Female Doctor

I soley use female doctors. They are very gentle and caring and seem to really care about me. This is very important. Plus they have smaller fingers for when they check the prostate :😃

I wish I could say I enjoyed my experience with a female doctor, but I had a blood vessel break in my bladder and the male urologist called his female colleague in to consult. She looked at the monitor from the cystoscope and decided she could electro-cauterize it, which she did, fortunately. Definately not an erotic experience.

I had a full medical in London two years ago before moving abroad. It was a private clinic and I wanted the first appointment in the day. They told me it would be a female doctor and I said I was not worried either way.

After the first session with the nurses for blood, ECG, eyes, etc I was shown in to a tiny room in the basement where there was a very attractive Irish lady doctor about 40. We went through results on the computer screen and then she asked me if I wanted a physical prostate examination as part of the full test. I said if she recommended it then sure.

She asked me if I wanted a chaperone. I said sure if it was another woman. The room was so small she would have to share the couch with me!

She then asked me to take my shirt off. As I leant against the bed to do this she pulled the curtain in front of me. This room was so small that the curtain was going to be in my face so I said why are you doing that. She said for my modesty. I pointed out it was going to be like a comedy act with me punching from behind the curtain. My shirt had to go on the chair by the desk anyway as no other room.

After the chest exam she asked me to remove my trousers. Again the curtain started to come across. I said look you have asked permission to put your finger in my butt, I think I can take my trousers off without a curtain to protect me. Again I would have had to pull the curtain aside to put them on the chair anyway.

The examination wsas totally professional but as it is not recommended that you have a physical examination of the prostate anymore then, unless I have something seriously wrong down there, the lovely Irish lady doctor's finger will be the last !!

I go to a female doctor for every physical.

My favorite physical was when i was in college and needed one for a job. It was awesome because there was a med student who was interning and she gave it. The best part was it was a long exam form and she followed it step by step. she was late 20's, blond and pretty hot. At first she couldn't find my ass hole and had to make a comment.

Call me a homophobe (I'm really not) but I just can't enjoy any part of my exam if my dr. is a male. I always try to go to a female doctor.

Did you wish you had been circumcised when you were standing there in front of the female doctor?

I always try to get a female doctor. I've found they are much more thorough, particularly about examining the genitals and the prostate. I look forward to my exams with them.

"I always try to get a female doctor. I've found they are much more thorough, particularly about examining the genitals and the prostate. I look forward to my exams with them."

I could not agree more. That has been my universal experience -- women doctors do much, much more thorough exams, especially of my genitals and prostate. Regardless of why that is the case, it is most certainly true.

I'd agree - definitely prefer female docs.

I have always gotten my best healthcare from female providers. My chiropractor and my urologist are both ladies and very good at what they do. Both of my primary care doctors are male...can't really change the VA primary, but will soon be changing my other primary. My non-VA primary is almost worthless to me. When I went in for my "complete physical", he took maybe five minutes, and it was by no means complete. My health insurance company was just bought out, so I am sure there will be some changes for next year. One of the most important I will make is getting a female primary care doctor. When my wife and I were having our kids, our family doctor was a lady, and she was SUPER.

I would have to agree i have always received better care from female doctors. i don't know why they just seem to be more thorough

I've always seen a a female doctor.She's very thorough and always takes time doing the genital exam.

I've always found female doctors to be better. They listen to your concerns, don't condescend, and don't treat you like you're an idiot when you tell them about a treatment or side effect you're read about on the internet.

Only problem is my current doctor is HOT.......but unfortunately she's also married w/kids and extremely religious. argh! Foiled again!

As a kid and into my early 20's I always went to male Drs. out of routine. But as my enjoyment of all things med has grown I switched to females. I agree with the consensus that they are generally more receptive to talking and thorough in their exams then male Drs.

From birth until late 20's, always had male doctors. Then in a period when I was still young and barely getting by, started using a walk-in clinic for sore throats, employment physicals, etc and almost all of their staff MDs were female. First time was unsettling, was getting a physical for a job offer and young and nice looking Dr Deborah X went through it very thoroughly. I was trying to think of anything else and not get a semi, plus was combo very embarrassing and very erotic to have her giving me a careful genital and rectal exam (my second one ever, this was a memorable visit for more than one reason.)

Years later, after putting in several years as a Standardized Patient at a couple different schools, I realized that most of my everyday MDs were now women and that I preferred it. Having helped educate many new MDs, men and women, I was completely at ease with any provider AND that women students and women doctors were by and large better listeners, more thorough, didn't talk down to me or dismiss my concerns.

Like others on here, I had more than a few male doctors that did physicals without having me take off even my shirt, most skip doing hernia and dre after a certain point, never had a woman skip that part.

Better care, more open and take more time to do a complete workup of whatever I'm in for and willing to discuss findings and concerns, a woman practitioner never has hurried in my experience.

Plus, when it's time for Dr. Finger to appear for the prostate exam, women do have smaller fingers...

Female ultrasound tech and her trainee for my scrotal ultrasound, thankfully my penis was covered by a towel