What kind of doctor has given you the most intimate exam?

I do enjoy the amount of time I spend sitting on a table wearing nothing but briefs while my (beautiful) dermatologist goes over my body with a lighted magnifying glass. At no time else do I ever feel more like a "specimen" being examined in such detail.

But my favorite doctor was a GP I used to go to who would have me lie back with shirt untucked and pants unfastened for the abdominal exam. Then, without warning he would reach his unloved hand into my underwear and pull out my penis and scrotum. He was also very precise in how he had me positioned for the rectal exam. Pants around ankles, leaning over the table and toes pointed together. He would always demonstrate the position and explain it (clothed, obviously) before having me replicate it. Although mostly clothed for the duration, those were the best, most thorough physicals I ever got; both from a fetish POV and medical.

My answer would be my primary care physician.. but I recently got my first prostate exam by a urologist.. and it was about as awkward as it could possibly be!!

My answer would be my primary care physician.. but I recently got my first prostate massage by a urologist.. and it was about as awkward as it could possibly be!!

Did you get a prostate MASSAGE or prostate EXAM?

Prostate massages are really out of favor for most urologists.

Physical exams are more intimate than any other that I have had. Kind of depends what intimate means. Is it exposure or embarrassment? Some have said that their dermatology exams are the most intimate but I don't think of them that way. While I am completely undressed by the end of a dermatology exam for a few minutes I don't think of nudity as being all that intimate. I am undressed longer waiting for a physical exam to begin and end up almost as nude as I do during a dermatology exam so if intimate means exposed, then I am more exposed for longer during a physical. Plus a physical exam has other parts that are more personal than a doctor just checking skin. I don't think of being undressed in front of a doctor as all that big a deal. That is the way that I grew up through group sports physicals, locker rooms, group showers, and sharing a room with two brothers. Hard to say that I'm embarrassed about being exposed now.

For me, a full physical at 14 with the doctor’s waiting room full of girls and guys my age...I remember being only in my tighty whities, sitting on the crinkly doctor paper on the exam table, smelling faint wisps of the alcohol used in giving shots in the bottom, and thinking of the girls in the waiting room who would soon be in here in a similar state of undress...

As the doctor listened to my chest, I wondered if those girls would get to leave on their bras when he listened to their little chests...or would he ask them to remove it to expose those firm developing mounds?

When he pulled down my shorts, I wondered “did he pull their panties down too?”

The exam steps were pretty standard...but the sudden “awareness” of what male doctors got to do to girls made that exam the most memorable and exciting of my life...it is, after all, a “mind experience” ...one that I replay in one form or another to this very day.

My first visit the my current gp was about as intimate as it gets. She’s very soft and subtle very smooth. She took her time giving my the exam head to toe. She checked every inch of my body and was very precise on how she wanted me.

Dude Doc, your experience getting a physical at 14 and wondering what the girls might experience reminded me of the reverse when I was that age. My brothers and I got almost all our physicals in our teens at the junior high and high school sports physicals every summer before school started.

I've written about these group sports physical exams in the school gym before. The girls didn't get the same group physicals but they knew that we did. The girls always had more information about our physicals than I ever considered having about theirs.

Girls played fewer school sports in the 70s so I don't know if they were even required to go to their own doctors for a physical. The few girls that I knew that played school sports played volleyball in the fall and a few ran track or cross country in the spring. Track and cross country meets were the only events where I remember boys and girls being together on the same field even if we weren't competing against each other. But at the start of school, some of the girls knew that we had our physicals in the gym and that we were stripped down to our underpants and had our balls checked and had to cough. Although I'm not sure that they knew why we had to cough for a hernia exam. Our exams were probably less of a mystery to them than their exams were to us if we boys even knew what a girl's exam involved. Which I didn't have any idea what a girl's exam involved until a girlfriend in college filled me in. After making me tell her about the physical that I got when she insisted that I see a doctor for a minor problem I had. It would be strange to have your experience of sitting in a doctor's waiting room with teen boys and girls your age and knowing that everyone was there for a physical.

Since I had no information about physicals for girls I would have guessed that they were exactly like our exams. Stripped to underpants only and those would come down for check below. Except I wouldn't have had any idea what would have come next for the girls when I was 14. We were curious about girls but had so little information.

For me it was the pediatricians office from the time I was a child into my teenage years. Everything was exposed, genital exams and my penis would get erect and I would ejaculate and most of these exams my mother was in the room watching the entire time. It was very embarrassing.

Gyno, hearing the speculum click open knowing my vagina is completely on display gets me wet

Not sure if any one type of exam was more intimate than another. Anything when you are naked is intimate for me.

