How erotica (in clinic) differs from sex

Hello,

when I was younger I was always feeling guilty when I reviewed pages like this. Especially when thinking of what my family would say had they known what I am interested in.

I can say that I changed my opinion. A very important condition is of course that nobody was hurt or misused when producing the inputs. But this page among others is a possibility to freely examine very hidden parts of our psycho. I especially prefer stories. In the best stories in clinic or spanking area it is the "victim" who is the winner - the doctor or the chastener are providing a service, nothing more. The "misused" are those to be envied - which really shows how ambiguous such categories as "misused" are in reality.

Rather to say - in reality of sensitive people. For the sex is for the simple-minded where everything is said, explained and plain. The erotica is the oposite to sex. It is a land without a map.

This page and the contributers form a group of voyagers trying to explore the inviting hidden valeys. I am looking forward as a "parvenu" to participate on the yourney.

I think its a safe way for people who are scared of sex to still feel sexy if you understand what I mean. Unfortunately I am one of those people.

Erotica stimulates the imagination and makes sex that much more interesting you will never get tired of the ordinary if you spice it up a bit.

Guilty feeling is the last of my emotions here. As long as no one is getting hurt mentally or physically this is all perfectly fine. Being discrete however is paramount to me. I am not embarrassed by my thoughts and desires here but I wouldn't want just everyone to know about them. It's a private thing and I like it that way. I am just glad I am not alone. This site rocks.

Capmarkie did a great job of summarizing my thoughts. To this point I prefer real medical experiences to play, but I'm very careful not to go over the top, act inappropriately, or confuse the idea of enjoying the fetish with thinking that a real medical experience will turn into an actual sexual experience of any sort. So as long as I keep it reasonable and don't act inappropriately towards any of my service providers, I don't think it harms anybody if I enjoy being examined by a female doctor. But, since its not something everybody would understand, I too like to keep it to myself, other than this board where I know others feel similar.

I suffer terribly from guilt during many years. thought I was alone and got mentally much more excited from the idea of medical exams than from ordinary sex fantasies. I sill get more turned on about medical scenarios - it's my thing, it's a very important part of me and my sexuality. Medical exams are the most erotical thing for me. and there's still a small remain of guilt. places like this one are wonderfull, liberating and very very important. We all have to thank the webmaster or the reponsibles from this site. And then the way each one takes their fantasies is personal but almost everybody here as a commom contour. and people outside are starting to see this kind of thing with more open perspectives. remember the struggle of the gay movement... it was considered a mental disease, well, maybe this new century will mark the coming out of many small sexual minorities with different prefernces, maybe all the shame and guilt will end one day. let's believe on that. to a better world.

thanks to the webmaster and to all that daily participate and enlarge this wonderful movement

I don't feel guilty about it but I don't make my interests known to people.

I felt guilty when I first started having these feelings about enjoying being examined. I thought I was weird because most women I know do not talk about their exams, and if they say anything about them at all, its how much of an inconvenience they are. I am glad to find that there are more people like myself that enjoy this fetish, and that we can be open and discuss it.

Hmmm... part of me thinks that there should be no reason to feel guilty about any fetish that doesn't harm anyone, but then again maybe a little guilt is part of the fun. I'm reminded of a quote from the Movie Latter Days: "There's nothing so bad that you can't add a little guilt and make it worse, and there's nothing so good that you can't add a little guilt and make it better."

My g/f thinks that a majority of women who visit male gynos, who have a choice, do so because they prefer to display their nakedness to a male, who is not their husband, in a "safe setting". She always feels that the female is exhibiting for the doctor, hoping that he thinks that she has a more sexy body than the many other women that he examines. She is also sure that she has detected an erection on several ocassions(may be wishful thinking maybe not). Are the women hoping for a complement from the doctor? For her, it is a huge turn-on and an orgasm waiting to happen as soon as she gets home.

The clinic environment is much like getting on a plane. You give yourself over to the pilot and crew. Your life is in their hands. They are in control.... In a clinic the situation is similar, you pretty much will do whatever the all-knowing authoritative figure wants you to do. Even if it hurts or is embarrassing. You know this person is there to do a job. Many peoples lives have been saved by these people.

I will only get an erotic sensation after the visit (exam or whatever) when I think about it in hindsight and what I might have had to do or forcefully endure.

This sight has helped me realize how tame my thoughts were and has allowed to go out even farther in the hot zones in my for the further possibilities of what could have happened.

I may now have the chance to explore my little fantasy with a real person. Quite a turn on. But whatever I do I plan on donating a specimen at the end of it. Perhaps catch a little specimen myself if I am Lucky....That has never happened during an exam for me.

I think the only reason some of us used to feel guilty was because we thought that we were the only people in the world with such a peculiar interest and no one else shared it. So it was impossible to talk about it with anyone. Now that we have found this site and know that we are in such good company, there's no reason for guilt anymore. So let's just relax and enjoy it!

I never felt guilty. med fet it's my way to explain what i'm seeking in the wider box of fetish. my female patients never fel guilty too because they haven't been forced to have an exam. before the exam i explain in a clear way what is going to happen and if the lady says no, no problem she wasted an occasion to explore herself feelings. is the lady says yes, she knows vwry well what she wants it's up to her so nobody is guilty, but we both are free to carry out and realize our fantasies

In a clinical environment one is in a helpless position and must rely on the judjement of the health professionals and submit to whatever tests and procedures are ordered however embarassing they may be. In sex or a fantasy one has choices and can stop it at anytime ultimately u r in control of the situation.

Dakota why are you afraid of sex sex is a wonderfull thing would like to meet you

My first experience in the stirrups was when I was seventeen, I had no idea what was about to happen when I went for that first appointment. I suppose, I was in shock for lack of a better way to describe it. Then for days after the examination it was all I could think about, the doctor, which was a man, the different ways he saw me naked, the things he did to me and the ways he touched me. The thing that stuck in my mind is when he told me to undress, everything off he told me and left the room. At seventeen in my world then, boys, dad, men they didn't tell you to undress every thing off, it just didn't happen. And here this man\doctor says this like nothing and expects it to happen. Over the days following the examination my thoughts begin to turn sexual it wasn't long, I found myself masturbating at night before I went to sleep thinking about the doctor and being naked for him along with the way he examined me. This went on for months as I continued to become more and more aroused thinking about it. My thoughts begin to turn to how could I see this doctor again I didn't understand it then, but I wanted that thrill of being naked in front of him again. I wanted him to touch me make me undress for him. So I called for another appointment, as it turned out my mother had made the appointment for me, and the clinic told me to have her call. Well that wasn't going to work. So I came up with another idea. I found a different doctor called made the appointment myself, gave them the insurance number and company name it worked, I now had another appointment in a week. A different doctor as I found out was even better this doctor did things different than the first doctor. He seemed less worried about my modesty his examination was more detailed, I was so turned on by the time he was done, but now I was even more confused than before because I knew, I wanted more. But how at seventeen. Now at twenty seven nothing as changed except I don't have to account to my father and mother just my husband and it's a huge turn on for him so problem solved. Sex and erotica in the clinic is different but it's a fine line at least for me.