Let's not be critical of others' kinks

Everybody is different on this site, we each got into our enema fantasies in different ways. Just because one person has a certain type of enema fetish they enjoy doesn't mean they should be put down, we all have our opinions.Let's be careful how we give them.

It is true that one should not say something against anyone else's

"likes" just because it is not something we like. Most of us have had to hide what we enjoy because no one else

in our real life is open enough to have any type of discussion about

it.

If any member feels they are being belittled or put down by another member please let any of the moderators know what is going on by. You can do this by personal message to any of the moderators http://www.zity.biz/index.php?action=sip;area=moderators (myself included ) or by clicking on the "report to moderator button". The zity.biz forum is suppose to be a safe and secure place to express ourselves on your kinks and fetishes. But be sure to play safely.

Thank you thank you and thank you.... we all like the fetish and it is a shame others are critical and can not be open.... lets enjoy each other and our discussions... come on !!

There IS a difference between criticizing people, and pointing out the danger in a certain practice. Also, I think we can critique methodologies, drugs etc, without being personally critical.

We all have our own experiences. People who don't use enemas don't come here.

I have always said and frequently posted here that people with kinks can not afford to criticize other people's kinks lest they be criticized.

Besides, it's none of anybody's business, and why should they care what people do in their own homes?

I want to make sure everybody is able to practice all their kinks.

I'm in total agreement--there are many kinks out there and all of those that don't hurt others should be respected.

And the definition of "kink" is entirely an individual thing! And, if I amy digress, also perhaps age related. When I was younger and confessed my enema interest to women I met they looked at it as a "Kink" but now that I am older and the women I interact with are older, they look at my enema interest as more of a "valuable asset" than a "kink." (smile)

Our society is far too unfairly judgmental. Live and let live, enjoy with little or no guilt complex and all our lives would be much happier.

It's important to be accepting of others' special kinks regarding enemas. There are a number of subsets (e.g., some folks enjoy the pain of cramping, while others do their best to avoid it. If someone's kink isn't the same as yours, just accept it and move on. It's important to find out what a person's orientation is when first connecting with them. With a little effort, you can find compatiable friends out there. Don't assume everyone shares your perspective.