Does anyone accompany their wife to her exam.

I did once not so long ago... It was great for me. Although the exam took only a few minutes, I liked it to watch...

I accompanied my gf a long time ago. I watched the exam but it was not that dramatic. I heard that not every doctor allow their patients someone to come with them into the exam room. I think this should be the decision of the couple and not of the doctor. I know privacy is very important but the whishes of the patients should come first.

I went with my ex-wife to her first exam after we were married... didn't know what to expect, but we were not intimate before we were married and I was nervous as hell the time she went just before we were married. At that time the question was whether there might be problems because she was a virgin, but the doctor said no.

Anyway... when she had to go the next time I wanted to be there, probably because I wanted to know if my imagination of what went on before the honeymoon lived up to my fantasy.

While it was pretty clinical, I was still aroused because the doctor inserted fingers in her pussy and ass, which she never let me do.... except the first time to open her up for my cock... from that time on, I never was allowed to insert a finger anywhere... for 20 years of marriage.

My wife wanted me to go but couldn't get the day off work. I would have been nice maybe next year. This was her first one would have been a great one to be apart of. I am not sure how to ask her if she wants me to go next time. Last time it was to ask questions about birth control

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"My fiance was hesitant to go with me to the doctor's office for my annual gyn check up. But I when described the benefits he would no longer be getting at home, he relented and went with me. He is now (3+ yrs later) a skilled "gyno-doc" at home and goes with me to every one of my exams. He is so into gyno play that we even bought our own gyn exam table complete with stirrups."

The best thing (well, almost) that happened was when I had a questionabale PAP smear. I had to go back every 6 weeks, adjusted around my period, of course, for a colposcopy. Ken went with me for each one of those, too.

While I enjoyed exams before, it is much more arousing when he is there with me. We never make it out of the parking garage without one of us, or both, having an orgasm!

That sounds like a dream come true... I wish my girlfriend had the same turn-ons as you!!! Do you ever fool around in the exam room with him after or before the doctor is with you?

In the late 1980s my wife and I moved to a small village with

one doctor who was in his late fifties.My wife was 8 months

pregnant at the time and we both attended the doctors surgery to register as new patient.

we had heard from other villagers that he was a very good doctor but was known to be bit of ladies man.

After answering his questions our health and having our blood pressure checked the doctor said he would like to give my wife a quick exam to see how she was getting on.She got up and went behind the screen followed by the doctor who told her to remove her dress and lie down on the examination couch. I couldn't see any thing but heard all of it.

He said he was going to feel the position of the baby first and listen to it's heart beat.Then he asked my wife to remove her bra and he did a quick breast exam.Once her bra was back on the doctor said he would like to do an internal exam at which she replied OK in a low voice.

The doctor instructed her to draw her legs up and let them fall to the side.I heard him pulling on the rubber gloves,switch on the lamp beside the couch and then say to my wife to relax.About a minute latter the he said all was fine and told her she could get dressed. In another five minutes we were out of the surgery.

That was the first time my wife had been examined internally by a male doctor but it hasn't been the last.

I've tried a few times.

We got close once but at the last minute the Doctor chickened out and asked me to wait out side, he said something about it being safer! (LOL, I think he was thinking of his own safety!).

I have been a many times. Once i stayed in the waiting room, and then wanted to go in next time. I asked gf, and have never looked back.

I would like to find someone who would be nice enough to go with me to the Doctor's for my annual exam. It's a fantasy and I think that I would find it comforting as well, since I've had several bad experiences at the GYNO office.

Heather in Oregon

I'd love to go with my wife to any of her doctor visits...just not sure what she would think of my eagerness to be there 😢

I went a few times with my wife. There is a certain thrill knowing that the doctor can touch her anywhere but that she will be with me in the evening. But I only went with her on 2 occassions.

The last time i went with my wife for her annual exam, she had unfortunately vaginal discharges and the doctor allowed me to see through the speculum her cervix...it was the first time i can see her vagina so deeply and it was very arousing 😮. I hope the doctor hadn't paid attention to my erection at that moment. After having shown her cervix to me, he went on to exam my wife and strech her vaginal wall with the speculum...it was a very erotic moment...and my wife could see nothing because she was lying on her back during her exam with her legs apart in the stirrups and also with her breasts naked since their palpation, few minutes sooner.

I have never seen such a doctor before that time but i can say he was very professionnal and takes a lot of care about the health of his female patients. I do accompagny my wife to her exam everytime 😉.

