Clitoris and Pussy Spanking

I saw images/videos on the net where a woman's clitoris is spanked with hand or some device. I tried it with my mazo patient in several ways, but we found it the most interesting with a thin wooden cane. I opened her labia with clamps, and stroked directly to her clit. I did not stroked hard, it was rather uncomfortable than painful, but after several strokes she started crying because of the throbbing pain in her clit.

After she calmed down, she told me that it was not hard in the first few minutes, but slowly the hole area started throbbing and at the end, it was like a bee sting or something similar.

Anyone tried this?

I made a rather small rubber flogger specifically for this type of play, haven't tried it out yet, but I'm going to rectify that very soon. Will report back how it goes.

I once used a riding crop on myself, but it was so hard to get a good stroke on my own behind and upper thighs. As I lay down to think it through again, I was stroking my rather swollen pussy with the flexible leather end, and I started using it to slap against my closed pussy. As I got more aroused, the outer lips opened up, exposing my clit. I kept hitting right and left of my clit, thinking it would hurt too much, but I was getting more and more aroused.

In the end, I found that small taps/slaps with the riding crop, hundreds of them on and near my clit, brought me to orgasm. My whole vulva was very swollen and tender, and I felt my clit and labia rubbing against my inner thighs under my skirt all that evening everytime I walked around, and the whole area was tender when I sat down. I had to change my panties more than once because they got soaked with my juices, even though I didn't come again.

I only have to remember that whole scene to get aroused again.

Now, after I get really aroused, I can take much harder blows on my slit, but again, that is hard to do to yourself. I think I injured my wrist that way, but I never said how it happened to the PA at the Dr's office!

I really need a playmate!

Getting my clit spanked is a total orgasm..

I have done this to a number of my partners over the years. The most easily tolerated approach is to use a smallish paddle, like a wooden paint stir stick to paddle the outer labia over the clitoris. Multiple strokes will achieve the stimulation to achieve orgasm. I have also used several very intense paddles directly on the clit. One that worked quite well and was easy to make was to take a plastic plumbing supply tube and round over the end by softening the plastic and then paddle the clit with it. This direct contact must be very gentle unless the lady is a real pain slut.

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I have always had great success spanking a clit or pussy using a small soft leather flogger about 6" long (it's almost like one of those key holder types)and using it gently but continuosly. I build up a slow rhythym and expose the clit with my fingers. I never use hard strokes and over time the end result is usually the same. Lots of moaning and deep orgasms for her.

Another little method of driving her absolutely nuts is to use a soft bristled battery powered toothbrush on her clit...😃 The anus is also a nice spot for this too for you adventurous sorts..lol

Fetlife.com has several recent videos and photos of clit spanking.

I bought a special multi stranded whip for just this purpose along with ass crack and bottom hole access in NYC.

It is much like a regular 5 strand leather whip, but is about the length of a pencil. I am told from the girls I have used it on it is very stingy, electrifies the vagina and the anus lie they haver felt before. A Clit Spanking really has never been my direct attention, but I am sure it has been popped, spanked as well.

So now and then I like to spank my wife on her clit, i have a leather stroke whip and a riding crop are there any other tools I could use/make/buy ?

I love the feeling of having my clit spanked as well as my anus, its just finding someone to do it is the problem.

According to my sub, clit spanking does involve pain, but it is also quite stimulating in the sexual sense, and the clit remains quite sensitive for a while afterwards making sex quite satisfying.

Using a small pseudo-whip I bought, I found that once you get her pretty warmed up, clit spanking generally becomes that love-hate deal where she begs you to stop, hoping to god you don't. It had feathers on one end and strands of rubber-like tenacles on the other end, all together about 15" long, easy to get into tight places between those trembling thighs. I've done it with and without clamping open the labia. With no clamps, its erotic to watch the whole vulva engorge,and bounce as the whip is applied. If you pay close attention to what she's doing, you can really incite an intense orgasm...and then, as I so enjoy...keep going to that next excruciating orgasm past the first one. It's amazing how many women that submit have never been taken past that first orgasm. I think some doms are intimidated by a woman's intense orgasm and unwilling to drive them further. Truth be told, they appreciate being driven. As for using clamps, I am careful to find the right cadence and severity of the whipping. Hey...? isn't it supposed to be fun for both people?

I'm going to try it tonight. First I am going to use an old electric tooth brush on her clit. Then I am going to try the clit spanking and see how she reacts. I'll let you know in a day or two.

Clit spanking is so good. It makes me cum faster than anything else. I like just a hand...no tools or implements. The hand stings just enough.

I was once spanking my girlfriend on her bare bottom while she was on all fours on the bed. I was using my hand and one stroke accidently smacked her pussy. Her response was to spread her thighs wide and to arch her back, tacitly begging me to keep spanking her there. I was more than happy to oblige and you should have heard the moaning as my finger tips spanked her clitoris and her lips in a slow rhythm until she had a shattering orgasm falling flat on the bed with exhaustion. We found a soft deerhide, short leather whip to use on her and she loved it. I always wondered how a small paint stirrer would work.

