazing.

I have others that I'll post later. I'd love to read your lists.

~ Dianne

Hey Dianne, I have always wanted to feel anal fisting but have never had a wife or ladyfriend with small enough hands. Rob

I have never been vaginally or anally fisted by my husband, but have been by a few women with smaller hands. Never been anally and vaginally fisted at the same time either. I can't say at this point it would be a bucket list item.

I can't really say there is anything I haven't done that I would like to do. My husband and I are pretty freaky and we never deny a request, so I guess my bucket list will begin when he refuses one of my requests that I never thought of making before.

For me it would be to get strapon in my ass. I have had many things in my ass but can't find a lady who will do me. [I love butts}

I have three things right off the top of my head that I can think of. One is sex, the other two are not but pretty dang kinky I'm guessing. But, here they are.

1) I want to have sex outside, during the day, a nice summer afternoon perhaps. Not that I want people watching for that, but just to be able to have that total freedom.

2) I want to be spanked outside. I want to have done or said something wrong, and in the moment have him decide that a spanking is in order. So, right then and there, he pulls my pants down, pulls me over his lap, and then spanks me. Very yummy!

3) I want him to pee in my fanny. Yes, have been thinking about this a lot lately. It simply excites me to no end actually. Not sure why, but as I said in another post, I will make it happen. Hehehe.

And that's all I have at this point in my day. I might add some more later after giving it some more thought.

I like your fantasies, Mashie. Making love outdoors would be wonderful. I wouldn't want it to be in public or with the risk of getting caught. I definitely need to move out of the suburbs and buy some land. I love the thought of being in nature and responding to each other's bodies the way nature intended. I'd love to be caught in the middle of a summer storm surrounded by the sights, sounds and scents in a forest. The earthy scent of the ground, the grass, the leaves, the trees, the flowers. Everything lush and in bloom. Our bodies warmed from the sun, cooled down by a soft breeze and water droplets from the sky. Distant lightning flashing in the sky as we devour each other's bodies in the heat.

Being spanked outside is also a good one. I've seen pics of people being spanked or whipped out of doors and always wanted to give that a try. There's something about the exposure and vulnerability that arouses me. I thought about it a couple nights ago. I was standing on my front porch, talking to my bf who was out in the yard. There are two vertical iron brackets or columns or whatever on either side. As I was talking, I reached out to one of them, then the other and stretched my arms a bit. It was quite a reach to grip both of them at the same time and it reminded me of a series of photos I'd once seen of a woman with her arms stretched out to gateposts on either side of her A whip or some other implement was being used on her and it was sexy to see the red marks appearing on her bottom and thighs frame after frame. It was much more hardcore than I dare to do but the idea of it was very arousing.

One of the other things on my bucket list is to have anal sex with a man while being watched by someone or several people, not in public setting but a private one. I love the idea of having a man spread my cheeks and while another man enters me and the other man watches. I would love for him to see it in different positions and angles, my tight pink anus being stretched and used. Even better if after the first one finishes inside me, the other man has his turn.

I swear, this lady needs two men to make her happy. I would love to have a polyamorous relationship with two sensual men who understood my needs and desires.

Good subject Dianne. Here's some things that make up my list:

I really, really, really want a cock up my ass. I'm certainly curious and haven't found the right guy to assist me with this. I have to stop myself sometimes because I get so horny, as I would do just about anything to make it happen...my cock starts perking up (like while I type this) and I (almost) lose control. I had to mentally slap myself to keep myself from going to a bath house in the area.

Next as you might guess is to perform oral on a guy. Again these are pretty vanilla in nature, but I'm not done yet.

As I'm getting blown, just as I'm starting to peak, I want an enema nozzle up my ass and a bag emptied into me. I've done this while masturbating and to have a hot mouth on my cock can only make it better. I also wonder sometimes if it would be possible to work a nozzle in while I'm getting fucked in the ass...I don't know if there's physical danger in making that daydream a reality...but it makes me drip thinking about it. 😃

The earlier suggestion of a strap on is also there too...having my g/f fuck my ass hard while the toy works her up too is just so hot to imagine.

About the first one...I would also want my g/f there to watch me lose my anal cherry. Having her get off and cheer us on is another thing that pushes my laptop a little higher.

