Your age the last time a parent was with you for an exam

My mom stayed in the examination room from my earliest age through age 16. Around age 8 the physicals started to get sexually arousing for me. I had the same female nurse and male doctor all those years. My mom and I would be called by the nurse to the exam room and the nurse would say "take off all your clothes except underpants". At 8 I started to feel excited when undressing in front of mom and the nurse, and even more so when I saw them looking down at my "boy bulge" and exchanging smiling glances with one another. I was always lying down for my exam.Toward the end of each exam the doctor (who was nice and I liked) would get me nude by lowering my underpants down to my knees and palpate my testicles and penis. I would turn my head and look at mom and see that she seemed to greatly enjoy seeing my naked penis and testicles and smile when the doctor would say " is developing normally and everything looks good and like it should down there". When I had my physical at age 12 and mom watched the doc do the usual penis/testicle examination my mom looked a little worried and asked "shouldn't there be some hair down there by now?" He smiled a little and said "don't worry, I'm sure at next year's exam he'll have some hair down there". Shortly after that my first pubic hair appeared and by the time of my next physical not only did I have a fair amount of pubic hair, my penis and testicles had grown. I could hardly wait for my mom to see my boy parts and pubic hair. On the way to the exam I couldn't help getting aroused just thinking about it. When I stripped as usual to my underpants I could see the nurse and my mom exchanging even bigger smiles at seeing my 13-year-old bulge, and my mom having an excited look of anticipation at what she would soon be seeing in the flesh. By the time the completely nude part of my exam was about to take place I had a pretty good erection going in my underpants. I saw mom lean forward with anticipation as the doc started to get me completely naked. But instead of slipping the underpants down like he did before (which would be difficult because of my erection) he deftly lifted the underpants up and over my penis and then slipped them down the rest of the way. He gently palpated my testicles and penis, and my mom, looking pleased, said to him "I'm glad to see that you were correct about the hair, is the amount of hair he has down below the normal amount? I just want to make sure he is healthy and developing properly". "Yes", the doc replied, "everything is completely normal". I was already feeling something "funny" down there, and when my mom asked "is it normal for his penis to get hard and stick up like that just from it being examined" I suddenly started bucking around and (although I didn't know what it was at the time) my penis starting uncontrollably squirting some whitish liquid. The doc matter-of-factly turned to mom and said "you'll be happy to know that your son is completely healthy and that his sexual system is working exactly the way it's supposed to and his erectile function and ability to ejaculate are just right for his age". I exchanged a loving glance with mom and was delighted to see a big smile on her face.

Mom was always present until 15

Until 18, in my last pediatrician exam

I had never told anyone or written about my experiences, but now that I have found this site and have discovered how cathartic it is to share my experiences, and since some people have written to me to find out how I felt and what resulted, I will write more. I don't know if some posts should maybe be in a different category, but hopefully the moderator can decide. I had an extraordinarily close and loving relationship with my mother and so I wasn't at all embarrassed for her to see me naked and ejaculating. She and I smiled at each other and I felt like it brought her great pleasure to see me nude, and it always gave me tremendous pleasure to do anything that made her feel good, but this was especially gratifying. Although I didn't understand it on a logical level like I do, at least somewhat now, there was something deeply meaningful and satisfying beyond words to have my mom look at and get pleasure from seeing my completely erect penis right in front of her, (and that my penis was erect BECAUSE of her). To have her see me ejaculating was great, but slightly less great than her just seeing my erect penis right before ejaculation. Maybe because I didn't really know at the time that it was what we now know is ejaculation. Unfortunately, although my mom saw me naked at the doctor a few more times, and I greatly enjoyed her seeing my developing penis, testicles, and pubic hair, there was not anything quite as dramatic as the time I wrote about. However, now that I have discovered this site and found writing about this to be cathartic, I plan to describe another incident with my mom, as well as some recent experiences I have had recently with women that I was prompted to seek out because of what happened with my mom a long time ago.

