Wet dreams

I finally had a wet dream when I was about 19. I was staying with a bunch of guys I liked who were older than me. I woke up with my underpants soaked in semen. I must have been having a great dream! I know that I didn't have other wet dreams because I masturbated almost every day. (I sneaked into the bathroom before the guys woke up and cleaned myself up. I wrapped my briefs in toilet paper and took them to my car. They never knew.)

My first masturbation experience was followed by a reprimand from my mother, threatening a severe punishment if I ever did it again. So from ages 12 to 16, I didn’t dare masturbate. That wasn’t easy. And my mother considered me “too young to reach puberty”; I never was allowed to date, either, or show any interest in girls.

So back then I had wet dreams on a very regular basis—once a week, on the average. And frustratingly, they never involved me making love to a girl. Rather, the most frequent dream I had involved me taking a piss with another guy.

There wasn’t anyone to talk to about it. In fact, right now is the first time I’ve told it to the world. It wasn’t till many years later that I came to terms with this as a certain little kink I had. Pissing together in the same pot became a nifty (though infrequent) sideline activity with male partners.

But getting back to those wet dreams: That just drove me bonkers. I should be grateful my parents never got after me about this—about staining the sheets, or having me washing my own sheets. Because in my instance, it would’ve been adding insult to injury.

My first masturbation experience was followed by a reprimand from my mother, threatening a severe punishment if I ever did it again. So from ages 12 to 16, I didn’t dare masturbate.

You couldn't jerk off in the bathroom where you, in a normal family environment, would have had privacy?

You couldn't jerk off in the bathroom where you, in a normal family environment, would have had privacy?

With a disapproving and therefore most likely a suspicious mother, bathrooms would be the first place such a parent would keep an eagle eye on.

In any case, more specific info on the particular situation would be needed before making any calls on behavior.

Stopped having wet dreams decades ago. Almost all involved my getting an enema and they were some of best sexy feeling enemas I've had...

I have not had a wet dream in years. My last one was during my freshman year in college. I suspect that due to the close living conditions and not having a girlfriend at the time, I did not masturbate as regularly and during a vivid dream, I ejaculated. I was concerned that I may have moaned or otherwise waken my roommate and would have to live the situation down. Luckily, nothing ever came of the incident. Wet dreams are amazing in that it is an uncontrollable and "forced" orgasm of sorts.

Not sure if a result of reading/thinking about this topic I almost had one the other night! It was not an enema related dream; instead involved my being a woods about to jo.... can't remember other details... but it felt good even though I did not reach a climax... The dream might also be because I hadn't jo for a few days.... Anyway, got me thinking about abstaining from jo'ing to see if eventually I'd have a wet dream.. (Remember in the Seinfeld episode where they all placed a bet to see who could go the longest... Thought about that too.)

In puberty I had 2 or 3 times a wet dream. After that no longer, even if I had longer periods without ejaculation.

We should be glad we aren't in Victorian and Edwardian times. Any form of seminal emissions that weren't part of coitus was believed to be bad for your health, especially mental health. Even adult males were concerned about “wasting precious fluids”. Male children were circumcised because they wanted to reduce stimulation, and thereby lower the likelihood of masturbation. This fear (even though most adults are now unaware of it) are still causing the majority of American males being circumcised. The ways of preventing self abuse by both male and female children were many and some very severe. Children had their hands tied to the bed rails or placed in kinds of chastity belts. The parent would check on boys in the morning to see if they had wet dreams. Even if tied down or in a belt, of course, semen could be found on occasion. He would then be severely punished because he must have caused this by having very naughty thoughts.

I had lots of wet dreams as a teenager after my mother had caught me masturbating and made it clear I had to stop.

After I got married and I found out my wife did not want to have sex I decided to go without - the wet dreams came back.

Each time the subject matter was male = male.

So I decided to explore my bi side.

I still have wet dreams, about twice a month now. I'm 56.

You guys ever think about setting up a camera to record the nocturnal emission ?

Just last week I had a wet dream. Was not able to remember the specifics,but do camera very beautiful woman was in my dreams. I woke up with a very sticky and wet area around my penis. Also felt very relieved. Hadn't had a wet dream for years and was thinking about that fact about a week before it occurred. Coincidence?

I avoid masturbating and remain celibate for extended periods, and on average get wet dreams every 10-15 days, sometimes two nights in a row (to release the excess built-up semen). Occasionally I become aware in my sleep just when an orgasm is imminent, and am able to have a dry orgasm without ejaculation also.

You guys ever think about setting up a camera to record the nocturnal emission ?

I have, but it's hard. For one, it's difficult to predict exactly which night there will be a nocturnal emission, so it would require recording over several nights. The other thing is that quite often, the wet dream comes when I end up sleeping on my belly, or sleep with tight underwear, leading to ejaculation brought on by the extra pressure and stimulation on the erect penis. But this would not be captured on camera. I did however record several rounds of erections coming and going (nocturnal penile tumescence), which is fascinating.