I have never been with my wife for her annual exams but did go with her (at her request) when she needed to have a ultrasound done. The nurse led us back to the exam room and told my wife to remove everything from the waist down and get up on the table and then gave her a sheet to cover herself. I was told to sit in a chair in the corner that was to the side and at the end of the table. The doctor came in said hello and then told my wife to scoot to the end of the table and he helped her put her feet in the stirrups. He then got the equipment ready which was this long instrument that he put a condom over and then coated with KY. he then positioned the device at my wife's opening and inserted it. all this time I new what he was doing but wasn't able to see anything.It was still exciting and gladly turned out to be nothing wrong with my wife.After the procedure was over the doctor handed my wife a hand full of tissue and left the room. I did take the opportunity to peek at my wife while she was still spread out. she didn't wipe the KY off ...she just left it on and we hurried home.

I go by myself. My husband works long hours and there isn't any time he could go with me anyway. Besides, I like going by myself. If there was a serious problem I was being examined and evaluated for, I would have him come with me so there would be an extra set of ears to listen to the information and write things down that the doctor said.

I take real examinations very seriously.

In th UK,the doc or nurse will usually be ok with partner being present if the female asks the examiner ,but it has to come from her

Chris

I agree with Chris, but sometimes the nurses appear uncomfortable with it while the gyn consultant was fine.

A quick story: I went to my wife's last exam with her and we were coming from different locations so we drove seperately. Traffic allowed for me to get there well before her and she thought she was going to be late. I actually went in first and started the registration process for her till she arrived. YES I got a few odd looks!

When I was m arried I did not go with my wife for her regular exams, but I did accompany her to several exams surrounding her two operations -- a LAVH and a pelvic reconstruction.

My husband has accompanied to several of my exams and he thoroughly enjoyed them. We did get some looks from the other women when we both got up when my name was called, and went into the exam room. Each of the Gynecologists that I have seen that my husband was with me, did not have a problem with him watching. I found it to be very erotic laying there on my back, legs spread, feet in the stirrups and seeing my husbands smiling face looking at me while the doctor did my exam.

It's funny, being present during the actual exam was not as arousing as play or fantasy, probably mostly because of concern for my wife's well-being and comfort.

My wife was sexually abused by a doctor when she had her first pelvic exam at the age of 19.She never went to him again and she was told he left the country shortly after. Several years after we were married, she told me about the experience which lasted, she said, about 40 minutes.For years she thought that this was normal practice and she never went to a doc for many years unless she was very sick.It was only after she told me the details that I told her what she was subject to was sexual abuse. When she did need a complete exam she told the new doc about the event and stated clearly that she wanted me with her all the time. He understood and agreed. I stayed with her during her exam and she said it made her feel much better.

I will always go with her in the future

I used to take my former girlfriend to her gyno exams because she knew I got off on it. I never had the nerve to ask the receptionist if I could accompany her in the room but I enjoyed sitting in the waiting room.

I loved the nasty looks I would get from other women, some who were pregnant. My gf said they were probably embarrassed that a man was there and that he knew they'd be getting their pussies examined. I got a hard-on not only from picturing my girlfriend getting her pussy probed by the doc (a 50ish, short, balding, fat guy she told me) but also picturing some of the women in the waiting room, knowing what they'd be going through in a matter of minutes.

My cock would be completely stiff sitting there and I wouldn't try to hide it. My gf and I had great sex right when we got home, as she described in intimate detail what the doc did to her pussy.

My wife, like most women, does not do regular self breast exams so I told her that I wanted to go with her to her doctor's appointment and learn how to perform one correctly on her since she wasn't doing them herself. She reluctantly agreed and after the doctor demonstrated the correct technique, I just stayed in the room while he also did a pelvic exam. And I have been going with her ever since.

I've been in once but our family doctor performs the gyno exams for my wife and I feel a bit uncomfortable going unless there is a good excuse.

I would definitely go with my girlfriend. I would turn me on watching her get a full internal especially if it was an attractive female doctor doing it!

I always accompany her. However, only as far as the waitingroom, as she shys away. But I guess its supporting for her all the same.

I have never been to the dotor with my gf, but I would like to go, maybe next time.

I have been going with my wife for the last 3 or 4 years. As others have posted, the real life exams are somewhat boring compared to the home exams. I go because my wife wants me too. With both of us there, things are less likely to be forgotten when the doc asks how eeverything has been for the last year.

I have been to an exam and it not only is very informative but it lets you see what a woman has to go through on regular basis. She always loves her exam and wants me to go to her next one coming up real soon. I hope I can fix my schedule.