As promised, my next follow up. Although I got a little more excited each year about mom watching as toward the end of each physical the doctor would slip my underpants down to the knees to get me naked and she would enjoy watching my penis and testicles getting examined and palpated each year through age 12, as I was lying on the exam table, after the incident I described in my earlier post about mom seeing me for the first time with hair around my penis and my uncontrollable erection and ejaculation I got really interested in sharing more of my nudity with her. A few months later there was a rare day when only my mom and I were in our house. She was lying down on her bed, but not sleeping. I was suddenly seized by a powerful desire. I went into the bathroom in the hall and quickly stripped to my underpants (just like the nurse would order me to do!). Once in just underpants this urge became uncontrollable. I realized that I had really wanted the nurse at least once to say "take off ALL the clothes, including underpants, this year you have to have your whole physical done while completely nude"--but alas, she never said that. But now was my chance at least to do that at home. I quickly stripped off the underpants and walked into mom's room completely naked. Now, for the first time, she could see me nude while I was standing up and at her eye level. I said excitedly "I need to take a shower, but there's no shampoo in my bathroom". I had never cared about showering or shampooing before and she of course knew that I just wanted her to see me naked. I wasn't so articulate at that age, but my facial expression conveyed the message that "I love you and love to give you pleasure and I know how much you enjoy seeing me naked at my physicals, so I want to give you a better look and give you more enjoyment." By nature, she never said much, but her eyes did the talking. She looked down and took a good look at my now even more developed penis, testicles, and larger amount of pubic hair, and looked supremely happy. My penis was starting to tingle. She said "there's some shampoo in our bathroom, why don't you look there". I went into her bathroom and pretended to not be able to find any and said "mommy, can you come in here and help me find it". She knew it was a ruse, but loved me so much that she came in. Suddenly my penis rapidly got fully erect and stood sticking straight out. She looked down with a "wow" look, and I looked at her eyes taking in everything. Her eyes seemed to alternate between looking at the nice amount of pubic hair I now had, at my engorged and elongated penis, and my now much more easily visible and prominent testicles. She had a look of profound happiness that her beloved boy who she gave birth to and had devoted her life to would want to give her the satisfaction of going out of his way to let her enjoy seeing how his sexual organs had matured so beautifully and would hopefully be used to continue the cycle of life that had started with her.

My three previous posts described what happened many decades ago when I was a child and young teen. I wish there had been more incidents relating to my nudity back then, but there weren't. If I had felt then what I have recently come to feel (I will explain in this post what I mean) I would have asked my mom to masturbate me or at least tried to find more opportunities to show her my nude male body, but unfortunately nothing further happened during my youth, and she unfortunately passed away when I was in my twenties. Like most guys, I dated extensively, and got engaged twice, but neither relationship made it, and so I have remained single, and have not had any sexuality in my life. A few years ago I came across mention of something called CFNM. I had never heard of it before. I started to read up on it and realized that my experiences with my mom were CFNM experiences. Of course my earlier experiences were "forced CFNM", being required to strip almost nude by the nurse, and then being stripped essentially nude by the pediatrician. I guess it wasn't absolutely completely nude, because the doctor never stripped off my underpants completely, but since he slid the underpants down to my knees so he could examine and palpate my penis and testicles (and eventually check for pubic hair), I was for all intents and purposes nude as my mother was sitting and watching and got a good close up view of my penis and testicles being examined each year and eventually getting to see my pubic hair and my penis getting erect and ejaculating semen. Of course, the incident I described in my last post, where I stripped completely naked just to give pleasure to my mom, was CFNM by choice. When I came across a comment from a guy that recounted that when he was 12 his sister saw him while he was completely nude and masturbating, and that in his opinion the most erotic thing is for a boy to have a female family member see you naked and ejaculating, it suddenly brought the memories back of all my nudity in front of my mom, and her seeing my penis getting erect and ejaculating. During all the intervening years I seldom thought about it and even when I did it didn't seem important or significant. But all of a sudden it hit me like a ton of bricks, and a wave of sexual excitement overtook me. At first it felt a little like the excitement I felt each year at my physical, but this time the wave of emotion and sexual energy was much greater. I guess the lack of sexuality in my life all those years finally caught up with me. In my next post I will describe where things went from there.

It's been amazing and heartwarming how many guys have written to me about my various posts. Of course, each of us has our own unique experiences, but there's also a strong commonality. It's great to know that many other guys also enjoy having other people (mom, sister, doctor, friends) get pleasure from seeing their penises, testicles, pubic hair, and ejaculations. Many guys expressed a strong desire to not only share with me their thoughts and experiences, but also, if possible, to get together in person to do some sort of roleplay that would be mutually satisfying. For most, it's not possible, because of distance (I live in the mid-Atlantic area of the USA, but most of the guys who wrote live in Europe, South America, or in an area of the USA that's far away from me). The idea of doing nude roleplay with another guy never occurred to me before (I have always been and continue to be straight), but after suddenly now for the first time realizing how profoundly I enjoyed the camaraderie of the nude showers I had to take with the other boys in seventh grade I guess I would be open to considering doing some sort of nudity scenario with one or more other guys (if any females would like to join us that would be great too!). Since each guy has his own fantasy of what turns him on I would only want to do a scenario that the other guy/guys would want to do. The chats I've had with the guys who have contacted me have given me some ideas of possible fun scenarios to try, but I won't take up everyone's time by posting them. If any guy is interested in discussing something like this please get in touch and I'll be glad to share my thoughts.

