I am a male in my 40s and live in the United States. My first visit to a dermatologist occurred about 20 years ago. After I had a physical conducted by a female Physician Assistant (East Asian, 30s) in which I removed my gown and underwear and stood before her full nude for the genital exam, causing her to gasp, I realized it would be a good idea to have a full body skin cancer exam. My post will include information about all of these visits, the most interesting of which occurs towards the end, if you aren't inclined to read through all of this. I apologize for the length, but I do like information about others' visits and the small details.
My first dermatologist was a woman (Black, 30s) at an office with several other doctors. In all of those visits (six or so) a medical assistant (always female, usually White and 20s or 30s) would join us. I was told to undress but leave my underwear on and sometimes use a paper sheet over my lap. An interesting thing I've noticed over the years is how the instructions on what to do or what the exam is like can change from visit to visit, even with the same doctor and assistant. During the exams the doctor would lift the front and back of my boxers briefly. One time she even remarked about the name and logo on them as they were of a well known business company. Two visits stood out. The first one was when I had a biopsy on the back of one leg. It was done at the end of the exam so the drape I had on that time was off and I was just in my boxers. I was turned over and while the assistant and doctor prepared me, the door was opened and another female staff member came in to talk to the doctor. Even though I wasn't nude it was still a memorable occasion as I laid there while they chatted. The door remained partially open too.
The other memorable visit was when I came in for a follow up for moles on my back I had removed. It was the first and only time a dermatologist I saw had any current or potential medical student observing with her. This time it was two Black females who were either in their late teens or early 20s. They were dressed in regular clothes. I had my shirt off for the brief exam. The younger women didn't say or do anything and stood behind me during the exam.
After that office closed I found another one with several practitioners and always saw one of the female Physician Assistants. By this time, medical offices had websites and I could see and choose who I saw in advance. The first visit I saw an Indian woman in her late 20s or early 30s. The medical assistant was a White female about the same age. For the first time I was told to completely undress and use a paper sheet for my lap. I have fair skin and my chest can get temporary red blotches due to nervousness or excitability. I had some during the exam and the assistant noticed and actually asked the PA about them. As the PA explained about them, the assistant looked closely at my upper chest. It was quite interesting to have the assistant be so observant and inquisitive. Later in the exam the assistant was positioned behind the PA as she briefly lifted the sheet covering my lap. When the exam was done the PA left and the assistant stayed behind, apparently, finishing something on the computer. That was the first time an assistant didn't leave with the doctor or PA. I was unsure what to do and now realize I could have removed the drape, gotten up and put my clothes on. Something I would do now but was unprepared for back then. Instead I waited the 15 seconds or so until she got up to leave. I also wonder if she thought I would get up and start to put my clothes on in full view of her.
The next few visits I saw the same PA once as well as two other ones. In all of the remaining visits I was instructed to keep my underwear on. The PAs would briefly lift my boxers for the exam but nothing memorable occurred. Except for the last visit in which a young woman working in the the front desk area stared and smiled at me as I walked to the exam room. I wonder if she would have liked to be present for the exam and see me in a state of undress.
With more information available online, I decided to search for another provider. By looking for keywords like "thorough" and "comprehensive" exam, I found a doctor, who oddly enough used to work at the first office I went to. She is a White female in her mid-50s. I saw pictures of her online and noticed she was still attractive. A couple of older photos showed how even more attractive she was when she was younger. She had a solo practice which I have found allows a medical person (or anyone) more leeway in what they do. And I wasn't wrong.
Her front desk and medical assistants have all been females in their 20s or 30s and fairly attractive. The exam room walls are thin and I can actually hear people talk in the one next door, which I appreciate. On my first visit, the medical assistant (Black, 30s or early 40s) told me to take everything off. How interesting in that the first visit to this new location I was told to get completely naked, just like the first visit at the previous office I went to. I used a small sheet to cover my lap. They can be spread out larger, but I keep them as small and unfolded as possible.
I should say that this doctor, while friendly and competent, does come across as a bit spacey. I don't mind and find it refreshing that she pauses and thinks about things and what to say instead of acting as a know-it-all in complete control as a lot of medical people seem to do. As my first visit began, the doctor faced me and the assistant stood behind. In this office the assistants use tablets so they moved around the room and had better views of me during the exams, unlike the previous offices in which the assistants were at a desk computer in the exam room and usually blocked from my view by the PA or doctor. As I sat up straight I knew my backside and top of my buttocks was exposed from behind. For the next part of the exam I was told to lie down. While I adjusted myself as the table reclined, the assistant slightly lifted the sheet on top of me. The doctor was standing behind at that point and gasped as the sheet was briefly high enough for her to see my genital area under it. I was quite surprised by both the assistant's action and the doctor's exclamation. The two switched places and shortly thereafter the doctor told me she was going to check my "genital area". At first she just moved the sheet aside to expose an area very close to my genitals. I felt a bit of dissappointment. But then she pulled down the entire sheet below my genital area, leaving me completely exposed to her and the assistant standing behind the table. She did a brief visual observation and then pulled the gown back up and told me to turn over. The assistant came and stood on one side of the table and the doctor on the other side, and they lifted the sheet up as I turned over. I quickly chose which side to turn on and did it towards the assistant who could see me exposed again. The doctor eventually lowered the sheet exposing my buttocks. She separated my cheeks once higher up and once lower so I felt totally exposed. The assistant was standing nearby and could view all of it again. After that part of the exam I was told that was the end. I was unsure what to do and awkwardly lied chest down as they finished up and left the room. I probably could have turned over and been briefly exposed again. The doctor wanted the assistant to take a photo of a spot on my scalp. So I got dressed and she came back in to the room. I didn't have my shoes on yet. I sat in a chair while she parted my hair to take the picture. It was quite a feeling to have her touching me like that after she had just seen me nude. She was friendly and I noticed her smile too. That was definitely my best visit up to that point.
