When I first started playing with the doctor/boyfriend almost 4 years ago now we tried to go over some of our hard limits. I really didn't have any hard limits because I did't have any experiences in which to pull from. I did have a few though.
For me, the first hard limit was that he was not allowed to kiss me on the lips. The second one was that he couldn't put anything over my face.
For him his hard limits were more than mine, no spankings, either coming from him or being administrated to him. No needles in his naughty bits. And no touching his nipples, "they were way too sensitive and he didn't enjoy nipple play in the least." Hahahah, is what I said to that.
Well, people change over times. I had a dream once of the following scene, but when we met again, I lived out my bream and this with what happened basically.of him standing naked with his shirt unbuttoned all the way, pants undone all the way just waiting for me to come out of the bathroom. When I did, I took his breath away I think for a bit. He was standing there now at this point with his hand over his head cuffed, giving me complete access to whatever I wanted at a moments notice. Heheheeh
Well I came out of the bathroom wearing a very tight leather body suit, black garter stockings that came up half way up my white milky thighs. I had my hair slicked back into a tight no-nonsense pony tail like fashion. I had on my black leather boots that came up to just under my knees and zipped up the sid. THey were high heeled which put me eight at his eye level, making me all the more intimidating for him, hehehe. Oh and I can't forget the ridig crop I had in my left hand as well, which we had never seen before.
He stood in shock. I think he was a lot scared of me at that point, especially when I have him a safe word to use, (which we have never needed before in the past) hahahaha.
Long story short, I took him to the bed, ripped off the rest of his clothes, flipped him over onto his belly and slowly started spanking his with the crop. At one point he said, "spanking is a hard limit for me" and he said in a bit of a whinny please stop you are scaring me whimper that he sometimes gets.
I paid no attention, and after his bottom was slightly pinked, I tied him down completely to the rest of the bed then got on top of him and streddled his lower thighs and began spanking his fantastic hot ass again and again until I had to stop because I broke blood bessels in my palms and could spank him no longer.
Then I turned him back over on to his back re-hooked him back up to the restraint system but now his entire front was exposed to me. Now here is a guy who has a very hard limit of no spanking, but w hen he turned over to that I can play with the front side, I notice 2 things, the most obvious is his 7 inches of thick man meat is rock hard and dripping pre-cum, and after all that he has a huge smile/grin on his face.
So I retied his hands and and legs, and made sure his hands were tied well above his head. Then I got on top of him again and straddled his various body parts. I wasn't wearing any panties, lol so I would once in a while move up and sit on his face, giving him just a smell or slight lick at my juices.
Then with his chest sprawled out naked and presenting it to me like a turkey right out of the oven for me to cut into, his poor nipples didn't have a chance. I was going for them next, and I did.
I could feel him tense up. I pushed on. First I was nice and easy, I licked them hard enough not to tickle them, but hard enough to see and feel the stimulation and the enjoyment. I started licking them harder, straight across, then in circles, then I bit them slightly with my lips and tongue. Looking back, yep, he's still drippy in the penis department, lol. By this time, both nipples were standing straight up and they were begging for more. So, Well, I got out the acupuncture needles. He started to really bulk, but he was tied, how much further could he get?
So slowly and one by one the needles went into his nipples and then into the head of his penis. Not many mind you, but enough for him to get his feeling on the whole thing.
Long post to get to this point, but if you can get your man to realze a bit, you will find that most men in fact love to have their nipples stimulated to some degree.
Remember our hard limits and what they were 4 years ago, He begs me to spank him almost on a daily basis. Truth is, he doesn't need to beg quite so much, he's going to get them anyway because I want to do them to him, lol