Wow! Did you attend to a Pediatrician Dr up until you turned 18? @rinjection96 I thought that back in Spain I would be like here (and in France) that you switch to a Regular Dr when you turn 12 yo .. Didn't you feel a little weird if you had to share the Waiting Room among mostly Toddlers and kids with their Moms? (I'm not saying there's something wrong with that, but Teen Boys and Girls here wouldn't cope with a situation like that) On the other hand it must be nice if you were examined always by the same Dr from your early Childhood Up to that age because he witnessed all your Body Changes!

After all the comments both from guys writing directly to me as well as other guys' posts I now understand better why the "shirts off, pants undone and unzipped" scenario was so erotic for me. One was that a group of boys were being forced to do this in front of one another and the other is that a big part of the eroticism of nudity at a physical is the buildup of excitement and anticipation in knowing that eventually we're going to end up completely naked. Although having to wait with classmates all wearing just underpants or jock straps would be erotic, somehow the pants unzipped seems more exciting to me. I guess each of us guys would have a slightly different feel about it. Either way, this sort of scenario is one of many I now would like to act out with one or more other guys, as my earlier post of today in this category explains my new openness to doing nude scenarios with other guys.

I have no idea and can't remember. But how things have changed. Now as adults, if we still have one or both parents, we now go to their medical exams.

I made an interesting discovery today that shows the power of our early pediatrician nudity experiences. I am a contractor who works at different sites. The last few years I worked some days at a particular location which necessitated traveling on a particular road for part of my commute. Whenever I would turn onto that road my penis would start to tingle a little and a pleasant feeling of excitement came over me. When I turned off that road that neat feeling left me. I didn't consciously think about it and it was mild enough that it didn't prompt me to try to figure out why I had that feeling. The last few weeks (coinciding with my discovery of Zity and my sudden sharing of the many nude experiences I have posted about and shared with the many guys who have written to me about my posts) I started going to a new location, which has necessitated me traveling for an even longer stretch than before on that same road. On my trip today this feeling intensified and my penis was starting to get really aroused in my pants. And then it suddenly hit me. This was the road that my pediatrician's office was located on, and when my mom would take me to my physicals each year we would travel on this road. I realized that when traveling down this road each year (and as I wrote in a previous post, the sexual excitement was greater and greater each year, especially once I got pubic hair) I was getting sexually aroused as I would look over at mom as she was driving the car and getting excited that as we got closer and closer on that road to the doctor's office that the moment kept getting closer when she would be seeing the doctor lowering my underpants to my knees to expose my genitals and mom would get to see my naked penis, testicles, and pubic hair. I now cherish much more than I imagined I would all those times mom saw me naked at my exams, and am so glad I went out of my way (see my earlier post describing what I'm referring to) to voluntarily strip completely naked at home one day to please mom and that she was able to enjoy me giving her a much longer and better look than at my exams at my maturing testicles, and my completely hard, fully aroused penis sticking straight out just inches from her wide-eyed view, all surrounded by a beautiful growth of pubic hairs.

