The Finger Wave

I'm not particularly turned on by them either feeling-wise. It is the idea of total submission that I find appealing. Personally, I think butts are gross.

I've given often but never received ... oddly, a rectal exam is the only fantasy I have from the patient's point of view - who knows why? 😃

I have had several rectals and usually have them in stirrups. It does feel yucky and I would prefer it if my doctor skipped the exam, but I don't want to make a big deal out of it. All in all, a humiliating AND uncomfortable experience. Yuck.

Rectal exams by my dr are not exciting at all and something I just put up with as medically necessary. However, when my wife puts her finger in my ass it is very exciting indeed. I have never had a rectal exam from a female dr and wonder if it would differ from my male dr's exam. I would like to find out sometime.

The most funny comment by my doctor about a rectal exam was in a parking lot at a shopping center ... I saw him heading to his car and exchanged pleasantries and as we walked away he said he'll be giving free rectal exams all next week. I still wonder how many people heard that and wondered what was going on!

I had my first rectal exam in my 20s during my first thorough physical. Shorts down and bent over the table in the examination room. The doctor said nothing about what he was about to do other than telling me to keep my underpants down after the hernia check and bend over the table. He put his finger in really fast with his other hand on my back so that I wouldn't raise up. I did try to raise up a little because I was surprised by getting his finger in my butt. After he pulled his finger out, he told me that I could pull my shorts up and sit back on the table. When he told me that I could get dressed and he left the room, I realized that the seat of my briefs were wet from the lubrication but I pulled on my jeans anyway because I did not see anything to wipe up with. My face was still red when I checked out with the doctor's receptionist. She probably knew exactly why I was so embarrassed.

My first remabral rectal was during an employment physical when i was 18, the dr was an older male, he made me strip completely nude for the entire exam wchich i found strange and embarrisisng i think he was gay or at least deff enjoyed humiliating me, after the hernia exam he told me to turn around and touch my toes he checked my spine, then i remeber him telling me to stay in that position, he snapped on a clean glove spread my cheeks apart inspected first, then with one hand on my upper back neck area he forcefully inserted his finger all the way up my rectum i remeber yellin out and trying to stand up but he kept ferm pressure with his other hand to keep me bent over he did not tell me he was going to put his finger up there which was quit large after twisting and turning his finger up there he started to pull it out but stopped about half way out felt around and then inserted his finger all the way up there again it was not a fun exp.

Do gay or bisexual men get aroused by this when the doctor does it?

In response to curiousc2c... Do Straight men???? What would sexual orientation have to do with this????? Very little is my guess!

Hi! I'm a straight male and although many male doctors have inserted their fingers into my backside, I love it when a female doctor or nurse does it! It's very fortunate I have a few friends who love it when I "examine" them and they me.

I was referred to a urologist recently to check on a recent and seemingly permanent bend in my erection. I wondered if he would want to see it erect, and wasn't sure I would be able to do that w/ a male Dr. around. I brought a photo instead which I took during a usual "morning wood" incident and that seemed to be sufficient. He felt the shaft of my penis around the "bend" region but detected no obvious plaques or internal scar tissue.

After his manipulation my penis was hanging down longer although not really becoming erect; then he started asking about whether I wanted a prostate exam. I wasn't really interested as my (female) MD does that on a regular basis and I prefer her doing it (what straight male wouldn't?) So we did not proceed with his suggestion.

I wondered later if this was a purely professional question, or if he gets some enjoyment doing prostate exams on guys. It certainly had nothing to do with the deviated penis situation.

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I had my first rectal exam as a kid, when I was in hospital with my mother because of some indigestion. It was at the end of the exam when the doctor told me to take down my underpants and bent over the exam table. I didn't want to, but my mum told me to do as the doctor said, so I took them down and turned around. When I didn't bent over the nurse and my mother came to assist the doctor and held me down. I felt a gloved hand at my butt spreading my cheeks and then suddenly a cold big finger pressed against and into my anus. I gulped and tried to get up but the nurse and my mum were pressing me down and could just feel how the doctor pushed (what felt like) his whole finger into my rectum. I felt so nasty and hurt, and although it was probably over in no time it felt like ages before he took his finger out.

I somewhat enjoy the rectal exams...they are over about the time they were started......

My first rectal exam was also bent over an exam table, with a very young male intern doing the exam. He seemed real nervous. It wasn't painful but felt odd. First time anyone had ever put a finger inside my anus. First time by a female doctor was years later, laying on my side on the exam table with both legs bent to my chest. She turned on the brightest exam light I've ever seen, pulled my cheeks open and felt around the exterior of my anus, then inserted her finger inside. The whole time another nurse stood behind her holding a clipboard but didn't say anything. I don't know why she was there. I wonder if she watched the whole exam.

My first was with a male doctor whose hands were about the size of a side of beef. Next and annually was our male family doctor with normal size hands. Then I got signed up with the VA and a female ARNP who had me bend over the table as she exclaimed "you have a nice little one". When I recovered from that statement realizing she was talking about my prostate I replied "I was just thinking the same about your finger" and we were off to a good start. She retired 2 years ago and now I have a female doctor at the VA whose name I cannot pronounce nor can I understand most of what she says including the word digital but she did it anyway.

Our new, beautiful, blond and young, female family doctor chosen by my wife because she didn't want a male also has me bend over the table.

I have been examined by both male and female doctors. It could just be coincidence, but the male doctors have had me bend over the table, and the female doctors have had me lay on my side. Strange how it has worked out that way. I don't know if one method is taught over the other.

I have a male PA...I spread my legs to shoulder width then lay my chest across the exam table