I agree with nangnang365. A hand does perfectly well and there's no need for any implements. It does help that I have a fetish for fingers and hands but that's beside the point. I have rarely had a clit spanking but damn, it's hot. It's usually proceeded by a nice tongue lashing before to get me wet and aroused and is followed by some deep, serious fucking. It's making me excited just to think about it.

A sub with whom I played for >5 years enjoyed being "pussy whipped." I had installed rings into the loft ceiling joists, to which her extended wrists were tied, feet flat on the floor. I then attached ankle cuffs and a 36" spreader bar, forcing her to tip-toe position. I had a soft nylon flogger (hundreds of strands) with which I whipped her pussy. Her arousal became increasingly evident (flushing, sweating, rapid breathing, leaning into the strokes), although the ball gag limited her to moaning. She always orgasmed.

Sometimes I stopped before she orgasmed and added weighted nipple clamps, which increased the moaning and hastened her orgasms. The proof often ran down her thighs.

For real punishment I used a rubber-stranded flogger, which produced a much different, less pleasurable result. But then, that WAS for punishment!

The toy h2oplayer referred to is common in sex toy stores and on line sites and is perfect for clit and nipple "flogging". It is also inexpensive, and the small rubber falls can be washed.

I tried a little clit spanking with my wife and seemed to get mixed reviews. It just wasnt the same as a good bottom walloping. Every clit like every bottom seems to be different.

I prefer a hand.

I react better to my labia being spanked, though. Sometimes, hitting my clit sends me to the moon in a good way, but other times it's a complete shut-down. I've never been able to tell which is going to be the case beforehand.

I agree with jinny; I've had my clit spanked a couple of times before, but I reacted differently each time. I was into it the first time, but the second time I had to tell him to stop. And I also agree that a hand is plenty for me; no implement required!

Ladies, a question:

How about light spanking while wearing silk panties? The reason I say silk is to have the spanker rub your clit between swats. And of course, the panties would cushion the spanking.

My partner really got off on having her pussy spanked. This was a quite a surprise. I began lightly but when her hips started rocking and she became very wet I increased the force just a little bit. With a finger up her ass it drove her over the edge! Even though she is not very talkative about sex she managed to say how much she had enjoyed it (this really made me happy).

Is a woman who enjoys her pussy and clit being spanked likely a bit on the sub-side even though she wouldn't dare considering herself as such?

Different women react in different ways. I wouldn't classify a woman who likes her clit and pussy spanked a sub.

Just be careful that the spanking isn't too hard.

You may learn to like it after a while. My girl didn't like it at first but now if I whisper to her that she is going to get a pussy punishment she goes instantly wet.

This is a very fast way to orgasm, its best to be light at first then harder.

Wife loves gentle hand slapping on her fanny (vagina), also likes her bum spanked and when really turned on she even likes a fep slaps between her cheeks onto her bum hole.

This is a topic I have been looking at over and over again over the past few years.

When we first met over 4 years ago, I brought up spanking to him for the first time, giving and receiving, and was given an answer of, and I quote, "that's a hard limit for me hon. I was taught never to hit a woman." Then I had to explain to him that there is a difference between hitting and spanking, I wanted to be spanked, and I wanted to spank him too, which again he associated being spanked with probably negative thoughts of his childhood.

Well, about one day, 6 months into our relationship, I told him to get naked and stand in the middle of the room. I went to the bathroom, dressed in all black leather, knee high boots, riding crop, you get the idea, way different than my all white nursing whites he had been used to seeing me in, and long story short, I started spanking his ass with the crop, and my hands, hard enough that it broke blood vessels in my palms of my hands. Needless to say, whether he wanted it or not, his penis sure did react, stood at attention with a quickness and was very drippy. From that reactions, I assumed that what I was doing was exciting him. Well, from that time on, he's begged me ever since to spank him more and more.

It took him a bit longer to get out of the mind set that he was hitting me, but rather spanking, and that IS what I wanted from him. When he first started, it was light little love taps, now he's stronger, physically and mentally and wants to spank me the way I want and need to be spanked by him.

However, this pussy and clit spanking thing, yes, this also very much interest me.........a lot. The other thing that interest me about being pussy smacked or spanked is that I would have to be put on my back and he would have to tell me to spread my legs open, that will be embarrassing for me, which I also love. So, I will have to talk to him about going there someday soon., if he's ready and willing.

Time will tell.

Mashie.

Any suggestions on how to get him to do that to me?

That sounds like a great addition to the sex game. http://www.kinky-engineering.info/images/positions%20the%20game.pdf

What if I add that card to the pile and you stack the deck to make sure he draws the card.

Now here's the homework for the group. Give me a description on how you would like pussy spanking done to you and how it is supposed to feel.

Skybear

And don't forget to add to the card the instrument of choice, or there could be multiple cards for that, just using different things to spank with? A hand, a flogger, a crop, etc, you get the point there sky. The combinations are endless, and fun, hehehe.