This is one of those things I've never experienced that I wished I had. I thought that I would have at least experienced one during my long period of abstanance in the military. Any ideas on increasing the chance?

It was so common as a teen and into early 20s but has not been a factor now. I tend to think that is more what happens with age and also greater opportunities for relationships and sexual release. When it was frequent, I wondered just how many briefs I was going to need? There was some embarrassment as well.

Being a cuckold in chastity 24/7 and only let out of lock when my wife comes home for a dates fully satisfied . She will then let me masturbate as she tells me about her date. When she doesn't come home satisfied , she will tell me about the date , but won't unlock me. Sometimes I have gone over a month or more without a release . being horney, I have had wet dreams . It is embarrassing and my wife finds it funny.

Any ideas on increasing the chance?

From my anecdotal experience, some factors increase my likelihood of having a wet dream:

- The obvious one is time. The longer it has been since the last ejaculation, the likelier it is. So abstaining from not only sex, but also masturbation.

- An overall attention to health and diet, regular and adequate sleep, exercise etc. I believe this contributes to healthier testosterone levels and semen production.

- Wearing loose and comfortable clothing while sleeping helps to avoid wet dreams, and conversely, something pressing against the genitals, be it tight clothing or ending up sleeping on the stomach will stimulate them, making it more likely. You could also try wearing a cock ring (not too tight!) that could help prolong any erections you might have while you are asleep.

- Mental arousal before going to bed, by watching or reading something erotic will make it more likely to have an erotic dream later in the night. I did say avoiding masturbation, but a bit of stimulation before bed, while avoiding leaking of semen or prostate fluid, will build up some internal pressure that will increase the likelihood of having a wet dream.

All anecdotal of course, and maybe it will be different for you. But feel free to experiment. If it happens, it happens, so treat it as a pleasant surprise if you ever get one.

Any ideas on increasing the chance?

Avoid jacking off to and endpoint. When you're about to fall asleep, edge yourself, but stop short of cumming.

I'd had some occasionally between the ages of ten through thirteen once puberty had hit me pretty hard, and can vaguely recall having a rare few to about my mid teens, (fourteen to fifteen) which I actually found a little embarrassing, but after that having wet dreams completely stopped for me. I'd self-learned the delights of self-abuse or should I say wanking it when I was around eleven years old, and made sure to tame my extreme horniness whenever I had some privacy at home. (Sorry mom for the countless pairs of slightly discolored, stiff as a board white tube socks and the occasional front part of my white briefs, which you'd handled when doing laundry during my early teen years) But besides taking matters into my own hands as needed, the older of the two girls that lived next door to me (by two years) when I was twelve, often really enjoyed fine tuning her fellatio skills with me after school for a couple of years, and I'd gladly return the favor to better my skills performing cunnilingus on her. She was a cute, frisky, little nympho redhead who I'd also lost my piv virginity to at age twelve. Ah, the good old days. Thinking back about it always brings such fun and delightful memories, and puts a big grin on my face.

Just last night, woke up from a deep sleep with ejaculate on my stomach and a still erect penis. Don't remember what I was dreaming but it must have been good as I felt very relieved and satisfied.

I’ve never had one, and I’m 41 years old so I don’t think it’s gonna happen anytime soon

I started about 10 years old and I was still having wet dreams up to the age of 50. Even with regular sex, I would still have them a couple of nights a week. From about 30 years old, I would wake up enough, just before, or after one or two squirts, and was able to squeeze my penis until I got to the bathroom.

Had lots of sex dreams and have woken up rock hard but unfortunately never had a wet dream. Would have loved to have experienced that!

Ahhhhhh - the good old days….er, nights.

It's been a llloooonnnnngggg time since I had one. don't remember the last time. I still get nocturnal erections, but don't release

I had one earlier this month after a gap of at least 15 years. I woke up all wet and sticky and a large wet patch on the sheets.

I've been amazed that I still have three or four wet dreams each year since I'm in my eighties. I don't cum during the dreams, but I wake needing to, and a couple of strokes sends me into a fantastic orgasm. Sometimes just touching my penis is all it takes. And just in case you wonder, I'm not complaining about it at all. [chuckle] I enjoy a great orgasm any way I can have it.

I’ve definitely never had one .

I’m pretty certain that my first ejaculation, at the age of 12, was the result of a wet dream; however, I really didn’t know what was going on. I would guess that I had three to four after that, but after I learned to masturbate I haven’t had one. I like it best when I can enjoy my ejaculations in total consciousness.

I had them as a young teen. And got in trouble for it. Mom thought they were caused by naughty thoughts.

I've never had one. I discovered masturbation quite early (in a swimming pool..) and it's never had a chance since…