Long anal toys - How deep is too deep?

How deep is it generally possible to insert an anal dildo? I seem to be able to manage only about 5" or so. Is it possible that with a very soft flexible dildo that deeper penetration would be possible or should I just be satisfied with what i have managed so far?

On two occasions - many years ago - I had a strap-on used on me by a domme.

I found I was unable to accommodate much more than 4" of the length without an aching sort of pain, as the strap-on seemed to bump into something.

I guess it's just the way I'm made and that probably applies to you too alan20cm, though if the '20cm' part of your screen name is what you're trying then maybe 'lower your sights' a little, lol

The lower large intestine has a sharp "S" curve just above the rectum - the Sigmoid. That's probably what you were "bumping" into. Anything deeper needs to be very flexible to get around that curve.

I've got some very flexible "jelly beads" that are about 11" inches long, and with lots of patience, and even more lube, i've gotten all of it in me. Sometimes, they would bunch up in the rectum & not go any deeper. A few times, when working them in and out very slowly with lots of lots of lube, I got them to go deeper. The feeling is different, but very stimulating.

There's many different makers of long flexible anal beads--Tantus, FunFactory, Ophoria, & many off brands.

Whatever you use, go slow, be careful, use lots of lube, and enjoy.

I can take about 15 inches of a 1 1/2" wide double headed dildo or 24 inches of a 1 1/8" diameter colon tube. But that's nothing compared to my husband who can take my arm past my elbow, to his ribcage. (Admittedly my arms are not that of an Olympic weight lifter.)

While we all have limits, all it takes is practice and knowing your internal anatomy so you can guide the dildo or hose around the curves.

NOTE: your internal curves won't necessarily resemble the diagrams in a text book.

Thanks for your replies. I guess flexibility of whatever is inserted is a large part of the answer....and practice.

Apologies, Switchablesusie, I was a bit pushed for time when I replied.I am truly impressed by your capacity for anal dildoes never mind your husband's eye watering abilities. I can take plugs etc of up to about 1 3/4" dia - it's just the length that's defeating me.....I am inspired to keep trying. Thanks.

If I'm really clean I can get around 16 inches in using a 1.5 inch veined double dildo. Some days it's more some days it's less. One thing I noticed though is that after you do depth play it gets a little harder to empty out your enemas. Anyone else notice this?

I think it may make a difference if you took some deep enemas before trying to take a deep insertion. You can really let go without fear of a sudden poop squirting onto the bed or wherever you are. Once I get cleaned out, I can take a lot of dildo up the ass, maybe ten inches. Once I get it that deep, I don't move it much, as it takes more concentration than I care to divert from my masturbatory fantasy of the moment. I can rotate my hips and feel it inside me, and clench and release my pelvic muscles, to help me come. What I cannot understand is keeping a butt plug in for hours, either pre- or post-intercourse, it makes me all nervous and unhappy. Also, if it has been well-lubed, it just comes out after a while. I guess I need a strap to hold it all in.

I have kept trying. With a flexible rubber tube about 5/8ths of an inch diameter I can insert several feet but when I move up to a dildo of about 1 1/4 inch diameter about five inches is the maximum penetration I can take. Anything more & I get a really unpleasant aching pain in my rectum. I think I'm going to have to accept my limitations on this one & just admire the abilities of others!

As noted in one of the posts do not expect your anatomy to conform to those in textbooks. Mine certainly does not and it gives some problems for real as opposed to play exams.

I am still working on being able to take something long and firm in my butt. When I relax and can work it in and out the sensation is tremendous.

I found this great toy - it was very pliable (probably silicone) 12 inch anal probe. It was very easy to insert it almost the entire length. It was 12" and that did not include the handle. Had a nice ball at the tip.

Best I can do is about 8 or 9 inches until I'm banging on the "corner". I've experienced anal sex with some impressively "hung" guys, but unless they control themselves by not going to deep, it's get kinda uncomfortable.

I have a question about safe insertions. I have seen some pics and movies of both men and women taking huge dildos anally. They seem to do this with no problems. I have to wonder if some of the videos are fake because it looks like they are being impaled. Anyway, what I wanna know, is someone can get a toy that far up their ass? I thought the colon turned a few inches in, and if that's the case, wouldn't an object going deep cause severe pain or damage? I have a 7.5 inch dildo and even though I have a lot of fun with it, I cant get that last inch in . Since I seem to feel resistance, I play it safe and stop. Still, I would be curious of pushing it in that last little bit if I knew it was safe.

I have inserted one of those jelly double dildos, 12 inchs, completly in so if you looked you wouldnt know anything was in their. So yes, it's possible, just takes a bit of time.

If you aren't having pain and know your own anatomy, or that of your partner's, there isn't any practical insertion length that is too deep.

Of course, a dildo will not go as far in as a colon tube. A dildo up to 1 1/2 inches in diameter can probably extend 30 inches or so with a lot of practice and a thoroughly cleaned out colon. A colon tube can probably be inserted 48 inches with a lot of practice.

They key is to know your own anatomy, which probably does NOT follow all the descriptions in a text book.

But how far would you need to go, before you filled out your ascending colon??

