Curious about sounds and catheters

For those that are having problems with burning, all the suggestions about lubrication are definitely correct, but no matter how much lube you use (and it HAS to be water-soluble lube!), it will still burn the first few times you try it. After you have been catheterized a few times, you will find it no longer burns at all. Try cathing 1 to 2 times/week and you will see that the burning will no longer occur after that.

Start with 14-16 French.

Does it hurt a lot to have it inserted because it looks painful. i dont know if i would do it but i agree that it would be just being used as a patient and someone taking advantage of you.

^^^^^ Hardly. Catheters are fun, have a really intense, great feeling, and that's why people do it, both solo and with a partner. You do have to use proper techniques, see above. It isn't a matter of one person taking advantage of another. Of course, if that really is the case, you could always end that relationship.

Anything inserted into your urethra sounds like it should be done by a true medical professional. The risk of serious injury or infection or both, seems to me just too great to ignore.

I got my first catheter while I was in the third grade. I woke up after my blind gut came out and had an catheter in my penis. The first days I wasn`t able to move so a nurse inserted me every day a Catheter (they cleaned that one which was in). At the beginning it burned like hell, but after the second time I begane too enjoy it when the nurse insertet the cath. Since then I´m into medical errotic, though the next time I got an cath. was years later.

Hamelfire...the more often you attempt catheter play, the greater the risk of infection. It's simple math. Although such a bacterial infection may not be life threatening, it sure makes you wish you hadn't inserted that last catheter. After about 24 hours, urinating will start to burn a little. After another 24 hours the intensity of the burn will increase and you will feel dry urges...wanting to go but nothing to piss out. After another day you'll start seeing cloudy swirls in your urine

and agonize over the burning pain while evacuating. You've now reached a point of calling a urologist, but its Friday evening and you can't get a hold of anyone. You go through sleepless nights, because the discomfort will keep you awake. You worry that your irritated urethral wall will somehow seal itself and you won't be able to take a leak at all. When you finally arrive at the urologist's, he'll have to send your urine sample to the lab to see what kind of bacteria has invaded you. That's right...there's more than one kind of bacteria that can create havoc with your urethra. There is no universal medication that will work on all bacteria. The doctor has to prescribe one that will kill the specific germ. That means more waiting time. There are no guarantees, no matter how careful you think you are, against not incurring an infection. Be careful out there.

^^^^ You must use sterile technique, and sooner or later you will get an infection. For many people, this is not enough reason NOT to play withy catheters, so BE CAREFUL. If you damage your own urethra, you will be mad at yourself, damage someone else's urethra, and that could damage a relationship if you aren't both aware of the risks and necessary precautions.

While playing with catheters can be done safely, and certainly falls (at least to me) under the category of SSC (Safe Sane and Consensual), you must also follow the RACK principle (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). The acronym, RACK was coined by a writer in Prometheus Magazine from TES about 5 years ago. It is crucial to understand the RISKS involved in your play activities, not to just tell your partner to go ahead and do whatever they like.

I had my first cath several years ago in a urologist's office. It wasn't painful, but stung a little. I found it mentally irritating, and not at all like fun. I had thought it might be interesting to feel something up my penis, and was not sure how to interpret things I had read about it-- "the urethra is very sensitive." It turns out to be a good description, but it is more like your eyes are sensitive, rather than being sensitive to sexual stimulation. The first pee afterwards really stings, but it was not unbearable. I think that medical fantacy may turn out to be more fun in fantacy than in reality.

Like he said sounds fun on paper and in real life it panful, but I still want to try it one day, all my luck it wouldnt, come out and have to get a dr to get it out.

what can I do for you to day? well Dr I kind of got this tub stuck some where and its not in plain sight and its not the butt...............

My wife had surgery at the end of last year and has had to self catheterize since. In the early days I had to help her until she got the hang of it. She was in a lot of pain from the surgery and so it was not a fun time. She uses one time catheter which are pre-packed and ready lube, sterile and very smooth. This could be a good way to start and seems pretty safe and easy to use. They do not stay in like a foley but you cane get used to the mechanics.

My wif has no interest in any of the topics on this forum - unfortunately. So I thought I would try one of her catheters on myself. Unfortunately the female versions are much shorter than the male so although I inserted it as far as it would go it did not vent any urine. It was an interesting sensation and I am sure done by a skilled nurse would be very enjoyable.

The neat thing about the one time use catheter the was no after sting.

Hope this helps.

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I get so excited thinking about having a large foley catheter put in. I have always felt like a freak thinking that there probably is not any other people out there that gets off on kinky medical procedures. I was excited to find this site

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ergirljen,

Welcome to the community 😃 No, you are not the only person to enjoy the pleasure of a catheter gently easing its way in, stimulating all the way.

Speaking for myself and others who are here for the real purpose of communicating with others who enjoy our various medical fetishes and learning from each other by sharing our thoughts and experiences, you will find some genuinely nice people, take it slow and easy(the way I like my enemas & catheters..pun intended)and you will find them. Again, welcome 😃

GN

I too have a catheter fetish,although I have yet to find someone to play with. I have used a open ended one were the uine trickled out onto my panties constantly. I also find it very erotic too how it can be blocked of so it can't come out and als have tha bladder filled. thought I was strange now I know im not,

Hi...I would like to comment about this from a guy's point of view. My wife knows that I dislike her going to a guy for a doctor but, she had to have some urological tests done and went to one anyway. I was mad as hell when I found out but am turned on at the same time. I don't think that she liked having it done but, I fantasize about it constantly, with her feet up in those stirrups and legs spread and a catheter sliding up into her. I thought I was weird but am very relieved to know that there are others that feel like me.

