Marlene and I enjoy mild non threatening submission games, we're not into BDSM, spanking or bondage.
As an example of what I mean; I may be involved in something and Marlene will come to me only wearing a garter belt, hose and heels, opr just thigh high hose. She will be carrying an empty enema gag with one of my favorite nozzles attached and ask me if I would like to have it?
Of course my reply is that I do. She'll tell me I know what I have to do to have her give it to me and I kneel in front of her and while kissing her feet., tell her how much I want and need for her to give me the enema, as I do, she'll rub my back and say something like; "poor baby, I know, I know, Just be a good boy and you'll soon have just what you need. Then she'll lead me to the bathroom. As we go she'll she'll tell me that I know what I have to do when I get there. Upon our arrival I undress completely and get a small 1-foot high foot stool and put it beside her left foot after she steps to the hand basin, standing she spreads her legs and I sit between them as she places her left foot on the stool spreading her legs wider. As she prepares my enema I pleasure her orally as I caress her hips and legs periodically kissing licking and sucking her inner thighs between the hose tops and the point of most of my attention. .
Once the enema is prepared she hangs it on a towel rod, I lie on my back, bring my knees to my chest for lubrication and nozzle insertion, then she gets over me in the 69 position and as she lowers herself to me tells me that I need to finish what I started and opens the clamp. I must take the entire enema, sometimes it's 2- quarts and other times 3-liters and I'm not permitted orgasm until I've taken the entire enema and satisfied her. To help keep me from going "over the hill,"" she takes "me" in hand and whenever It seams that I may go "over" she chicken chokes me to retard it. If it doesn't and I "go over"" I still must take the remainder of the enema and assure her satisfaction.
We are a couple who fully understands each others needs.
Marvin