Does your partner mind sleeping with you when your wearing diapers?

First let me say I don't really use diapers for the intended use.. I just like wearing.. also I am gay.. When I do want to wear at night my partner doesn't care, or at least doesn't act like he does, when I wear diapers to bed.. the only real limitation I have is he doesn't like when I walk around in only a diaper.. He doesn't even care if I wear footed pajamas.. Just no diaper only..

My wife does not mind. she even said they are cute, but thats as far as it goes.

I m lucky that mummy jade (when we play ) dresses me and encourges me to wear diapys to bed .sosometimes before bedtime I've got to drink my night drink so that I wet in the night or eat my prunes so that I do poopoo.

My BF doesn't mind me sleeping next to him in a diaper. Its not something that happens very often. I would like it to happen more often than it does but I don't think that's going to happen.

My fiance and I have tried it a couple times, but she really isn't into the diapers too much at all and doesn't want me wearing around her much.

My last (now former) long term bf initially CLAIMED to be cool w/the whole ABDL thing. However, he was a neat freak and perhaps a bit OCD/germ-phobic(sp?). The fact that I peed in them really really bothered him. At first he said I could sleep in the main bed as long as my diapers were dry, which i thought was reasonable. however, as time went on he didn't want me in his bed even if I had DRY diapers on. It became a huge issue/wedge between us

My partner is very supportive. I wear for medical need, which she accepts totally.

@diapereddaughter: I feel for you. I know how it is to have a partner (in my case, an ex-girlfriend) extend diaper privileges and then revoke them for so-called "sanitary" reasons, when in reality something else is in play -- some deeper aversion the partner doesn't want to admit or share or reveal. It really hurts when a partner reneges after accepting, or seeming to accept, your ab/dl being. Sorry that seems to have happened to you.

One quick tiddle: I'm no medical professional, but I do understand that, generally speaking, urine is sterile when it emerges naturally from the body during urination. (One can have a bladder infection, an STD, or some other condition that can contaminate urine with bacteria or viruses, but otherwise, I gather that pee is sterile at first. A freshly wet diaper, at least one that isn't leaky, isn't sterile, but it isn't really that big a deal and it sure beats a wet bed anytime, unless one likes that sort of thing, of course !

There are plastic pants and puddle-pads and mattress covers for the times when diapers leak. There are those partners who would actually welcome changing a wet diaper in the middle of the night on an adult loved-one, and there are those who would simply be happy to spoon and to snuggle and to cuddle and to wait until morning for diapers to be changed. Even a wet overnight diaper may be welcomed as a golden opportunity (sorry, couldn't resist) for bonding and togetherness and loving fun. So I hope things get better for you soon. Best wishes.

Hi diaperfriendly, You are correct about urine being sterile when it emerges from the body. Once it touches exposed skin around the urethra or vulva, sterility is gone. That is why you are given antiseptic wipes to cleans yourself before giving a steril specimen.

And of course people do get infections and they are no fun.

StephenS: here's the thing though (at least in my case). my bf wouldn't even let me sleep in the same bed w/DRY diapers on! I am not incontinent, and there's no more danger of me wetting my diaper by accident then there's a chance of my bf wettin' the bed...

Hi diapereddaughter, I'm afraid that I have to agree with diaperfriendly, you are in a tough spot. I don't believe that fighting your bf will get you anywhere except making you both miserable.

I'm sorry to have to say this but I think that unless you can tolerate not wearing in bed your relationship is in serious danger. Maybe it's time to slowly let him drift away while keepin your eyes open for other opportunities.

I've never slept with my partner with a diaper on but find the idea exciting. My partner doesn't even know about the diaper. I only started to wear a couple of years ago and not 24/7. I do like the feeling of being well padded and plastic pants. It really turns me on!

My wife doesn't mind in the slightest. Even if I leak and the bed gets wet she just reminds me to change the sheet when I get up as she is always up for work before me.

