Play Docs what do you prefer? Experienced patient or inexperienced patient?

Play Docs, whats your favourite part of an examination and what kind of patient do you like the best?

I tend to prefer patients who are maybe somewhat apprehensive, but compliant. I don't mind if at first they are a bit shy. Part of the appeal of medical play is overcoming these barriers.

My favourite part of a meeting, rather than just the examination phase is, strangely, when it's over. We're having a coffee and the patient says 'when can you see me again?'

What kind of patient do I like best? Well, first set aside matters of age, size, colour, creed, sexual orientation and all the other potentially divisive issues which in my opinion have no place in the playdoc/patient relationship.

Before meeting I want someone to have asked me a lot of questions from which I can determine an enquiring mind. I want their mind to be an open mind, apprehensive maybe, very likely anticipatory, willing to communicate their thoughts and feelings and wholly comfortable and feeling safe in what we are doing.

Thats my kind of patient!

I tend to encounter and play with patients that don’t have much experience, if any, in actualizing this sort of fantasy adventure. In my opinion, medical or gyn play is pretty esoteric and not as common as other means of BDSM activities. I have to say though, that I like inexperienced patient’s because they have an anxiousness and excitement at the beginning of the exam play that innervates the experience. As things progress, I enjoy the transformation and transcendence of the patient as she becomes absorbed in the eroticism of the exam. Although, my favorite part of the examination has to be when my patient puts her legs in the stirrups so she is exposing and displaying her privates to me for the first time.

Most of my gyno-play has been with my ex-wife. She was exactly the kind of patient I wanted and I never got tired of playing with her, during our 8 years together. In the beginning she was very shy (she was only 22 then) but submissive and with very strong sexual needs and urges. I had already been doing gyno fetish play for some time and I told her that I really have to do this with her in order to be satisfied with our relationship. So she gradually allowed me to get more advanced. At that time it was amazing to see how she was ashamed and curious and excited at the same time, and gradually developed her abilities to enjoy orgasms induced in various ways. Later, I just plainly enjoyed her always strong reactions. Before my ex-wife, I had a few female erotic friends that I developed my skills with. Also with them it was most enjoyable to make them orgasm under such kinky conditions and to watch their mix of excitement and embarrassment. Most of these women were basically shy and submissive. If there is a favorite part of a play session, the first highlight is when I first open up the vagina and start to lubricate and massage her internally, after that her orgasms.

I like the bond and trust that forms between the doctor and patinet!

I consider myself basically gynecologist so I can give 3 types of exams: complete female head to toe, examining the more I can "inch by inch" and using all my senses ( and I lve the auscultation part); more classic gynecological appointment's including thorougher breast exam; waist down exam only even without a gown just asking the patient to undress waist down and then lifting clothes for belly palpation followed by thorough gynecological examination.

My favourite kind of patients are all female patients (from 18 to 65 ) who have the ability to come to me for being thoroughly examined in the most professional way ( I will take my time during the examination ). Personal Hygiene is my only criteria

As a Play Doctor who's main objective is realism, I have found that Newbies, the uninitiated to MedFet, and "inexperienced" patients, present the best possibilities for realism. I have had a number of encounters with completely vanilla playmates who had an inclination to BDSM but no previous exposure to MedFet. Simply, a non-Medfetter is so much more "real" than an experienced MedFet there is almost no comparison. The anxiety, modesty, and genuine responses from a first-time patient are nearly impossible for an experienced MedFet to convey. For all the aspects of realism and the special tension which exists with a non-MedFet, it is a very unique experience from a Play Doctor's perspective. It is almost as real as it could get.

On the other hand, experienced MedFets already know what they want. Unlike a Newbie who must be handled with the utmost care and attention to insure a gentle experience, most MedFets want some pain, discomfort, embarrassment, all those things MedFets love. And since I'm a MedFet too, I enjoy that equally, if not more. As long as realism is the primary objective, and it always is, both Doctor and Patient are happy in my Exam Room.

I have to be honest i really love the whole thing, i guess it's the feeling of dominance that really turns me on, especially with a complete stranger..

The initial exposure- when the gown comes down for the first time an you see somerhing you're 'not supposed to'. It's a very powerful feeling.