Lastly...there's always something about water and nudity that's always turned me on. Skinny dipping is not something that I'm able to get away with that much--if ever. Fucking in water is something that I've always wanted to do...that feeling of weightlessness...mmm, hot! Gimme a couple of scuba tanks...now yer talkin!

One more thing...Mashie's comment about peeing up her ass...this is something that's always intrigued me. I've heard it said that it's not really possible to pee right after cumming, but I'm here to say I can do it. Especially after having morning sex with a piss hardon...after cumming it takes a lot for me not to unload in whatever location I happen to find myself. I just didn't know if that could cause infection or anything like that, so I've never brought it up. But if it's ok to do...sign me up. 😉

I never thought much about this kind of “bucket list,” but it does sound interesting. Because we live rural, on a parcel ample enough to assure privacy 24/7, we’ve done a lot of things people only dream about ... among those making love on a picnic table late at night after a night on the town, making love in the very early morning on the dew-covered grass (talk about a different feeling ... erotic beyond your belief), enemas outdoors more often during the warm weather months than you would believe, plus once in the snow during the winter (never again ... my buds were stone hard from laying face down in the snow, then my hubby’s butt and other important parts nearly froze when I went over his lap ... he too said ‘never again’), making love in a huge cattle watering tank we purchased new and converted into a huge, huge spa; also made love in the hay mow of our small barn; gardened in the nude (that’s just our way of life here); plus a few other erotic things outdoors. Our bucket list is really pretty complete ... we’ve done everything we wanted to do indoors and out-of-doors, nude and clothed. No urges to attend nude beaches or some nude event like those bike rides and topless protests, although we have remotely thought about one of those nude cruises ... but only remotely. Why spend thousands of dollars for something we already have for free. Right? Anyone jealous. When we bought this rural property, it turned into much more than we anticipadted ... and we love our continuing lifestyle away from the "textiles." We don't consider ourselves nudist, but maybe we are.

In the last 2 years or so I've knocked off about 90% to 100% of mine.

There are a couple of repeats I would like to try with my current partner (of 2 years - note the correlation LOL) such as sex in front of a live audience and MAYBE so sort of swinging situation. I'm approaching that slowly as I'm not sure if I really do want to go there with her. We'll see. It isn't important enough to me to press the issue.

I'm a female in my 50s and have had a growing desire to have a sexual encounter with another woman. A recent posting on the masturbation website, Solotouch, pushed all my buttons. It involved an older woman with a younger female adult. It started as an encounter -- the sex was unexpected. It involved breast play, spanking (!), and anal fingering, as well as stimulation to orgasm, of course! The story blew my mind and assuming it was true (you never know), just made it more arousing to me.

There are other desires, but this one stands at the top of my list for now.

Chrissy

Fortunately for me as a teenager, I met an incredibly sensual woman who was bi. Not knowing what bi was at that time, all I was aware of was how great our time shared was. I was 17, in the military, she was 32 and a nurse. I recall one specific time when early in our relationship she had invited a woman who was probably in mid-50's to join us for supper one night.

This was in the Deep South, and at a time when the world was not as open and/or liberal as today. Knowing she'd mentioned, and explained some to me, that she enjoyed women sexually, was somewhat still a gray area to me. Never had seen F to F sex of any sort, so imagination was all I had to deal from.

After a nice supper, we were sitting around just chatting, and someone mentioned ice cream, and the there was none in the freezer. So, I offered to go and fetch some from the store. Was gone perhaps 20 minutes or so round trip. Returning, I opened the door, and beheld my first encounter with female to female sex. The two of them had migrated to the bedroom, door was wide open, and I could see and hear them as they indulged in their new found element of sharing. Not one to disturb them, I just stayed in the parlor and enjoyed the view and sounds of them........it was quite an introduction for me.

Later, the somewhat blushing woman in her 50's, came out and awkwardly said hello again and, I informed her the ice cream was in the kitchen. We shared ice cream and lite conversation, then the guest left and the nurse and I were alone.

I told her it was really exciting to witness them and listen to their pleasure sounds. She informed me that this was the first time she'd had sex with the woman, and that it was due to her overhearing portions of a conversation the woman had with another woman at the hospital. She had approached the woman, befriended her, and eventually invited her over.