But one time stands out. I went to a clinic because of a particularly itchy rash between my cheeks. The male doctor had a female nurse with him, and I was wondering if she would leave when it was time for him to examine me. Well she didn't. She turned on the incredibly bright exam light and asked me to lie on my side and pull my pants and underwear down. I did as she said and as I looked back over my shoulder at the doctor, I saw her positioned right next to him as he spread my cheeks about as wide as I've ever felt. He kept me open for some time as they examined me, their faces side by side, both sets of eyes focused on my bottom as he pointed out various aspect of my anal area, the rash, etc, at times, pulling my anus itself open with his fingers.

I think this exam felt more intimate than others not only because two people were present but because I chose to look back at them and saw their faces staring at my open cheeks and only inches away too. During all my other such exams I just stared at the wall.

Has to be a visit to a prostate specialist after referral from my gp, turned out to be a very attractive woman Dr, who slipped a finger up me, she also examined my balls and cock, woo hoo!! Few weeks later I have another check with another woman who felt around inside, now I don't know what she touched, but I felt a real twinge, and a few more of those, and I'm sure I'd have cum, but was no to be. Possibly might have been a finger nail, haven't felt that since.

When I was a schoolboy, annual school medicals were very thorough. Unlike most boys - I had to an examination every single year (most boys who were at school from age 7 through to age 18 would have just 3 or 4 exams. I had 11. I am sure that was a link up with the Local Health Authority and the Local Education Authority, probably because I had an ongoing (but very gradually improving) medical condition.

Anyway..there were always the usual external checks: hsir / scalp / finger & toe nails / height / weight / waist measurement etc. These were all cartied out by a school nurse, whilst I was wearing vest / underpants...or just underpants (if I happened not be wearing a vest to start with). Then the Doctor would do the routine checks:Eyes / Ears / Nose / Throat / Mouth / BP / Reflexes. Then there was always ausculcation (wearing underpants only by now) both chest and back. Then the 'percussion' and palpation of the abdomen.

Finally, underpants removed (so finally stark naked) for palpation of the testicles / close examination of the penis (including foreskin retraction) and then parting the butt cheeks for anal inspection. There was no digital penetration, but the school doctor always shone a sort of pen light up the anal cavity - presumably checking for haemhorroids. The school medicalshardly ever varied and they were horribly embarrassing the older and more self - conscious I became.

I had a very similar examination when I was 29 (waaaaayyy back in early 1982) when part of the loan to secure a mortgage deal involved having to take out life insurance as part of the deal. Akthough I was treated with much more vourtesy and respect...it was still slightly embarrassing to be naked in front of the doctor and the nurse who assisted him.

In the intervening 37 years I hardly ever had to undress at all during infrequent visits to the doctor. Certainly here in the UK, doctors seem to be almost paranoid about preserving patient modesty at any cost. So (& I have posted about the events on Zity) only a few months ago (during a pre - op assessment for a potentially very serious cancer operation) - thanks to admin blunders (creating a serious loss of time) and the unavailabilty of hospital gowns....I volunteered to strip down to just my underpants (Wow!! Just like schoolboy days 50 years earlier!!!) for a whole battery of tests. It meant that I would be totally naked in front of the nurse for the final two tests. I was OK with it (bizarrely excited.LOL)...but the nurses had to obtain official authorisation from a senior consultant first!!

As I also mentioned elsewhere in Zity.....post op....I took a couple of assisted showers......naturally having to strip naked.....in front of a nurse who was assisting / looking after me. Also, thanks to a serious error by a junior nurse (removing a catheter which she did not realise was arterial!!) I wound up naked* and having to be 'cleaned up' - as I was splattered with my own blood.*They had to cut my gown off me because I was still hooked up to various drips etc with a lot of tubes going into / out of me. So...2019...whoooo boy!!

I would say my 1st (and only) physical exam with a nurse practitioner where I used to work.

As part of my employer's ongoing cost cutting strategies, they went from a plant physician onsite to a nurse practitioner. We had been given complimentary annual physicals, which was great because you didn't have to take time away from work to schedule an annual physical. And for someone in as good health as I was during my 20's, 30's, and 40's anyway, it would have been a waste. I probably wouldn't have even HAD physicals, Since I didn't even have or use a regular physician during that time, and was in perfect health for the most part.

So before the year where they took one more cost cutting step, and just had me meet with the NP in her office to go over my blood work and urinalysis, & be lectured to have my own physician & go for physicals on my own, there was the one year where she actually physically examined me. In previous years, I'd be told to leave my briefs on. On this one occasion where she took me to the exam room from the waiting room, she said something like "Everything off except your shorts. If you want your genitals examined, then everything off."

