What do you like most about play exams?

When I play online I like having a partner (patient) who helps me direct the scene in a 50/50 manner (I can provide examples of this). When I am able to play with a partner who can play in this manner my favorite thing is seeing where they will take the scene next and then figuring out how I react and what I will do from there. So for me it is the twists that are the best part!

I like it very much when a female patient is very shy so I have to approach her very gentle and carefully. And then after a while playing when she get's out of her panties and spreads, to see her wetness; that is a very special and intimate moment...

Trust and excitement is very important for me. Knowing that he will not hurt me or do anything wrong and can even pull off scary things without causing pain with a smile or a joke.

Another very important part is that he doesn't do anything by the book and makes sure all the procedures have no actual medical purpose and are done for pleasure and excitement only. They should be real but feel unneeded for any medical reason. For example empty injections or dividing the same shot into multiple ones without any reason other than just giving more. I also love it when the whole procedure feels thought through, like a session and also that I could stop it at any time but never want to. That it's more exciting than scary and if I tell him to stop, it would be over.

I agree with the pushing the boundaries comment below. Also, for me, a large part of it has to do with the exposure, vulnerability and anticipation – whether placing the patient in that position by playing the doctor or being on the receiving end as patient. The phrase “power exchange” is used a lot and I agree with that up to a point, I guess. But I think focusing on the power exchange involved in a play exam describes the fun of only one style/scenario where I’m a more stern, we’ll-do-this-my-way kind of doctor. There are obviously lots of other scenarios that can create exposure, vulnerability and excitement or anticipation about what’s coming next. I like exams that are basically realistic, but longer, with greater exposure, and with extra attention focused on intimate areas.

I really like the gyno exam, i get all wet

Your profile indicates you are male, why would you be having a gyno exam?

Perhaps you're the playdoc performing the exam and the wetness you describe is precum.

One of the best points for me is providing an outlet for someone of the same interests, and in most cases being able to help her achieve an erotic fulfillment she's never before experienced. That in itself is probably the most rewarding part, and knowing I did it just right.

Being naked and controlled by a clothed person(s). Obediently doing as you are told and having the doctor/nurse do as they wish to you/with you.

I like the depersonalized power exchange. I like the objectification. For me, to accomplish this, realism is key. That doesn't mean that I want a 10 minute exam, but I want realistic procedures.

Being controlled,trusting someone and I love humiliation in a controlled environment

As a playdoc, the most thrilling part of the exam is the fact that you have complete control over patient with the ability to embarrass her while examining every inch of the naked body for as long as you wish to. And recommend further procedures for further mutual enjoyment and/or humiliation. That said, it is also counterbalanced by the fact that you need to live up to the trust that the play patient places in you. For a play patient to deny herself the modesty and completely expose her most private areas to a complete stranger (oftentimes this is more than they do to their SOs) leads to an unsaid agreement that the play doctor would look upon her in a professionally healing manner only. Oftentimes, for me, this burden of trust means that I only focus on what the play patients want or what I know for sure they would want/enjoy.

A lot things if I'm honest! The humiliation for one, having every part of your body exposed and examined thoroughly by your doctor. Not having control is another, doctor's orders after all. The anticipation as well, knowing something is coming and having to brace yourself for it. All adds up in the end 😉

When playing doctor, the fact you have a naked female laying before you, having to follow your orders. Her whole body being ready and waiting to be touched and probed.

As a patient, I like the feeling of a stethoscope on my chest, and the feeling of my heart tapping against it.

As a doctor, I like to hear the heart of a female thumping in my ears as I move the stethoscope around their chest/breasts.

It's the delicate balance of control and exposure -- being naked and subject to such intense physical scrutiny, quite voluntarily, is intensely exciting.

As a doctor, I like to touch people and have control. As a patient, I like to be out of control and have someone touching me where few others ever do.

I'm going to have my first play exam soon, so while I'm not speaking from the voice of experience yet, what really interests me is the actual experience as a patient: loss of control, exposure (repeated and in different areas), feeling the various sensations inherent in a thorough exam. Testing and stretching my boundaries as an individual, all in the context of what happens and what could happen in an exam.

I enjoy the power dynamic and intimacy of sharing my deepest fetish/desires with a willing partner

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Ultimately the trust and intimacy. I am not only getting unrestricted access to a patients body but also access to the most protected, sacred dreams and desires. Together we create a personal and intimate physical, emotional and intellectual playspace.

Its quite worth the effort.

As a male play doctor I love to be in the position of being trusted and have the "authority" to touch and examine a woman's body in the most intimate ways possible, a privilege I respect.

Also it is very much a sub/dom situation although I generally do not mix bdsm with medical play.

The cool calm demeanor of the doctor. How he is methodical and usually makes it my problem if something is uncomfortable. "You're not relaxing, are you?" or "You just have to get used to it." or "It will all be over soon." Or being told it's necessary and "we" have to take "our" enema. That being said, I haven't had a visit to a doctor in years.

Wow! So many like minded people in one place. This is what is so hard to explain to people that have never experienced it. The whole intimacy and vulnerability in this unique relationship is what drives me to become a better play doc. The trust of turning over control to someone while being in such a vulnerable situation can be extremely intense. It's so nice to find a group of people that understand and appreciate this!

The out of control feeling of taking off my clothes and letting someone else touch my body and inspect my intimate areas

I enjoy careful planning and the setting of the scene. I think the psychological aspects of earning control from the patient is as exciting as the physical aspects of the exam.

Without question, it's the power dynamics that form naturally between doctor and patient.

The control you have over someone is amazing. The eroticism that comes from it all. The taboo feeling of the whole act.

Being naked and under the control of "medical" personal doing as they direct. Naked in front of clothed people who you have given control over you.

I like the undressing

When plying the patient role in the exam, I like reliving the embarrassment I feel during a real physical exam. I love being in my briefs in front of someone who is completely dressed and taking down my briefs to expose my penis and scrotum to a stranger. I am a modest person, so this is not easy for me to do. But the exhilaration that goes with exposing myself is incredible. It is probably strange to most of you, but every play exam that I go through is very difficult for me emotionally, but then I force myself to go through withi it and love the feeling of embarrassment. I get into the palpation and inspection of my genitals and the exposure and probing of my anus. Unfortunately, the feeling I get the first time an individual sees me with my briefs down can never exactly be recreated.

When playing the examiner role, I enjoy giving the “patient” the experience he wants from the exam whether that is recreating a particular exam experience or just having a stranger systematically scrutinize his entire body. I prefer examine men who find exams embarrassing and want to have a really humiliating session.

In no particular order: the helplessness, the exposure, the lack of control, the physical stimulation, being controlled, having my responses outside of my control, being ‘made’ to do things, being totally exposed to another.