There were more visits by her over time.........and will say, it only got better and better.

So, it's never too late to satisfy your wants and needs..............just do it..........and make the most of it.

Wow I would love to try out to be in bondage and get a spanking and then get my butt use with a strapon

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2) I want to be spanked outside. I want to have done or said something wrong, and in the moment have him decide that a spanking is in order. So, right then and there, he pulls my pants down, pulls me over his lap, and then spanks me. Very yummy! [/quote]

I had a girl friend who didn't like anything kinky BUT (butt) when she did something in public I didn't like, I'd give her a swat on the butt. She always smiled....ususally repeated itself a few more times. Then when we got home, she didn't like to be spanked further but sex seemed to be more intense. She was religious and I think that had a lot to do with it but I don't see why. Nothing against religion.

Unfortunately, there is way too much on my sex bucket list. However if I could narrow it to a couple

- sex in the mountains while im snowboarding or skiing

- as cliche as it sounds, I would love to knock off the threesome.

Would like to be in a 3-some, first getting a large-volume soapy enema held in place with that double balloon nozzle, then getting spanked, then having a wife peg me while I'm forced to suck her husband's cock. We then can switch around, my fucking the guy's ass while he sucks his wife's cunt while she gets that large-volume enema, then let's do a DP on the wife. Ahhh such friends with benefits!

I would love to be fisted by another woman.

So would I. It's finally been determined that I'm too tight to accept a man's fist. But I would still love to be fisted. I'd love to find a lady who would like to share the experience with me.

I can honestly say that I would like to be fisted in either place, with a few conditions. My man or women had better have small hands to start with or it just wont happen for me in either of those departments. I had both of my girls c-sections for a reason, that reason at that time was due to my lack if space down there in that department. During one of my first gyn exams, you know and remember, the one where I had my mother with me and Doc walked into the room an they instantly had a better than normal knowledge of each other. Turns out, the had been seriously dating and had actually been engaged for a long time before they broke up.

So back to the question at hand about be wanting to be fisted in either front or back. Paul, the doc that delivered my first daughter by section, and then John who delievered the second kid both said that there was no way in hell I would be able to deliever a child nauturally due to the small anatomy I have in that department. They both said upon palpation and with x-rays and eventually a CAT scan that my bone structure would never pass a baby unless we opted to break my pelvic bone to ensure enough room for the baby to pass through. Ummmm, no thanks, I will take the cection please. And that's what happened for both, and I am very glad that I did.

However moving forward to the fisting both vaginally or anally, while I really want to feel what both would feel like, I am just not sure it's medically possibly for me to do that sort of thing.

Any suggestions?

Mashie.

Along with my small pelvic size, I have a lot of muscle tension there. One of the things I considered trying with my lover was to have him massage my vagina with olive oil, then massage my vagina through my perineum to loosen the muscles there, then massage my anus and everything within a three to four inch radius to relax the muscles. Then massage both my vagina and anus through the thin wall between them. It seems like with the massage breaking the tension and the pleasure gained from so much stimulation, that I would be relaxed enough to accept his fist into my vagina or ass. All of this is theory, though. We haven't had a chance to try it out.

I have tried to do guided imagery, deep breathing and meditation both before and during fisting attempts to make it seem like something doable. It almost worked the last time we tried but it seems that his fingers are too long for my vagina and there just isn't enough space for him to go.

He tends to be a bit rough and hits my perineum with his knuckles while he's trying to work his fingers inside me. I get pretty banged up from it and tense up because of the pain. If he would be patient and more gentle, it might actually happen for me. So I would recommend that your partner be gentle and mindful of where he or she lands his or her knuckles while fingering you to avoid pain or injury and to above all, be patient; very, very patient and use lots and lots of lube.

I have to use toys to stretch me out a little. I have an inflatable butt plug that I've thrown a condom on and inserted in my vagina and sometimes have kept it at the entrance to see if that would help. I've seen an interesting toy on the market, an inflatable dildo. It looks like a regular dildo but increases in diameter when you pump it up. I want one of them to try but haven't yet nor have I talked with anyone who has tried it. When I inflate toys while they're outside of my body, they look too big to actually have in me but I've found that when they're inside and inflated, that they feel natural and very pleasant. So maybe the inflatable dildo would work for you.

