Poop and anal play

OK, the USE of the word is stupid.

Very immature at best.

I suppose next we're going to ask about your (W)HOO (W)HOO. Unlike Pooh I'm not sure of the spelling.

I'm not trying to Unlike my friend POOH or call them stupid or immature.

Poop is such a stupid word.

“Poo” is stupider. ?

@lick1a

I suppose next we're going to ask about your (W)HOO (W)HOO. Unlike Pooh I'm not sure of the spelling.

I'm not trying to Unlike my friend POOH or call them stupid or immature.

I don't even know what the fuck that is.

Please DO NOT tell me.

I frequently use "poop", rather than "feces", "shit", or "crap". "Feces" sounds too medical for a casual conversation, and the other two are so frequently used as epithets that I tend to shun them. Growing up, we frequently heard our mom refer to feces as "poo-poo", and I DO consider that rather childish. I am amazed that this thread has run so long, and become so controversial, LOL! I'm mostly finding that famous Rhett Butler line in Gone with the Wind, "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn!" expresses my feelings on this subject quite succinctly

Hahahahahaha! Listen to all of you calling the shit poop!

Calling shit or feces "poop" is as asinine and immature as calling it "doody."

DON'T DO IT.

Calling it feces is perfect in all respects.

Anyone remember "It's Howdy Doody Time?" As a kid I always thought that was some kind of play on words - an adult making fun of us... Oh, an not to mention the "peanut gallery"...

Would prefer not to have any poop but when you play with the pooper you might just get some once in a while.

I actually find this topic interesting and comical for my stance on it. When playing or fucking my girlfriend's ass, the occasional brown stuff doesn't bother me at all. But when she plays with me, I am constantly worried about it and it takes away from my pleasure. And we have even talked about it and she feels the same as me. Haha. We are so concerned with the other person thinking it is beyond disgusting we forget that we both know and understand that it's part of it on occasion and don't mind at all.

I always try to make an effort, for example if I know I have to poop soon I make sure I do it and then shower before anykind of play, depending one who my partner is I may do more. One friend I’ve played with I always give myself enemas first to make sure I’m extra clean. I have others who don’t mind alittle poop so I don’t stress it

It's quite interesting revisiting this thread and comparing my response 4 years ago to now. I am much more comfortable with shit now, as my wife and I have lived and evolved together, we have had it happen sometimes when we just were too horny to worry about cleaning first and it quite honestly does not bother us now. Just goes to show that we all evolve as we live.

I’ve often wondered how homosexual men deal with the prospect of a shit covered dick if they find themselves in the midst of a spontaneous sexual encounter. I mean like cruising, picking a guy up at a gay bar, etc. I can’t imagine that bringing him home only to tell him to wait while you go to the bathroom and give yourself a enema would be very sexually spontaneous. Does it even matter? I figure that if a bottom KNOWS that he will be having sex at some point in the near future, he will prep accordingly, but that’s not spur-of-the-moment circumstances.

SO, the question is; How does a gay man (top or bottom) handle the possibility of shit during sex?

I’ve had casual anal sex with women in the past and most of the time, there was no mess amazingly enough. It did happen a few times with a couple of exes though, and I found that the best way to handle the situation is to play it off like it’s nothing to even worry about. Once the sex is done, just go to the shower and wash off. They were silently appreciative, because I could tell that they were initially mortified and had that concerned expression on their faces, as though I’d be visibly disgusted with them.

As far as I’m concerned, anal sex is worth the risk. 😃

While poop is always a risk during anal play, for me it can have a negative effect on play so I always try to keep myself clean and insist a partner does the same.

I don't have an issue with it but it's an artifact vs a thrill.

I just use a quick small bulb douche, that seems to remove 99.999% of everything that is left over, only takes a couple of minutes if that. If I am nervous about left overs I use a condom.

