Rectal temperature embarassment (or humiliation) ?

I never was embarrassed

I agree it’s the embarrassment and being exposed in someone else’s control that’s a big turn-on. It’s the submission and feeling vulnerable.

Embarrassment is a major factor for me that comes with rectal temperatures. It is not only that fact that I am exposed to a doctor and out of control but also that I have to submit to a procedure that is childish in some way as it is usually for little kids only.

I think that being embarrassed as a kid somehow cements the fetish as an adult. Most of the people I have spoken to over the years combine embarrassment with arousal as a key component to the rectal temp fantasy.

I love to see how my patients are embarrassed when it is time for a rectal temperature. So embarrassing to be penetrated with a cold glass thermometer as an adult guy. Way too old to get it taken like that, lol.

Because someone parts your cheeks, and sees your anus. Because something is inserted and held in there. It's quite the embarrassment!

You sound like a fun doctor, Dr. Julia.

Any man would be lucky to be your patient

At least my mother did not do such things in front of third parties, except when we were really little. (However she was not discreet about it in front of close family - things could be announced in front of them.)

With my mother being a pediatric nurse, rectal temperatures were always taken in our home. If you were not feeling well but non-contagious, you could be with other family members in the living room. i was 15 and home from school. Everyone was in the living room or kitchen before dinner. Mom felt my forhead, took my upstairs, and took my rectal temperature while across my bed face down and pajama pants down. The most embarrassing part was having to join everyone else at the dinner table because they knew exactly what had happened!

It can be quite embarrassing for a less functional youngster that is required to have a temperature taken in the rear end with a glass rectal thermometer whose peers ordinarily have a temperature taken in the mouth with a glass oral thermometer. The environment in which a less functional youngster has a temperature taken rectally with a glass rectal thermometer certainly has an impact on the degree of embarrassment that the less functional youngster experiences.

The thick vaseline gob on the end of the thermometer, being worked in. The giver holding it in. One of the highest forms of humiliation.

This didn't happen to me, but I did witnesses it. I was in basic training at Fort Knox, Kentucky and awoke one morning not feeling well. I went to sick bay where the waiting room was full with both male and female members of the Army. After waiting about 15-20 minutes, these 2 soldiers across from me started acting up. A nurse came out and told them to calm down or she would take their rectal temps in the waiting room. Well, they didn't! The nurse returned and made both of them drop their pants . She then inserted rectal temperatures into their bottoms. Everyone laughed at their situation.

How many years ago did that happen? And how old were those soldiers ?

I bet they where embarrassed big after that happened. I would be in I was in their shoes.

I had a period when I was 10 that I got rectal temps. I was staying at my grandmas for the summer and was mainly bored with no other kids around. My grandma and her friend would meet for gossip and coffee at the fence below my window. for 2 or 3 days in a row, the subject of my lethargy and crankiness was discussed.

On the third morning a third neighbor lady, Mrs Jolly joined the women. When told of my malady, Mrs Jolly immediately suspected that the reason I was out of sorts was that I was severely constipated. To be certain, she offered to 'have a look' at me. My grandma quickly agreed. Soon I heard both ladies tromping up the stairs to where I was resting.

I was told to take down my pants and shorts and lay on my tummy. My temperature was taken rectally then without as much as a word. Mrs Jolly asked me a bunch of questions, then felt my belly. She then asked my grandma if she had a rubber glove and Vaseline for a rectal exam. both ladies left for a bit, but soon returned. Mrs Jolly was now wearing a long orange pair of Playtex dishwashing gloves. She lubed up her finger with a glob of Vaseline and sat on the bed next to me.

She then asked my grandma to hold my bottom open. That was incredibly embarrassing to have my granny pulling my reddening cheeks wide apart while her friend poked around with those rough dishwashing gloves in my young, tender bottom.

She actually took her time and loosened me up a bit before she slid a finger in full length. I gasped and she thought she hurt me, I said it was ok, and she dug around for what seemed forever, but was probably less than a full minute. It made me rock hard.

The 3 ladies than gathered back at the fence for a 'consultation'. It was quickly summized and agreed that I was constipated and needed something right now to 'clean me out'. The other neighbor offered a laxative but was rebuffed by Mrs Jolly who insisted I have an enema. I was unsure of their final decision because I was in the bathroom . I'd went, but a couple of small, round pieces hadn't flushed down.

My grandma spotted those and asked about them. She wouldn't believe that there had been much more and told me she was going to go to town with my brother. I was then told that while they were gone, Mrs Jolly would be coming over to give me an enema. She told me to be a good boy and cooperate, or I'd just have to have more.

I was embarrassed, but cooperative as Mrs Jolly gave me another rectal temp and two large soapy enemas, then a large rinse enema. It was incredibly hot and I wish I could do it again

I have no recollection of a rectal temperature being taken as a child yet it is still a fetish now I'm an adult!

I love the idea of being made 2 take the thermometer up my butt while protesting that I'm 2 old for it!

someone parts your cheeks, and sees your anus... quite the embarrassment!