So let's see, relaxation, massage, careful, gentle penetration, lots of lube, gentle stretching with toys. Preferably a lover with small, soft hands.

Have you attempted to be fisted in the past? What happened when you tried?

Here is a fisting video. If you are opposed to this type of video then don't click on it. Otherwise it looks very authentic. This 19 year old is enjoying herself. http://xhamster.com/movies/474680/cute_german_teen_fisted_amp_analysed_-jb_r.html

I've crossed a lot of things off my bucket list. Sex outside in public - Check, Sex in a hotel window facing an office building and city square - check, doing my own personal gyno exam on the wife - Check and the list goes on.

I have a few more I'd love to do, some I will cross off and some I won't:

Sex in a movie theater - most likely no, but I have hope.

Fisting my wife - most likely a no, but again there is hope.

Jerking off in a public place again - This will happen, just need to time it right.

Humiliation fantasy by a real female Doc - I wish for that one. I want a female Doctor to ask about my sex life and when I tell her about my chronic masturbation for her to honestly and disgustedly berate the living hell out of me as I sit there is the exam room. have no idea why that one turns me on. I want it to be brutal too, just cruel, viscous, mean and hurtful. Problem is, I want it to be real, I don't think it would work as a play scenario.

I want to go to a nudist colony someday - This will happen, just a matter of timing. Have to get a few people out of my house first.

Biting - I love to be bitten during sex sometimes. Once I'd like to be bitten so hard I bleed and then have it leave a scar. Sounds scary yes, but then I would always have my little personal reminder. This most likely will happen.

Other than that, I think I am good...well not good but you know what I mean.

No fisting for me or play partners.

@ egirlky

I agree , he has attemted to fist me and that isn't going to happen. His hands are much to large. I have talked with a GF she's willing to try 😃

Regarding the fisting fantasies, I just don't see what's the thrill in having someone put their fist or arm up your rectum or vagina.

Regarding the fisting fantasies, I just don't see what's the thrill in having someone put their fist or arm up your rectum or vagina.

Quite simply, it's exciting and feels wonderful.

YOU could be asked, "What's the thrill of putting your penis in a vagina."

I'm surprised you are even asking because you state in your profile that you like receiving anal sex and ass play.

Douche,

Another perspective to consider: Many different people are aroused by a wide variety of differentiating physical stimuli, some overlap, others do not.

Here is an example; in my swing days, I was involved with a nurse for 11 years, she was absolutely ga..ga over vaginal fisting and multiple partners. I obliged her always with respect to the vaginal fisting and less often with other partners. I fisted her because she enjoyed it immensely even though it is not something I like being done to me. She in turn was adamantly opposed to anything anal and would not participate, yet accepted the fact that I become highly aroused from the sensations generated by being filled with an enema.

In short, different things stimulate different people.

G.N.

I'm going to have to find the right lady to scratch most any of these off the list:

anal sex

fisting her (anally or vaginally, preferable both at the same time)

being double fisted by her (preferable while she gives me a blowjob)

giving her an enema

her giving me an enema

having sex while we both retain enemas

pegging

having anal sex while she tries to retain a milk enema after being cleaned out beforehand

Wow Never, if you ever find a woman who can double fist you and give you a blow job at the same time, please, if possible film that, take pictures, do something. Goodness knows I am not nearly coordinated enough to do both at the same time. Ummm, good luck with that, and yes, I'm being serious, lol.

Mashie

What I kind of had in mind is that once the second hand was in that she would just kind of relax her hands and focus on the other aspect, I am alleady stretched out enough for some women to easily fit in both hands.

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Sex in a movie theater - most likely no, but I have hope.

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I've never had sex in a movie theater but I have given a hand job and been fingered in the movie theater. The people around us knew what we were doing and made comments but they stayed,watched, and didn't report us. I didn't really care. Being fingered there was awesome because our movie seats have arm rests on the side so my legs couldn't open too wide so his fingers were really tightly in me. He couldn't handle it and didn't let me make him cum, so now I really wanna do it again and make the guy finish. My point is that it was a lot of fun and if you can't have full out sex in the theater maybe consider trying that as an alternative.