I have inserted one of those double ended dildos , which are 18" long, right up my bum to the end of it. You should inject some lube in first and then slowly ease it up , turning it a little from side to side and you should be able to get it all the way in there. I can actually feel the long , cool shape of it and it is quite stimulating too. Once it is past the anal sphincta it should go in with little resistance. But don't try to force it with any great pressure.

My blunt penetration capacity is nearly identical to alan20cm's report. I don't get the pain he does from a wide toy but do trigger a lot of upper colon peristalsis and gas generation. That leads to spasm and an absolute brick wall. After many years of play, I've accepted that I'm not built for long and 'girthy' penetration. It's a matter of what I call the "discomport to pleasure ratio." 😄

My fr38 tube experience has been well across the transverse up to the hepatic bend. Soooooooo ...

To explore all the desights of my rectum though I took a short, closed-end rectal tube and stiffened all but the last two inches with a piece of #10 copper wire. The unstiffened tip beyond where the wire reaches has been a nice explorer. I can form the tube to various shapes. It's versatile and for sensory explorations has outdone my commercial dildo. Like any colon tube, it's easy to go through the sigmoid sphincter. So, there are few limits on 'distance'

I like a shea butter or a thin oily lube for these ventures. For me, the better (thicker) water based lubes seem to mask the more subtle feelings.

If you fabricate one of these, make sure you've got something like a right angle bend in the wire and the lower end of the tube, so that you know, at all times, where the end of the wire is in relation to the opening in the tube.

Another feature. When I wish to inject some lube behind a fold or in a distant spot, I just pull out the wire and use a lube shooter to inject the lube. Safety tip: I never re-insert the "insertion" wire into an already inserted tube. I pull out the tube, reinstall the stiffening wire then slide the whole business back in.

I can get 8 inches up my rectum with just a clean preparation when starting a session. Then I hit the wall.

.I can get an 18 inch double header (1.25 thick) all the way in with preparation, and a 2 liter enema to keep the rectum, sigmoid, and colon open. It is really neat to be able to feel the toy through my belly way up inside. I've found that stretching my anus with progressively larger toys makes deep penetration easier.

I have found that A&D ointment - used for baby's butts - is a great lube and helps sooth sore areas. It appears to be petroleum based so don't use it with rubber or latex.

I can take about 25cm ,but i love big and wide dildo to streatch my ass , then long and big hehe bitch am i ?

I have a slim 8" vibe that I use. Some days it goes right in with no discomfort, and other days it's a definite no go. It all depends on the individual.

I use a doppel silicone dildo that's around 16-18 inches long and most times I can get all but a few inches inside me.

I do that slight ache as it goes around the bend and pushes against colon but for the most part it is quite pleasant

I think there is a picture of it in my gallery. It's the long yellow one with the gentle bulges but no real "head" to it.

It's all about "Set&Setting" for me to psych into digesting big things. Length to diameter ratios seem part of it too. Some thicker ones tend to "go in easier&deeper" than skinnier ones. Same with tip diameter and "profile" shapes. I used to find a one liter plastic drink bottle with a trailer hitch cover silicone RTV glued over the bottle's cap- easy to squat sit on. I'd drift into Lamaze breathing relaxation and just slide effortlessly most of the way down. Call it maybe 8-10 inches of almost a foot length. I have a 20 cm rigid scope that is a bit trick y to angle in for comfortable around my curves- but it's a kick to accomplish.

I have also used pieces of the foam pipe insulation rolled into a less flexible rod, surgitaped to hold the shape- and covered by saran wrap, to get about 18+ inches in a few times.

The commercial big toys of LA Special and similar are nice for the same average depth, with a bit more diameter.

Deep play for me demands proper prep of course..

As previously said.........." if it hurts, stop !!"......each of us vary as to what is comfortable, and also it depends on what you're attempting to take, it's girth, the lube being ample enough........highly suggest liberal lubrication for deep attempts.......take your time, and if possible, rotate the item as you press in, it helps spread the lube around inside, and also, the body seems to accept it easier if turned while being pressed in. Over time and frequency, the size and depth one can enjoy does increase.

Enjoy !!!

Mitts

Are there any 1 1/4 inch by 18 inch dildos for sale online? I have only found the 1 1/2 inch diameter. It also must be very flexible-thanks for any help!

I have a set of anal beads with are 12" long. they are large and long. With enough lube, I can get the whole thing in. If I let them in long enough and I can relax, I feel them go up into my colon. I have also tried sausage. I get a 2 foot piece, lube it and slowly work it in. I've been able to get about 18" in, but it takes some doing. I even got the whole thing in with nothing sticking out.

. . . . I have also tried sausage. . . .

I hope it was cooked.

I would hate to think you would get a parasite or illness from raw sausage.

We have a TWENTYONE INCH colon tube & I can insert all of it. My F/B wants to try it tonight. Our playmate Nick is endowed with a beautiful 10 1/2 inches, I've taken it all, C has taken most of him. Dont forget, the rectum & colon are Stretchy... like the vagina. C&C

Wow!! All the good answers I got only 9 inchs in until it hurt did not go any farther