Having recently (in the last year) become seriously incontinent of urine I fear my bowels might now be going the same way. I hope the hell not. Unlike wetting I really dont get off on that at all. Its just that over the last few months I have had 5 or 6 instances of having to get to the toilet within a few seconds or soiling myself (not yer usual chronic stomach upset) and in fact failed on 3 occasions now. I also feel like my back passage is not able to squeeze as powerfully as it used to or for as long as it should and I feel obliged to go at the earliest indication of a need. Could this be connected with my developing urinary incontinence anybody know, if so, through what mechanism?