It's nice to know that there are ladies that enjoy it. I enjoy daydreaming about seeing it being done.

When I have visited people in the hospital, have seen people walking around carrying a catheter bag. I have always wondered what it might feel like to walk around the hospital with a Foley catheter in. I am guessing that for some it is painful and for others it is stimulating. Would like to experience this feeling at some point.

Im another female that likes cathether play. Ive only done it twicw during play exams but i loved it. I guess its the loss of control of such a common bodily function as urinating. It really gave me a burning feeling when he took it out but didnt last long. Loved it Cant wait till my next play exam

rikki

I am a male who also enjoys caths as well as having my bladder filled with 500-750 c.c.'s of cold water. Any women who have taken and enjoy bladder enemas?

I agree. By all means let her catheterize you. You may well find the sensations pleasant, and the enhancement of trust and cooperation between you will enrich the relationship and may spark a whole new dimension in your love making! Good luck!

I had a cathater inserted by a urologist about two years ago because I had a bladder infection. The procedure was not painful at all since the doctor used some type liquid anestetic. There wasn't any discomfort either. He is a pretty good urologist.

My first cath was in the hospital right after awakening from having several intestinal polyps removed. The surgeon had apparently used a local anesthetic as well as general, but the local prevented me from urinating eventhough I had a very full bladder from the saline IV drip. I buzzed for the nurse and she came in, but said that the doctor had not left any orders for me to be cathed. That began an excruciating 30-45 minutes trying to locate the doctor to get authorized for a cath. All this time my bladder was near exploding because of the saline drip still running. The nurses finally got someone to approve the putting in the cath. The insertion was quick after the nurse lubricated the cath, and it felt so good to have my bladder pressure released. The cath was removed after 4 hours when they thought I regained control of my bladder muscles. The removal was like an 'uncomfortable tickle', and the first void after the removal did burn a bit.

Mine was in my mid 20s after some minor surgery, like the other poster. Because of the local anesthesia, a couple of hours after the operation I hadn't urinated yet, so they told me they would have to. (I think part of my problem going was them telling me I would need to.) Back in those days they still had male orderlies, so they asked me if i wanted a male or female to do it. Back then I was really embarrassed by something like that and couldn't imagine having a female do it, so i asked for a male. If it were today, no question I'd ask for a female. (Of course these days, they probably wouldn't offer me a choice.)

I don't remember it being painful, just humiliating.

Had one first when I gave birth and I have to say I found it quite wonderful. It made all the pressure go away and I felt quite comfortable and secure knowing that was taken care of!

Like squishy, I had my first when giving birth ... it was not uncomfortable, but I was amazed to feel more exposed having the cath inserted than I ever did when being checked to see how dilated I was. Lying flat with your knees spread wide and bent just exposes all of you ... somehow, I felt less naked when everyone was watching the baby come out! Weird!

Mine was very uncomfortable. I had had hemoriod surgery that day and could not urinate for over 8 hours. My wife took me to the emergency room. On the drive there every bump in the road I thought I would bust. The nurse did not use anestetic and it really burned going in.

I haven't tried it on my own yet, but I want to eventually. I had to be cathed multiple times during my pregnancy for a clean catch urine sample to check for protein. I remember one time I was in the observation room and it had 2 beds, they brought another girl in to be observed too and she was fighting with them because she didn't want a cath, well our doctor's standard procedure was to cath anyone with blood pressure problems to check for protein since any type of contamination can throw it off and give false results. I remember just kinda laughing to myself as she screamed from getting it, it's honestly not that bad.

It is a very awkward feeling, and it might even burn a little, but some people do get turned on by it. I am still waiting to try it for pleasure, but I've had quite a few when I was younger. Once when I had a car wreck and they thought I broke my neck, but I couldn't have an xray til I got a pregnancy test, and I couldn't get off the back board to go pee until I got the xray. It sucked because I used to volunteer at this same ER and one of my favorite nurses had to cath me, it was embaressing because I had never had one before, but it wasn't that bad, other than it burned after it was out.

I would suggest a 14FR (5cc balloon)latex cath to start with.. hooked to a leg bag. The 100% silicone catheters have a little less flexibility(stiffer).. Leave it in for a day & drink lots of water -- I'm sure you want to do it again soon.

A good (and lower cost) start might be to use a straight rubber catheter (not an inflatable foley) which can be bought for less than $2. Be sure to use plenty of lube. If you find this ok and want to leave it in for awhile, tear up some surgical tape into thin strips and tape (laterally) the cath onto the head of the penis. Four pieces at 12, 3, 6, and 9 o'clock should do it. There are pre-lubricated straight caths too (Reusch and others) that you hold under the faucet to wet down which activates the lubricant.

But ultimately, if you want to leave the cath in, a foley is the best way to go. Personally, I find the 14 french sizing to be uncomfortable as it tends to drag and pull on the urethra opening. With the larger size caths, this doesn't seem to be a problem, but that's just me.

I think it really helps to know what to expect - because sometimes pain can feel like pleasure if you just relax and let it.

ned40 is absolutely right - it is more sensitive than your vagina and having it treated/explored is far more intimate.

Please do let us know how it goes - I'd love to read how it felt and how you felt about your bf after..

Worked at a walkin clinic and expressed curiosity to the nurse.

She offered to cath me after hours.

That evening I put on a gown and was taken into the GYN room, she gently placed my feet in the styrrups and cleaned and preped me.

Then she opened the catheter and loobed the head of my penis and the catheter.

Ever so slowly she twisted and insterted the cath. When she got to the prostate the feeling was unbelievable and then on past into the bladder.

Afterwards she removed it slowly and told me to wait as long as I could before peeing.

After the second or third pee everything was back to normal.

Would have loved to cath her but no such luck.