The next year I saw the same doctor but this time it was the other medical assistant. This time the assistant told me to keep my underwear on. For the first time ever, the doctor came in without an assistant and it was just me and her for a minute or two. When it came time to lie back on the table, I decided to let the sheet over my lap slide down since I had my boxers on. The doctor announced she was going to check "down there". It was amusing and I liked it. I wondered if some people say no. She lifetd my boxers up once and then down a little, so she could see my penis. Then in another first, she touched my penis and moved it, seemingly to look around the area. I was quite surprised. It was brief and I was flaccid at the time. I turned over and she examined by buttocks too. Although not as thoroughly due to holding my boxers in her other hand.
My most recent visit occurred earlier this year. In the waiting room were two younger women. One attractive Indian who came into the office when I did. She was called back first and I wondered what type of exam she would have. The other woman was an attractive Arab with a headscarf on. A male with her left at one point. She mentioned having to wait awhile so I got up to ask her about it. I should add that I started taking CBD in the mornings so I was more relaxed at this visit, which helped my enjoyment. I thought she might say more about her visit but still enjoyed the interaction. I had the same doctor, assistant and smaller room as the previous year. This time the assistant told me "everything comes off but you can keep your underwear on." I was unsure about the "can" part but decided in the end to leave it on this time, since the last visit provided some unexpected results. As I waited I could hear the doctor and assistant in the next room talking to the young Arab woman. She described a rash on her chest and armpits. It didn't sound like she had her shirt off but I enjoyed hearing the conversation. I realized too that she probably heard what the assistant said to me about removing my clothes. After they were done, the doctor again came in for a minute or two alone. She was friendly and I thought how interesting it would be if the exam included just me and her. After the assistant came in, the doctor stood on my right side and examined my scalp while I was still sitting upright on the table. She noticed something and looked more closely. And as she did so, her chest touched my elbow and upper arm. I actually felt the softness of her breast as she did this. What a shock! I moved my own arm ever so slightly to acknowledge the feeling, and she did not retract. For another first during a visit, I felt my penis become ever so slightly aroused. Usually I'm too excited-nervous for this to happen. I glanced at the assistant to see if she noticed what the doctor was doing. Her eyes quickly turned away towards her tablet. From my visits, I gather this assistant kind of helps the doctor more than usual. Almost like keeping her from being too distracted. However, she has not interrupted anything the doctor has done. After that stimulating experience, I lied back again with the sheet off. The doctor said she was "going to check" (and then pointed at my genital area). I thought that was cute. This time I wore boxers that were tighter. She lifted them up once and then up some more so I definitely felt exposed. Then she pulled then down lower than the previous visit. It was possible the assistant even saw my penis this time. The doctor touched my penis again to move it to ostensibly check the area. I was slightly less flaccid than the first time she did this due to the contact we had earlier. I turned over and she spread my buttocks three times. The final time was wide open at the hole and as she did this I relaxed my muscle and she gasped again as she probably witnessed me open up down there. At the end of the visit she said she wanted to take a photo of the spot on my scalp for me to see. She asked to use my phone. I was surprised but liked the idea. She asked where it was and I suppose I could have stood up and retrieved it, but she was near my clothes and I told her where to find it. She took several photos and they show her gloved hand in them too. Quite a memento. I should add that these last two visits she wore gloves due to Covid. So the skin contact was not quite the same but still an overall great experience. I also want to add that the doctor wears leggings and the this time they were animal print ones. As she took the pictures I also noticed her slip on shoes, partially exposing the top of her feet. After they left and I got up I discovered a wet spot on the sheet covering the exam table. It must have occurred while I was lying face down. I must have become more excited at the contact than I realized. Then I wondered if the fluid on my penis was visible when the doctor checked my it. It is an interesting thought but based on how she acts, I would have expected her to have gasped again *haha*.
I am looking forward to my next visit and have decided to go totally naked, if possible. I am also considering visiting another provider in between my usual visits, just to be diligent *wink wink*. I noticed the previous office I went to has some new providers and I think it might be time to try one out. I will write again after another visit.