This was the 1st offer I had had in the 20+ years I worked there to have my genitals examined. For the previous several years, a gown was always put out on the exam table for me, but i never wore it. Because when i had started there when there was a male plant physician, I was in briefs only. So i never bothered to wear a gown from the time they started putting them out and he was still the plant physician.

So now when she said "..if you want your genitals examined...then everything off", I still wasn't going to wear a gown. But I felt funny, so I used it as a drape over my genitals as I sat there waiting. When she had me lie back on the table, a few times it wanted to slide off, and I had to catch it.

But it was the only time I can recall that I stood before a medical professional totally nude, no briefs at my knees or anything. She held and examined my penis, the only medical professional that has ever examined it, or touched it really. And she examined my scrotum and testicles as well, before giving me a rectal exam.

Aside from docs who have checked my testicles during a physical, the runner up for intimate exams has to be my semi annual skin exams, where my dermatologist one time touched my buttock, pointing out where it was dry and should have moisturizer applied to it. I would consider being alone in a room with 2 women (her assistant) in just a jockstrap, no gown, to be somewhat intimate.

For those who have experienced it, I would imagine a woman's visit to a urologist for urodynamic studies and a general exam for incontinence would do it. First you've got the basic exposure like you would with your obgyn, then you add in some catheters which can be pretty intimate, although that might be more just like plumbing. Still, then you may have the to pee while being watched, so you've got the exposure of one of the most private things we do on display for at least one person. And to top it off, they'll ask you for how bad you feel you need to pee as they fill your bladder. Having someone else control your urination can be pretty darn intimate.

But the thing that really got my attention when I read about it was that they would do a manual vaginal examination while standing up. The patient puts one leg up on a stool, and the doctor sits or crouches in front of her to feel where her bladder is and other anatomical waypoints, while coughing, squeezing, pushing, etc.

Now, I've never been there. Not a woman, last I checked! And from seeing my (ex-)wife go through childbirth twice, I know that there comes a point where all modesty and concern for intimate exams can fade away due to familiarity.

But still... All of that sounded like quite a lot!

Definitely pediatricians. The most intrusive and intimate exams happened before I was 15 years old. This was typical of Norway where I grew up. But in many societies this is still typical. However nowadays much get shielded for the young person and for the parents by use of anesthesia, so many are not aware of all that have been done to them as a child or teen. Extremely common for the young population is being subjected to colonoscopies or cystoscopies,which perhaps are the most intimate of all types of exams. But when a child is examined through the bottom, nearly always there will be an added exam through their urethra and vagina and a genital exam, and the other way round too.

I have for several years conducted polls about medical experiences both of children and adults, and I keep these polls going on to monitor the current situation. One poll about cystoscopy gives an interesting picture.

A great majority of the respondents are male. The very must likely age to get cystoscopy is 12 years of age, and with gradual drop of frequency at both sides of the curve.

Most respondents told that thay also had an anal procedure at the same time, and more than half tell that all boys, all girls or all children in the community or the school had the procedure.

So, if you are a 12 year old boy, you are very likely to get a pelvic exam, compricing both a systocopy and some anal procedure.

I ran the poll also several years ago. At that time, I got no respondents about 12 years old kids, but I got a peak at the age levels 30-39 and 69.69, with a few cases with children and teens.

It seems to me that a pelvic exam with cystoscopy and inspections through teh rectum is gaining frequency and is steadily more performed on even slight reasons or even mandatory in some communities.

I am and have been running other polls too, with a broader battery of questions about all types of exams. Most of the respondents tell about a pelvic procedure as sole procedure or as an addendum to other procedures. I see the same tendency of 12 years as the most intensive examination period, especially for boys.

For me it was the urologist that I saw a week ago.I was going in to see about petrified disease. I was waiting for her in the exam room and wondering what was to occur. She knocked and then entered. We had a discussion about petrified disease and what it was and how it can occur and treatments

II was nervous about this but she was very professional. After I explained my 45 degree bend in my penis, she told me to drop my pants and let her examine my penis. I dropped my pants and underwear and she had me stand in front of her. She felt my testicles and stated they are fine. Next she felt my penis. She asked me where the bend was and in what direction did it bend. I told her it was in the middle and bent up. As she was feeling the shaft I became slightly erect, and she stated that she could feel the scar tissue.

Now the embarrassing part was when she was feeling my penis and then said feel right here you can feel the tissue. So I did and at that moment we both had a hand on my penis. During this time we both had masks on and she did the most intimate and complete exam of my penis i have ever had from a doctor. She was able to answer all my question and satisfy my anxiety about my bent penis. We decided that in 6 months to come back and see if I have improved or if I need more extreme care.