As far as I am concerned poop is part of the equation of you’re playing with the poop shoot. I have had poop under my fingernails after playing with my partner and he has also had it happen to him. We just wash it off afterwards.

We refrained if either of us felt “unready”. I occasionally used a bulb to clean out, my wife didn’t. Very few times it got a little dirty, never a problem.

I don’t go looking for it nor do I like it if it shows up but if you play back there eventually you’re gonna get dirty. Wash well.

Ive had anal sex with several women, the first and second was without a condom as it was way before aids etc, ever since ive worn a condom , and ive fingered their bums before hand, didnt feel any shit in them, and went for it, if they arent constipated ive never had a problem. The last one who offerred her ass to me , found a little bit of shit on the bed sheet, and she went mad, stripping the bed, and that was before id buggered her !

For me, i dont care about this :-)

In short: Better accept the risk than skip the pleasure 😉

I hardly engage in anal sex, just caressed/fingered my GF anal. We were not a big fans of actually having enemas back then - German student residences (or at least the ones in which we were) are not the ideal place to manage these things with sufficient privacy during all steps of the procedure. Of course, she showered and tried to be “empty” beforehand, but a few times, it did not work out perfectly. However, I did not particularly mind, since she was fine with it - one washes one's hands afterwards and doesn't touch anything risky until then, et c'est bon.

I feel, or at least hope, after reading through this discussion that there are others who might agree with what seems to be the less popular opinion. I do not have any feelings of arousal toward feces in and of themselves and would share the same natural response of disgust upon encountering them in most circumstances. That said, I have had experiences where the presence, or more specifically the act of bringing about feces while fucking my girl's ass has given a rush of excitement much like I might get from any other kink. In my case, it's not about the feces themselves, but rather the thoughts and feelings of domination/humiliation that I associate with making it happen. The threshold of how much I might be interested in seeing would likely be considered low (not beyond traces on my member and/or her ass). Any further mess would probably be more distracting than arousing, though that's not to say it's wrong.

My girlfriend, by the way, doesn't know this. Our kinks have grown and been nurtured and this is one that I haven't yet shared.

As a man who loves getting fucked, I go to great lengths to clean myself up down there way before I meet up. Never have done spontaneous anal sex and always know what is intended for the event. I do have one friend that actually enjoys giving enemas so love that part anyway. But even for that I try to clean out before. I just want to relax and enjoy the moment

I love anal play with a lady. If you are going to play in the back door, you will sometimes get a little on you. No big deal, just wash it off.

The best anal I have ever received was my GF fisting me while I was taking a shit, felt sooo good.

@clarissadk that's quite the girl friend. I only wish

If you know you may be engaging in anal play and you would prefer not to have to deal with poop, then you should give yourself enemas or anal douches prior to the fun, which is a flushing of the rectum with an enema or a shower shot.

If anal play happens on an unplanned basis, then the players have to be accepting if poop does make an appearance- don't panic. Enjoy the sex and then clean up afterwards.

Yes we all produce poop and it resides in our rectum before being sent on its way to the sewer plant. Don't be poop phobic- it can't kill you. Yes it might cause a UTI if the guy's cock comes in contact with poop. But if you are worried about it then plan ahead and take precautions.

Anal sex for those who have discovered it, is very pleasurable and a great addition to vaginal sex. And of course if guys want to have anal sex the same rules apply (yes be careful of STD's and HIV). Know your partner's STD status.

Anal sex does come with some strings attached, but I for one can say it is well worth it whether you are on the receiving end or the penetrator.

Bottom line…….use common sense and enjoy the sex including anal sex.

I am more tolerant than my bride @sirensong . Our lovemaking is evolving; and mutual enemas administered to each other are sometimes used as foreplay instead of the main event. We find it to be both a very practical and bonding experience. Sex after enema always seems more intense, and freedom from having anything unexpected show up is nice.

@ShadoLord

When I'm going to screw somebody's ass I have them take a shower with me and I wash their ass out myself.