Diaper play while being a parent?

Hey everyone! So I really want to get into some diaper play with my wife. She doesn't really know about my love for diapers but has found my stash of diapers hidden in a box in the house. She moved them to another spot and she knows that I know she found them. The topic hasn't come up, mostly

because I am a big chicken and also she hasn't asked about them.

What also complicates the issue is we have two six month old infants now who were conceived uexpectantly. I'm not sure how to introduce the idea of diaper play to her or communicate my desires. I'm not interested in "playing baby". I just like wearing diapers (mostly sexually) and want to experience that with her. Yep, I know I should have told her many years ago, at least 10 years ago, but that just didn't happen. My wife is a very understanding and loving person and I think this probably wouldn't have been a problem before children.

Anyone else out there with children, especially, have any ideas or comments on how it worked out with you?

Thanks!!

Dlbabe, if you look through the threads on this topic on this site you will see that this question has been discussed many times. There's some good advice amongst them - which I won't repeat here.

Suffice to say, a lot depends (no pun intended!) on the relationship you have with your wife. Take it slowly. There are many of us that have been down this path - and each of can tell a different story. Some are tales of success whilst others are not.

Kiwibatman, wonderful advice and so nicely written. Dbabe I hope you take the advice and do not rush things, your wife obviously is aware of your diapers. Maybe it is time for one of those little conversations at bed time between the two of you. Although with two little ones in the house I am sure she is dead tired at bed time. Hope it goes well.

Karma points for both of you Dbabe and Kiwibatman

Thanks guys. I looked through this site before I posted my thread and I couldn't find any examples of people talking about revealing their diaper fetish with their s/o while they were parents. Many of the threads on the site, especially in this section, deal with guys wanting to introduce their girlfriends or wife to the fetish. They don't have, or at least don't mention that they have the complicating issue of having children.

Any advice would be appreciated...

My Daughter suspects something but I have been very ill. Maybe that is why I am getting away with it in our home. I would not recommended that, for anyone trying to use good judgement. Kids are smart and they will find out no matter how well you hide it. Best course of action is to take it out of the home until they are gone. Like that is going to happen!!

Best advice be very very careful when and where you play. If the questions come up from your Kids some day, be as honest as you can possibly be using discretion accounting for their ages. They will remember what you say and they will know if you lie to them.

Great thread folks, 😎