My girlfriend will give herself one, how do I get her to let me give her one?

Girlfriend is 48, I am 37. She has 2 full grown and long out of the house children. I know she had given her kids enemas when sick or constipated and I know she gives them to herself (Fleet disposables) when she is constipated, and with her medications she takes, it happens somewhat often.

As you might have read in my replies to others topics, she is old fashioned southern, but not religiously so. She yells at me if I enter the master bedroom when she is peeing in the master bath behind a closed and locked door. Anal sex is NEVER going to happen with her either.

I just bought my 1st bag in over 5 years and gave myself a good cleaning last night. She wanted to know what was taking me so long in the bathroom, because I normally can be in and out in under 3 minutes taking a poop, good wipe with TP and wet wipe, and wash my hands thoroughly. So I told her. The look on her face. She knew I wasn't constipated so I told her the truth. I like them because the make me feel clean and me feel good.

So, how do I go from being barred from the adjacent room when peeing, to sticking a hose up her ass? I doubt that I would get her to do me, but it is a remote possibility. I know I need to get her comfortable with idea of her giving me one and seeing that it is not weird first. Then tackle her letting me give her one too.

But how?

Rocky

Well you planted the seed. i'm sure she's thinking about you giving yourself one. my guess is that she'll have to do you first before that goes anywhere, good luck.

After reading several of the post on here, i can't believe how complicated it is for some people... but then i've been married for over 20 years... if i want to try something new with my wife i just ask.... there are 3 possible answers... yes, no, maybe...

Why not just ask ?

say - I want to try something new, i think it may be erotic... have you ever thought about trying.... blah blah blah....

the worst that could happen is a no... or like my wife... she doesn't like them unless needed... but she'll give me a fill if i ask for it... or i play the constipation card...

if you already know she takes them, then why not just ask her... just tell her the next time she needs one, you'd like to help her out and give her one... because you love her just that much... it's the least you could do for her....

why beat around the bush, when you can shave it off 😃

I agree with Liquid why don't you just if you can help her out with them. You might find out that she will be open to it.

Rocky,

Good luck.................sometimes the obvious answer isn't always the easiest solution to get to - time and patience may be your best ally in the long run!

I agree.you need to be honest and let her know what you would like.after all the worst thing that could happen would be her saying no and you having to do it on your own.good luck.

Wow Liquid - you are so wise, and so right!!!

And all I want to add, is never underestimate the power of saying yo your partner:

"Please... It would make me so hot to *blankety blank* with you. You are so sexy!"

Sometimes, flattery gets you EVERYWHERE!!! *wink*

There are a few statements you make that really stand out:

1) She uses Fleets

2) She believes in privacy in the toilet

3) She gave you a weird look when you confessed to her

4) She isn't interested in anal sex

Therefore

You are not getting anywhere near her with an enema bag, let alone do you. Accept it and move on!

^^^^ There is a good likelihood that Lance is correct, at least for a while. Maybe a long while.

I agree with lance, if you get 2 through 3, and you have to have an emate, adults are set in thier ways,move on.

Well unfortunately I'm afraid Lance is right. But I would try anyway. She may be secretly wanting you to give them to her but is afraid to ask. Does she leave the used fleets where your sure to see them?

Hmmm... we share the same name..

Have you tried to talk to her about it?

I agree with Lance; some things are not possible --- enjoy what you have the fullest and all will be fine.