No my wife doesn't mind. She likes to sleep in a dry bed. I tried going a few nights without in the beginning of our relationship but I wet the bed each night. When I finally brought out the cloth diapers and plastic pants she agreed that wad the best plan. Most of my friends know I'm a bedwetter and accept me for who I am.

I hope my wife knows.

I am incontinent and have been in diapers for the forty years we've been married and in the same bed.

It tends to vary.

My boyfriend is totally supportive of my fetish, but also totally not into it, especially the wetting part. So while I know it's totally ok if I go to bed padded, I rarely do. It's kind of a barrier between him and some of his favorite parts of me, lol.

Still, if I've had plenty to drink, I'll chose to go to bed padded. Better to deprive him of access to my private bits than to drive him from our bed by wetting it

My wife insists on me wearing them to bed. I wear the 24/7 do to UIC. She knows that if I didn't, the bed would be soaked in the middle of the night and she isn't into sleeping in a wet bed...she puts my cloth diaper on every night.

My wife is the reason back in diapers when wetting started she was insisted that they be on to keep everything dry.She has no problem.

Wearing them is mandatory most nights. I have no health issues; it's her directive to be followed without question.

My wife knows I wear them under my pajamas.

I wet the bed. If my partner can't sleep with me in diapers, they can't sleep with me. Sad but true.

My wife doesn't mind at all. She prefers I sleep in diapers. It keeps the bed dry. I tried sleeping without them a few times but I just end up wetting in the middle of the night. She'd rather we both get some sleep.

I remember the first time we snuggled and she put her leg over my diaper. I was so in shock that another person would want to touch my diapers. She didn't seem phased at all. Just right into a comfortable position and stayed there for a while.

Not at all. If I didn't still have kids in the house, she would even diaper me before bedtime.

I don't know if it has anything to do with me loving diapers, or if it's just because of getting older, but, I don't sleep well with a full bladder. I wake up and if I can feel any amount of pee in there, I can't go back to sleep. I keep thinking "If I do I'll only wake up in a little while and need to pee" and that keeps me awake.

So I usually keep a half-gallon milk jug by the bed and when I wake up, I just pee in there and go back to sleep. Often my wife sleeps on the sofa, she just falls asleep down there. But when she sleeps in the bed with me, the sound of me peeing wakes her up. So, she actually PREFERS that I wear my diapers and use them instead!

I really wish I could clear that "last hurdle" and just start wearing my diapers to bed every night. Problem is, I have sensitive skin and after a few nights, I start breaking out. Not diaper rash, but, the elastic in the plastic pants seems to do this around my waist. Maybe this is because I don't wash them enough? (I hate to wash them because that speeds up the rate at which they wear out, also, I just love to smell my pissy plastic panties!). Also, I kind of fear getting hooked on wearing them. That wouldn't be a problem if I'm at home, but if I'm ever on a vacation or staying with friends, it would be.

But I do keep telling her "Once the kids are out of here, I want you to start making sure that I wear my diapers every night" and she says she will. Cross your fingers!

My wife does not allow me in bed wearing a diaper. But I sometimes get up @ about 3 AM & put my diaper on, then go back to bed.

My husband loves that I wear my diapers to bed. He will often grab the front of my diaper and stroke my cock through the diaper, sometimes to the point that I will cum. He also likes to rub and grab my butt when I am diapered.

If i get to sleep with daddy, he makes sure im well cleaned out and plugged for the night so i dont ruin the diaper and stink the room up, so no as long as that happens. lol

All of my relationships in the last 15 years included me sleeping in night time diapers, because of my bed wetting. Including my ex- wife, 2 girl friends and my current wife.

My wife Luvs when I come to bed in diapers. She gets all frisky like over it too! Actually, we both wore diapers to bed last night. We snuggled, and crinkled together. We both wore disposables, with a booster inside, for thicker diaper effect. Next time, I'm going to have her wear cloth diapers and plastic pants.

I was very lucky that my wife would put me into nappies for bed,sometimes my wife would tear them as we became amorous other times she would play with me till I made a sticky mess in the nappy then I was told to keep them on .So I do not think she minded more like encouraged other times she would dress me in lingerie for bed.