External Texas Catheter idea

So how about having a girl let me feel good.. or have sex.. and right when I want to get off put an extra thick.. extra sticky external catheter shield on so i cant get off or even feel good.. then use sounds or a Foley type Catheter through the externals hole and right into the urethra.. Could be fun.. what do you think? and oh ya.. when would it be taken off so I could finish? lol

Partnersub and I play this way quite often. As soon as he arrives, I am "in charge" of him. He has to ask me before he can do anything; urinate, defecate, ejaculate, you get the picture.

So we put on a TX catheter, sometimes the end of it is open and he just has to control himself, other times he has to wear a leg bag. There is always a lot of tease and denial going on. Usually, after a day or two, I'll take the catheter off just long enough for him to have a nice orgasm, then he gets a fresh one put on.

These things wouldn't happen if he weren't so naughty, but somebody has to keep a grip on him!

For us, my nurse insists on the McGuire urinal attached to either a leg or a night bag. I am allowed to have an erection, but I cannot do anything to relieve it. Sometimes she will squirt KY into the sheath and slowly masturbate me. This is a timed exercise and I have to hold my release for at least 15 minutes. If I do not make it to the end, she will switch me to an older Davol unit. Because of its design erections are much more uncomfortable.

Nexus, you and your nurse clearly have this down to a science. I'm going to have to borrow a few pages from your "book".

Lady, I have to tell you that almost everyday you post something that either makes me smile from ear to ear, laugh so hard my belly hurts, makes me cry, or makes me ponder something. I greatly appreciate that, all of that by the way.

I will tell you that your post on this thread, the first post is one that made me ponder a bit. You said that you make him leave the catheter on for sometimes 2 days. How in the hell do you do that?

And I don't mean how do you keep it on. Goodness knows I've placed those things in a medical setting a thousand times or so, not much different than putting a condom on.

But my question is, how in the hell do you spend 2 days with your man, one or both of you naked, and after you have spent so much time apart, how do you ummm, ummm, control yourself? Girl, you have got to teach me.

I apparently don't have any self control when it comes to that department because we can hardly get the door to either of our houses, or to the hotel room closed all the way and we are going at each other like white on rice. I don't think, at least not now that I or he could be around each other for that long and not do the nasty.

Teach me oh holy on. Teach me the self control I am lacking.....Seriously, and helpful tips would be greatly appreciated. I love the entire concept of "making him wait." Hehehe.

By the way, have I told you lately that you are my hero? You really are you know. I don't respect very many people, but you are one that I do. Just thought you should know. You are a woman among men and women you know, and you have every reason to be proud of yourself.

Boy, that turned a bit mushier than I had intended to, sorry. lol. Just missing my girl times I guess lately. Grrrrr. Please keep up the fantastic posts and blogs. Both are always a joy to read.

Mashie

Ladydocisim, Yes my nurse has this down pat. These appliances keep me completely under her control.

Hey Sistah Mashie!

We've had a mutual admiration society going for almost as long as I've been on the forum! I think the world of you too, and love reading your posts and blogs. I often have the same responses too!

As for your other questions, I'll send you a PM. Best regards to you and your man.

From me and mine!

Actually an external catheter can be fun. I had an accident, with arm and hand injuries, so I couldn't use a urinal. As an alternative to diapers the nurse put on an external catheter. I was embarrassed out of my mind as she shaved me, telling me the erection was 'normal.' She left and came back after 5 minutes when it was soft. She had 2 sizes of the Uro-Sheath, at thick vinyl condom. I was further humiliated when she said I need the SMALLER of the two. She rolled it over my penis and secured it with a rubber strap and plastic button, on the base. It really worked. While I was in the hospital I became excited every time the nurses washed me off (twice a day) and had re-applied it. I became 'hooked' on wearing urinary appliances from this experience. If I'm not wearing a Foley catheter I wear a Uro-Sheath. Other external catheters are not re-usable, so they're expensive.

Another reason for using the Uro-Sheath is that being thick, it fits an erect penis firmly, and when the Uro-Sheath is slid up and down over the end of the penis there is excellent stimulation and any fluids besides urine are also contained, preventing messes.

We have tried the TX external caths and while they have their place, we prefer the belted McGuire style. These can be reused over a long time with proper care. I also find them more comfortable than the condom styles, particularly for night time wear (like I currently have on).