This might give all of you something to work on. Lots of ideas!!! Print these out and then have you and your partner go through the list. Might just allow you both to come up with some interesting bucket list ideas to try out that you might not have even thought of before now.
Fetish List that might help people open up? (self.sex)
Fetishes And Limits
Below is a list of potential sexual activities.
Here’s the scale: 1 - Very much into / Something I enjoy / Turn On 2 - Haven’t done it but want to try 3 - I would do it if the other person enjoyed it 4 - Does nothing for me, but isn’t a limit 5 - Hard limit / Something I won’t do / Turn off
Role Playing
_______ Age Play (you play younger)
_______ Animal Roles (e.g. human puppy dog)
_______ Examinations (doctor-nurse play/medical scenes)
_______ Family Play (e.g. Incest Play)
_______ Daddy/little girl (DD/lg)
_______ Fantasy Abandonment
_______ Fantasy Rape
_______ Prison Scenes
_______ Prostitution (being sold to others)
_______ Pony play (e.g. pony girl)
_______ Religious Play (nun/priest/rabbi/alter boy-girl)
Sexual Play
_______ Anal Play/Anal Sex
_______ Anal Plugs/Beads
_______ Anal Plugs/Beads Outdoors (under clothes)
_______ Bestiality
_______ Videoing Sex with me
_______ Videoing Sex with me and others
_______ Colon Tube Play (Deep Probe Insertion)
_______ Creampies
_______ Cyber Sex with me (no cam)
_______ Cyber Sex with me and others (no cam)
_______ Dildos
_______ Double Penetration with dildos
_______ Double Penetration with two men
_______ Fingering (anal & vaginal)
_______ Fisting (anal)
_______ Fisting (vaginal)
_______ Food Play
_______ Forced Heterosexuality (being used by friends)
_______ Forced Heterosexuality (being used by strangers, with protection)
_______ Forced Homosexuality (being used by friends)
_______ Forced Homosexuality (being used by strangers)
_______ Gang Bang
_______ Genital Sex
_______ Glory-Hole Sex
_______ Golden Showers
_______ Licking (body homage with tongue)
_______ Oral-Anal Play (rimming, receiving)
_______ Oral-Anal Play (doing to another)
_______ Phone Sex
_______ Photos on demand (e.g., via text messenger during the day)
_______ Sex (Heterosexual)
_______ Sex (Homosexual)
_______ Sexual Deprivation
_______ Squirting (anal and vaginal finger insertions)
_______ Strap-Ons (receiving)
_______ Strap-Ons (wearing/giving)
_______ Swapping (being given)
_______ Swinging (one or more other couples)
_______ Swallowing (cum)
_______ Talking Dirty (Talker)
_______ Talking Dirty (Talkee)
_______ Tickling
_______ Vibrators
Exhibitionism
_______ Collars (in public)
_______ Erotic Dancing (for an audience)
_______ Exhibitionism/Flashing (friends)
_______ Exhibitionism/Flashing (strangers)
_______ Forced Masturbation
_______ Forced Nudity (private)
_______ Forced Nudity (around others)
_______ Humiliation, Verbal (public)
_______ Led by a leash (public)
_______ Modeling for erotic photos (I take photos)
_______ Modeling for erotic photos (others take photos)
_______ Outdoor scenes/sex
_______ Public Places Sex, secret
_______ Public Places Sex, open
_______ Skinny Dipping
_______ Slutty Clothing (public)
_______ Voyeurism (watching others)
_______ Voyeurism (watching me with others)
_______ Video (watching porn)
_______ Video (recordings of you)
Discipline/Submission
_______ 24/7 Total Power Exchange
_______ Bathroom Use Control
_______ Being Drugged
_______ Begging/Pleading
_______ Chastity Belts
_______ Chauffeuring (driving)
_______ Chores (domestic service/housework)
_______ Competitions (with other subs)
_______ Enforced Chastity
_______ Exercise (forced/required)
_______ Following Orders
_______ Foot Worship
_______ Forced Bedwetting
_______ Forced Dressing
_______ Forced Eating (gaining or losing weight)
_______ Forced Journaling of experiences
_______ Forced Masturbation, on demand during the day
_______ Forced Masturbation, at home
_______ Forced to Sleep not in Bed (e.g., on floor)
_______ Given (Loaned) Away to another to use you
_______ Hair Shaving (body/genitalia)
_______ Hair Waxing (body/genitalia)
_______ Having Clothing Chosen for You
_______ Humiliation, Verbal (private)
_______ Hypnotism
_______ Initiation Rites
_______ Kneeling
_______ Lectures (for misbehavior)
_______ Led by a leash (private)
_______ Manicures (giving)
_______ Massage (giving)
_______ Orgasm control
_______ Orgasm denial
_______ Personality Modification
_______ Punishment
_______ Serving as Toilet (urine)
_______ Serving as Waiter/Waitress
_______ Tattooing (Temporary)
Masochism
_______ Being Bitten
_______ Belts (being beat with one)
_______ Breast Play/Torture
_______ Caning
_______ Catheterization (urethral)
_______ Choking (Getting or Doing)
_______ Clothespins
_______ Cupping
_______ Dilation (urethral sounds)
_______ Douching
_______ Electricity (violet wand)
_______ Enemas
_______ Feathers
_______ Floggers (getting a flogging)
_______ Hairbrush Spankings
_______ Hot wax (candle wax)
_______ Ice Cubes
_______ Nipple play/torture
_______ Over-the-knee spankings
_______ Pain (score as 1=little-to-none, up to, 10=a lot)
_______ Piercing/Needles (play, temporary)
_______ Pinching
_______ Pussy Torture
_______ Riding Crops
_______ Scratching
_______ Sensory Deprivation
_______ Single Tail (Flogger)
_______ Spanking
_______ Speculums
_______ Spitting
_______ Swallowing (urine)
_______ Trampling
_______ Weights (on nipples/labia)
_______ Whipping
_______ Wooden Paddles
Bondage
_______ Blindfolds
_______ Bondage (light)
_______ Bondage (heavy)
_______ Bondage (prolonged)
_______ Cages/Confinement (locked inside of)
_______ Chains
_______ Closets (being restrained within)
_______ Cuff Restraints (ankle and wrist)
_______ Gags/Mouth Bits
_______ Handcuffs/Shackles
_______ Saran Wrapping/Cling Film
_______ Shibari (Intricate Rope Bondage)
_______ Sleepsacks
_______ Suspension
Clothing/Accessories
_______ Collars (in private)
_______ Corsettes
_______ Cross Dressing
_______ Denim
_______ Diapers (wearing)
_______ Hoods/Masks
_______ Latex
_______ Leather
_______ Lingerie
_______ Lycra/Spandex
_______ Pantyhose/Stockings
_______ Uniforms
_______ Other (Please specify)
_______ Other (Please specify)
_______ Other (Please specify)
_______ Other (Please specify)
_______ Other (Please specify)