Before I decided I needed to start wearing pads I got the message when I accidentally wet myself in a B and Q store and then again a couple of weeks later in a Supermarket. Fortunately I was able to hide the wet area and I ended up finding Tena pads for men in the supermarket the same day. Felt a bit sheepish wondering round the sanitary protection area to find what I needed. Why don't they put the men's stuff somewhere else? I was so glad at the recent arrival of so many self checkout tills as I wouldn't have dared go through a staffed checkout with a Tena box and 'FOR MEN' written all over it.