Big Cocks are .........

my wife (an ex-wife) never complained about its size, what I did with it, or what I did with my tongue to compliment it.

Do you mean to say you spoke praise about how good your penis was by complimenting it or you did something with your tongue to complEment what you did with your penis?

Sorry, those are two of my favorite words. 😁

Strop - Strap Compliment-Complement

What did you have for breakfast??? 😉

Strop - Strap Compliment-Complement

What did you have for breakfast??? 😉

@gwhap She must have had her "Brain Flakes" this morning! 😄 😎

I somehow never seen this thread and I am literally laughing out loud !

Damn I wish I would have read Susie and Gwhaps posts first before I googled too ! Aaah who am I kidding I still would have googled ! ???

I am sure this goes into the category of “ I caught a fish this big ? but more likely it was really ? hahaa 😉

I'll agree with @agracier ... an encumbrance. I've never measured mine, but I'm perfectly happy being 'normal.' Never had complaints of not filling anyone, and if I had a larger penis I'd probably have had a lot fewer anal sex partners!! And if it takes a longer time for her to relax and open for a larger penis, that would really cut down on the spontaneity I've enjoyed over the yrs!

Size or the obsession with it actually is a non-topic in my mind. What matters so much more is the desire to work with and satisfy one's partner. There are literally hundreds of ways to do this if both partners are willing to work as a team. So - proclamation here! - it is all about STYLE vs size! Stop measuring because it does not matter. Stop assuming that the opposite sex is so stupid as to be easily impressed with size! I guess there may be some for whom size is the critical way to rate someone, but what was that I just wrote about those who are easily impressed with size??

@anng your comment really rang a bell. How true you speak. The problem is so many males are addicted to porn that promotes this cock size issue. I had issues occur early in my marriage because of this but it is so much worse now because of the vast proliferation of and easy access to porn.

I posted a joke I saw on a T-shirt in a fishing shop.

It's not how deep you go, it's how well you wiggle the worm!!

As one who can't claim 10-13 inches or coke can style girth, I applaud your responses @easv123 and @anng! But if it's worth anything, I can lick my eyebrows!! 😃

@anng I've had no complaints about mine. 😉 😄

Well, I HAVE learnt a lot. Special thanks to the ladies who have contributed. But I can teach nothing. I have loved (and still do, tenderly) only one woman. We began our sex lives as mutual masturbators only, but learning what worked for us and what didn't.

We tried anal, but I hurt her and we never went back there again. Then we married, but couldn't afford a pregnancy for a while; so (that being in the '60's), she was on the first generation of the pill. That one, you may remember, killed all female desire. Added to our woes were a VERY tough hymen and my size. I got in eventually. but it nearly wrecked us as a couple. I could and did oral her, and hugely enjoyed that; but she got one UTI after another and we had to can that, too.

Our love life really began only after 8 years and four children, by which time I was much better at pacing my orgasm, and she, well able to accommodate my penis, whose dimensions are now an asset. Her duty done, her tubes were tied when our last was born. A repair op for her after he was at boarding school spiced our loving up nicely, and her breasts became jet-assisted take off rockets! Yeeha!!

We worked with what we had and have been an item (married) almost 54 years. Penis size? Same tool, every possible reaction.

Fuck me that is a sizeable member.

I wouldn't ever get to point have someone's cock out and gone nope to big.

You don't know you until you try so would always give it a go. Might insist of a good warm up first with his mouth, don't run a marathon without a warm up.

But we are designed to take a pounding.

Maybe I would start on top so i can control the depth of penetration.

Can you bruise the cervix ?

I have to take the time to post a reply to "Big Cocks".

Dam, 13", how do you get pants to fit you? You must look great at the pool in the summer? Your Dr. Must bring in as many interns and resident Dr.'s to assist with your physical exams?

So I have said to many ladies, I will give it my all and I hope that satisfies you.

A while back we had some medical friends over and the stories about the hospital happenings was going on. The urologist was relating a story of a black man who came into the emergency room who after hearing for years that black men's penises were supposed to be big, he had the chief complaint that his penis was abnormally small. Of course, since that wasn't an emergency, he waited until all the people with real problems were treated. Finally it becomes this guy's turn to get examined. Our friend had him come into an examining room. The patient drops his pants and our friend says his equipment is normal. The patient was not believing the urologist, so he called in several residents for a quick look. The patient showed them his penis and the residents and attendings looked, shrugged their shoulders and mumbled among each other for a moment. Finally our friend told the man he had the biggest one in the room. He left but still wasn't satisfied.

I just googled the subject and here's what I found:

https://www.google.com/search?hl=en&as_q=&as_epq=largest+human+penis&as_oq=&as_eq=&as_nlo=&as_nhi=&lr=&cr=&as_qdr=all&as_sitesearch=&as_occt=any&safe=images&as_filetype=&as_rights=

I never let anything bigger than 16 cm in my pussy. Sex must be a pleasure, not a pain. Man with big ones have a difficult character. Man with the little ones, are aware of their deficiencies, so they are kind and companionable, helpful, cooperative

friendly.... with the right impetus the will do everything for me and my pleasure.