Until I stumbled upon Zity three weeks ago I thought I was the only guy in the world who got a rush out of having his mom seeing him naked at physicals and secretly enjoying having his pediatrician handling his genitals as his mom watched, and the only guy who deliberately stripped and walked totally nude into his mom's bedroom not long after starting puberty because he wanted his mom to get a REALLY good and long look at his pubic hair, penis, and balls. I had only told one person in the world (it was a woman) that I did that and she reacted negatively, saying what I did was "naughty" and that she would strongly disapprove if her son would ever do that. But then I stumbled upon Zity and discovered I wasn't alone. I could suddenly write freely about my experiences, and the totally positive reactions from the dozens of guys who have contacted me (no females have written) have made me feel great. So many guys have shared their stories and how much they also loved having their moms see their nude hairy genitals. This whole thing has taken surprising twists and turns. Every guy who has contacted me is younger than I am (61). The ages range from 59 all the way down to 20. Although I would like to "relive" the feeling of being a teenage boy having my mom see me naked and ideally watching me get masturbated and ejaculating (all of which of course I could only possibly do in roleplay) what has emerged is that several of the guys who have contacted me want me to do roleplay with them, but in a different role. They want me to be their "doctor" who does a nude physical on them, or a "mentor" or "older guy friend" who in some type of roleplay gets them naked and/or gets naked together with them (each guy has his own unique scenario that turns him on). At first I said no to all these requests. My preferred identity in roleplay is always to be a teenage boy. It could be getting stripped by my doc and having my mom see my hairy penis and balls getting handled, or being stripped and masturbated as punishment for committing an infraction, or having a nude group physical with one or more other boys, or pretty much any scenario that would feature me being nude with someone else, but now I'm being cast as either the doc himself or something similar. I guess we all play different real roles in life, that change as we get older. I always like pleasing other people, so I'm starting to now be open to being in whatever role someone else would like me to be in, so that I could help fulfill another person's desire. In a way that actually would fulfill the same desire I had regarding my mom. I only got pleasure out of her seeing my pubic hair, balls, and penis (especially my erect penis!) because I perceived (I'm sure correctly) that my mom got both a kind of sexual and emotional enjoyment out of seeing her beloved little boy showing how much he loved and trusted her by allowing her to see his beautiful balls and nice thick erect penis, all surrounded by a lush patch of gorgeous pubic hair.

I was 15 last time mom came into the room with me. my pediatrician would have me undress completely for exam in the 80's. Mom wasn't happy when I asked the doctor if my mom had to be here still. And he said no and asked her to leave. I still had to undress completly but at 15 the nurse seeing me naked was still better then mom. Even though she would take my temp rectally at home but I was normaly still dressed in pajamas and not stark naked.

I think I was 18 or 19. I know I was way to old for her to be there, but I thought that was just how things worked. You went to the doctor and your mom came with you.

The last time she came with me she scheduled me for a physical while I was home over spring break. I remember being bitter that my friends were on the beach getting drunk and I was sitting there about to poked and prodded all over.

I think the worst part was when the nurse finished taking my vitals. I was sitting on the exam table. She turned to my mother “can you have your daughter undress? The doctor should be in soon”. I’m sure it was a mistake for the nurse not to ask me directly. But it really made me realize I was too old to have her there.

I was age 14 the last time my mother was with me during an exam which made me feel embarrassed and submissive. When the male doctor, whom I had never met before, but who was muscular and tall, came into the room, my mother got out of her chair and motioned for him to go out in the hallway with her. She then talked with him for about five minutes, and when they came back into the room the male doctor walked up to me and had me disrobe until I was completely nude. My mom then pulled her chair close to me and watched the doctor touch and examine my feet, legs, penis and testicles, stomach, muscular chest muscles, and my big pink nipples. I started to feel aroused, my penis began to become erect, and I became red in the face and blushed all over when she asked him a lot of questions about my sexual development and puberty. The doctor then had me turn around, and he began to touch and examine my feet, legs, hips, bottom cheeks, anus, and spine while carrying on a conversation with my mother and answering her questions. I became submissive, complied with all of his instructions, and tried to not think about my erection. I was worried that a nurse would walk in and see me nude because the doctor left the door partly open and medical staff, who were walking down the hall, would stare at me when they walked past the door. I became curious as to whether other boys had to suffer a nude exam in front of a parent.

Eight or nine.

The first time I went to the pediatrician without my parents was when I was 12 yo. It was the situation I wrote in another topic, when I faked having fever and my mom made a phone call to go to the office. It was located maybe 3 further streets, do it was quite near.Gladly she was not there, otherwise she would have seen me getting measured rectally twice. After examination a nurse called my mother to report the result, so everything was coordinated. My mom came back home at noon time.

This was the beginning when for little things I went to the pediatrician on my own, like having a cold which persists, or getting vaccinated, or routine checks . When I had more severe symptoms one of my parents of course came with me.

At 14, I began to see a doctor who saw only adolescents and that's when I went in alone with out a parent. I was told to strip to briefs and often they came off!

I always assumed it was pretty typical until I started reading boards like this one, but my mom was at all of my physicals through my sixteenth birthday.

But more important than age, I think maturity should determine when a boy no longer should have a parent present. On the physical maturity side, a Tanner Stage calculator like:

http://growingupboys.info/Calculators/TannerStage.htm

is good for figuring out Tanner Stage. I was a late bloomer, so while some boys probably don't need a parent present at physicals past age thirteen, I think sixteen was appropriate for me.

