My husband was home for the Thanksgiving weekend, he travels for business, and I was getting up the nerve to either give or get a enema. I tried to talk to him about it and explore the options and he was shrugging it off like a joke. I have always been private about my play w/enemas for years. I never knew people other than me had this love of enemas! Till I found this site. I now feel normal to have the feelings I have, but am also embarrassed about it at the same time, to share w/husband! We have been married for 16 years and have a wonderful sex life. He is my dream man plus some! But this side of me he does not know. Any advice on how to be taken seriously about my passion? I love enemas for the erotic play and the feeling of being clean! I have explained this to him and he just tells me its an exit only hole! I wish I had the thrill of getting an enema. OMG!!! Just to be able to relax and reach an orgasm while feeling it fill me up inside is the best dream I have!!!!!