@Miriamvee. I like your response! I am average size, but I think I am more than capable of pleasing a woman. So much more - oral, massage, rimming. You do what you do to pleasure your partner ( both ways) big dicks don’t necessarily make better lovers.

My fiancé and I are working on this.. I've never thought I had a big penis til I sent her flying into the headboard on our vacation (on the Queen Mary) .. We called it the frogger ..(as she yelled "WHAT THE FUCK") Big or not, I'm too big for her, I'm bottoming out and when balls deep I'm ripping her. So we are trying out various positions and items to prevent full depth. I'm not complaining, apparently I'm not too big for her to deep throat me. She loves the feeling of the cum hitting the back of her throat (so she doesn't feel the texture) ... She actually told me to fuck her throat deep as I cum! Long story short... listen to your ladies... big cock or not.. if you are hurting her.. FIX IT!

I once worked with a guy whose member looked like one of those summer sausages they sell at mall kiosks. I was in the restroom with him one day when another employee saw it and said, "Damn, man, I bet you get a lot of dates!" His answer surprised me: "Yeah, a lot of dates; but if we ever get down to business, they don't want to see me again." So, there IS a downside to being too well endowed.

@anng I've had no complaints about mine. 😉 😄

Sometimes having a happy hand is important! (joke people relax)

"Yeah, a lot of dates; but if we ever get down to business, they don't want to see me again." So, there IS a downside to being too well endowed.

It should also be obvious that well-endowed men will not be getting much active anal sex either, either straight anal or gay anal. Who wants to be anally penetrated by a large penis? THAT must surely be nothing more than fantasy porn ...

Big cocks are divine, finding one is the problem for me alas, I did have a beautiful Jordanian man give me his 10 inches, but he was also someone for whom telling the truth was more a concept than an actuality, so he had to go.

My own is approx. 7 inches in length by 5 inches of girth, most that have sampled it say it is big, to me it is normal, but I always thank them for their compliment.

I just hooked up with a guy who was 8 inches with a 5 inch girth now I've had 8 inches in me vaginally and it brushed my cervix not really pleasurable. Well he wanted anal I was game lined myself with shots of anal lube. I couldn't take it sphincter was going to rip . I was on top controlling penetration it was dangerous and painful. I think 5inch 3 inch girth is just fine

I can't really say about length, because I don't really know the procedures and standards for measuring. I'd say pretty average in length for a white dude, but a number of Asian women with a great deal of experience have commented on my size being much larger than normal, especially that of Asian men. They seem most impressed with my girth (5.5 inches in circumference). One gal said, "It not especially long, but it VERY thick." On a recent trip to Vietnam I got a massage from a gal who, to my surprise, asked if she could "Boom boom" me. I agreed and she straddled me. She had a hard time getting it inside her, and finally gave up. She got on her back and told me to try. It was difficult, and when I finally got it in, the obvious pain on her face was too much for me. I really couldn't continue if I thought she was in obvious discomfort. I settled for a Happy Ending. She was not a stranger to dicks, and I can't imagine I was her first white guy, but she was genuinely way too tight for me. Yes, guys, there is such a thing as too tight, or from her perspective too big. Sorry it couldn't happen, but I don't think I could have maintained an erection with that look on her face.

I would just like to add what many real ladies have already posted in this topic that the size of a penis is far more important to a man rather than a woman. My own experiences, for what it is worth, is that those guys with larger than average penises don't feel as though they have to put in any effort when making love. However, those fortunate guys with smaller than average sized penis tend to put a lot of extra work into their love making maybe as a compensation for being small. I know which type I would chose if I ever had to again.

Thx @JSChallenger

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Actually I'm on the large size also when you get older my wife just stopped getting her period and dried up she gets lot of pain we really don't have regular sex anymore. I rather have a smaller cock feel much better most woman can suck on it easily reality is for a man its more about light friction on the penis not tight grip on the penis it will make it less sensitive.

My solution was to sit facing each other, knees drawn up, legs spread. I insert the head only and manually stimulate her. No longer an issue.

Big cocks are on my mind a lot. Mine is on the shorter side and very thin. I do think porn has ruined it for some people due to the big cocks that are sometimes hard on viagra or other meds. I do love seeing a big cock entering a mouth, pussy or ass and they do deserve extra attention.

What is big? Bigger than me.

I am sure that my size let me enjoy a lot more anal sex than I would have experienced if I had been well endowed, as they say. Even some of the tighter, virginal younger ladies in my teens I am sure, would have been turned off by a large penis.

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I would just like to add what many real ladies have already posted in this topic that the size of a penis is far more important to a man rather than a woman.

I can't say I am bigger than average but I think what you can do with it is much more important than size. Performance is king!