Based on the calculator above, I was barely at Tanner Stage 2 at my well-child exam shortly after my fifteenth birthday, so it was totally reasonable for my mom to keep coming to my annual physicals. But I "caught up" in the months before my sixteenth birthday, such that I was at Tanner Stage 4 at the exam shortly after my sixteenth birthday. So after my pediatrician pulled down my underpants to let my mom have that one final look at my quickly growing penis and testicles, both of them were satisfied I was "back on track" and not in need of hormone therapies or anything like that.

As embarrassing as it was for me as a high school junior to go to an examination room clearly decorated for small children, and then have the pediatrician treat me like a small child, including pulling down my briefs in front of my mom, it was necessary, given my delayed puberty. Anything else would have been neglect for my well-being.

@spbb

So are you saying the size of a boy's penis and testicles are what should be the deciding factor of when a parent stops coming in the exam room? If that were the case, my mom would still be taking me for my exams!

@spbb

So are you saying the size of a boy's penis and testicles are what should be the deciding factor of when a parent stops coming in the exam room? If that were the case, my mom would still be taking me for my exams!

@ spbb and BenDover

Interesting facts. I was late in puberty, too. But for routine checks I was alone at the pediatrician. He gave me a form and told me at age 14/15 that I should be treated with hormones and when my parents might have any questions they are invited to call the doctor to that. My mom did, indeed, and finally signed the treatment contract. It was obviously that I still wasn't in phase of puberty: my voice was terrible, I was quite smaller than my brother, I had no beard or pubic hair and so on. My dad "I haven't seen any spots on your bedsheets" and I turned really red for shame... (Don't mind, today I laugh at that comment).

However, I made appointments for therapy and after school every Friday I went to him,got vitals (blood pressure, pulse, temperature) checked and finally the hormones "vaccinated " in my bum for a couple of weeks, until puberty started.

I was glad not to show my penis to every person.The pediatrician was someone I trusted so far, my brother as well, my friend who "played " with me, too, but I distanced myself more and more from my parents.

It should be all the things that go into Tanner staging -- both primary and secondary sexual characteristics. The secondary ones are more obvious to a parent -- height, voice changes, facial hair, more muscular body, etc. But unless you're a nudist or otherwise very open family, being present at a boy's physical is probably the only chance you'll have to see the primary sexual characteristics. So when I went for my well-child exam just after I turned fourteen, and the pediatrician told my mom while he had my undies pulled down that I would be starting to catch up to the other boys in my class, it was because he saw my testicles finally had started growing. She wouldn't have been able to see that around the house, where we all were private about nudity. Similarly, when I was at the exam shortly after I turned sixteen, and the doctor and my mom saw my pubic hair, he said I had caught up. So while I'm sure he factored my height, voice, body hair, etc. into calculating my Tanner Stage, it was necessary for him to pull down my undies to be certain. That said, I don't think penis size factored much into his decision. It was still pretty small even by sixteen and didn't grow much more beyond then.

I was 12 and it was the most embarrassed I'd ever been to that point in my life. She had obviously seen me undressed at all my other exams but it was awful when I had to pull down my underwear in front of her. I guess it had to do with me entering puberty.

My mother still comes in with me. I'm 19.

I think I was 18 or 19. I know I was way to old for her to be there, but I thought that was just how things worked. You went to the doctor and your mom came with you.

I was about the same age and had the same assumption. I don't remember my mom ever suggesting that she didn't have to go with me to a doctor's appointment. What's more embarrassing though, is that I hated giving a urine sample, so I'd ask her help me with that part. I think I'm more embarrassed about that now than I was back then!

@Newfgirl

What was a typical exam routine like for you when your mom would accompany you?

18 years old for college physical. stopped after that. can't imagine past 18 years old. but some people are ok with a parent in the room after 18 years old.

Up to age 10, mom would remain in the exam room with me from start to finish. Age 11, got my first rectal/prostate exam and mom stepped out for several minutes until it was finished, then hurried back in when the nurse invited her to do so, as I was still doing whatever. (already wrote a couple of rather long, real life experiences some months ago about the bullshit that'd occurred on a different discussion) Age 12 and after, mom stayed in the waiting room throughout the entire ordeal.

@plumber70 said. Age 11... got my first rectal/prostate exam ....

Why did you get a prostate exam at that young age? Other complications? Usually not till age 45/50.

I was 16. It was embarrassing because my mom watched as the doctor examined my privates and also when I had my temperature taken rectally