This was the only time that I have had an erection at a doctor's office, but it was worth it as it helped her see and diagnose my condition of petrified disease.

For me, it's a tie between the gynecologist I saw at 16 and the internists who have followed him.

Both give very thorough pelvics with rectovag.

For me it was the urologist that I saw a week ago.I was going in to see about petrified disease

Never heard of a petrified disease. Please describe.

Never heard of a petrified disease. Please describe.

Doing a Google search I found this

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.health.com/mind-body/fibrodysplasia-ossificans-progressiva%3famp=true

My gastro-endocro.

For me it was the urologist that I saw a week ago.I was going in to see about petrified disease.

Rdp,

Did you mean to say Peyronie's Disease? Penis curvature?

Eric

Switching doctors at age 15 was the most embarrassing. Until then, I had only known my pediatrician and now was to see an adolescent specialist since that was the prevailing wisdom. The exam was more involved; clearly I had to accept being fully undressed, with briefs coming off mid way through. The genital exam and hernia exam took longer and I was subsequently introduced to having my cheeks spread wide and experiencing a rectal exam. No advanced notice or conversation, just had it given, and then left to ponder the feelings I felt. Friends and classmates the same age were silent about their experiences other than to blush when it was known that someone had a physical exam coming up.

Urologist, I had my first bout of kidney stones he did a DRE and set up a radiology appointment . He told me the nurse would be in to prep me for the exam. I had know idea what was going to happen. The nurse came in and told me usually it was a dose of magnesium citrate the night before but since it was too late for that she gave me a fleet bagenema . The doctor came in to see the last 3rd and give me the order for radiology exam.

Gynecologist, urologist, gastrointestinal specialist -- they've all viewed and felt me inside and out down there. Of all these docs, it was the GI work-up and the barium enema experience in my mid-20s that I thought was the most intimate and embarrassing (and painful) at the time.

Definitely urologist.... I had a broken blood vessel in my bladder and after scoping me and locating the bleed, the urologist (male) called his partner (female MD) to come look at the screen. They decided to try to cauterize the blood vessel there, rather than send me for surgery. Fortunately, the cauterization was successful. When I returned for the followup, she did the exam and I could tell she enjoyed the DRE that she also did to check my prostate.

Cardiologist-- Putting all of the fantasies and "touchy feely" experiences aside, nothing happens if the heart isn't working correctly. Not only is he concerned about my heart he has been instrumental in assisting with non-cardiology health, and yes, for those who can't get their minds off from sex, that too.

I was in a long term growth study from about 10/11 to 17. Those would have been the most involved/intimate exams I have ever had.

Definitely, my urologist, with him I have had 4 laser lithotripsy procedures 2 stint removals two cystoscopies, and with his staff 3 catheterizations. On the other side of my body l have had 1 rigid proctoscopy, 2 barium enemas, 1 flexible sigmoidoscopy, 1 anoscopy, 3 unsedated colonoscopies, 1 fleet enema, 1soapsuds enema and numerous fingers put up my backside.

Yesterday I had an X-ray of my bladder and kidneys as follow up to my last laser lithotripsy and I see the urologist on Thursday. I have posted the details on most of these procedures through the years. After a bad accident, I awoke in the emergency room after having all of my clothing cut off. I do not remember what they did to me while unconscious or sedated. I do know that they had already taken X-rays and had completely examined me. Almost all of this has happened in the last 15 years of my 70.

My own sister-in-law! Not only did she examine my balls, she did so without the scrotum around them. It doesn't get more intimate than that...

When I was 13, one of my balls somehow got twisted around the cord it hangs from, causing massive pain. I was at school. Sometime during the lessons, it hurt so much that I was doubled over and grey in the face. I asked to be excused and I was. Then, I had to cycle home for 30 minutes. When I got home, I was able to call my parents at work (mobile phones were not invented yet). They would not patch me through, and it took hours for my mom to come home. I told her I had a bellyache.

We went to the GP, where I admitted meekly that the pain was a bit lower than my belly. He took a quick look and gave us the latin name for it: 'torsio testis'. On to the hospital, where a smiling young nurse informed me that she was going to try and twist it back...and that the chance of twisting in the right direction was 50%! Fortunately I was lucky and she twisted the right way on the first try. I thought it was over, but then I was told that I needed surgery to make sure it never happened again.

I was wheeled into the operating room...and who do I see....my own sister-in-law (who was a surgeon's assistant or whatever they call that in English). That really made the day complete for me. Later she said that they normally don't allow staff to do surgery on family members, but they had been very short-staffed that day.

On this same hospital visit I also got 3 suppositories in one go, which I described in another post.