@sundaybrunch

If you can embrace that embarrassment (and I'm sure most of us here do), it can be sublimely erotic. A wonderful phenomenon.

@sundaybrunch @Bratinpjs

Yes, yes, and yes! When were you last so embarrassed? Do tell!

My mom and stepdad made a point of making it a humiliating experience for me. Makes me wonder why I have such a sexual fetish for it.

@HannahHiney

Would love to hear more details about your parents' approach to taking your temperature in your bottom.

I had very confused feelings about rectal temps growing up, it was very humiliating but also stimulating. I never had an oral temp until I was a teenager.

I was in the hospital when I was six. I was taken to a room and an aide got me undressed and into a gown. I got into bed and a short time later the nurse came in and took my blood pressure. Then she told me to roll over on my stomach. I was afraid I was going to get a shot but she inserted a thermometer in my bottom. There was a girl in the next bed and I was really embarrassed. Her turn camenext. This went on every few hours for several days.

My most embarassing rectal temperature was taken when I was 18. I didnt study for a test so Ithough I could fake sick and study for it during the day and make it up later in the week.

So I decided to fake sick. I selpt under extra blankets so I would be warm. I threw them off of the bed before mum would walk into my room. So mum walks into my room and asks why am I not getting ready for school. I told her I wasnt feeling good. Mum would threaten us with the thermometer if she suspected that we were faking sick (not that it mattered we always gotten our temoeratures taken rectaly) My sisters would wine every time they had their temperature taken. I woukd put up a fight so no one would know tgat I sort of liked it.

Anyways mum said I actually better be sick or it wouldn't be pretty. So she told me To take off my clothing and to get into position. (The diaper changing position) So here I am Naked on my bed at 18 about to have my temperature taken this way. Not only tgat I was in the diaper position.

So mum walks in with the thermometer and the jar of vaseline. She puts the jar down and sticks the thermometer in it. She then gets a little bit of vaseline on her finger tip. Next thing I know my cheeks were spread and she rubbed vaseline on my opening. I was told to either hold my legs back or to bring them up to my chest. I held them back but they had to be spread. In walks my two younger sisters (five years anfd three years younger than me)Of course they stay and watch the whole thing hoping that im in for worse, so they can get a show.

So mum took the thermometer out of the jar of vaseline again and shook it down again. She places the thermometer at my entrance and slowly pushes it into my rectum. She held it there with her hand cupped over it for the full five minutes (probably to scare my sisters) The moment I dreaded was about to come. She slowly removed the thermometer from my hole. She said just as I suspected no fever. So she spanks my bare arse. (Thats why I was put into the diaper position) Good thing my sisters had to leave for school before the really embarassing things happened. I ended up getting multiple enemas (the bulb enema syringe was used) and some supposotories.

Later that day I got a severe spanking (unfortunately my sisters were home for that)

Lets just say I didnt fake sick anymore after that

In a medical setting or elsewhere, have you ever felt humiliated because your rectal temperature was taken ?

Humiliation is a major aspect of my play doctors examination ensuring im shamed as he “inspects” me in the most intimate ways. I cant hide my embarrassment when he has me standing before him nude for my genital measurements and later on his exam table on all fours legs apart my anus presented for his “attention”.

In a medical setting or elsewhere, have you ever felt humiliated because your rectal temperature was taken ?

I didn't vocalize any complaints but I found it excruciatingly embarrassing because I could smell my butt when I was exposed like that and Mom could too.

Absolutely! As a young boy at ages 3 and 6, this meant having to reveal the intimate secrets of my body which was usually covered by my underwear: my tiny uncircumsized penis, tiny scrotum, and anal opening, which were all probably still relatively pink at that time. I wasn't the best at wiping so I was afraid the strangers would see the stain on my briefs or possibly the thermometer would be dirty after it was removed. Also the thermometer being inserted was pushed in without any warning, which added to the embarrassment of having my privates exposed as well as a foreign object sticking out of me while undergoing an intimate insertion.

Yes in the ER when I was 4

Especially after 11 years old they were all embarrassing. For every doctor visit growing up I hoped that it would be the day to get my temperature taken orally, but unfortunately that day just never came. Even though I got used to it, did not lessen my feeling of humiliation. it wasn’t just the fact that the nurse would see my bare bottom, but it was the helpless feeling of lying face down on the table, with parents in the room, sometimes another nurse or nursing student, not to mention the door being left wide open many times, with strangers in the hall looking at me.

I remember RTs in the hospital when I was little (maybe 5yo). After visiting hrs the nurse would come in and do everybody's vitals. Everybody would pull down their jammies and rollover. One by one the nurse would go around and stick a thermometer in every upturned butt. She eould return to the first kid and do vitals. She would also ask if you had a BM that day. She would read the thermometer, put it back in th he holder, and go to the next kid. If you said no to the BM question, somebody would come get you and take you down the hall for an enema. I got a lot of enemas while in the hospital. A couple I can remember clearly.